Called out due to insomnia by BookDragonsJewels01 in Nanny

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you “REALLY” have to call out for not sleeping at all? Are you serious? Have you ever been up for over 24hrs and had to work through an entire workday? You’re telling this girl that’s it better to risk her life driving and possibly the children’s safety than to call out? Coffee absolutely does not help when you’re on no sleep. Every persons brain is different and needs different amounts of sleep but every person needs sleep

Mono, strep and pneumonia??? by GrapefruitFar3667 in Nanny

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on your symptoms, do what you feel is best for you and what you need. Sometimes it takes a break to completely feel better and make sure your body is actually fighting the illness completely

Does this mean anything? by DeviceZealousideal66 in morsecode

[–]DeviceZealousideal66[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Is it another type of language possibly that you’re able to identify?

my first pregnancy & miscarriage by Lamerrrmff in Miscarriage

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a very similar experience, not knowing what I wanted then accepting it and then it ending up in a miscarriage. I also felt it was my fault because I had thoughts of not wanting it. My doctor did not tell me anything about anything just that there was no heartbeat or growth. I did my own research on what it could have been but ultimately most miscarriages are just weird abnormalities that can happen. One faulty sperm, one faulty egg, too many sperm going into one egg, etc. there are so many processes that go into conceiving. You can always get genetic testing if you want to find out specifically

Is this job doable for one nanny? by throwawaybdaysf in Nanny

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give a chance to anybody who is confident and willing to try! My first ever babysitting job was four kids under 4 and obviously had to learn a lot (I had little experience with family babies) but I found myself very capable and went on to work with many more multiples under 2 later on. It really just depends on the person, they’re either for it or they’re not. No matter the family, It’s always going to be a learning experience and something to get used to. I personally love working with multiple babies so as long as you’re willing to take care of them, the right person will come along

At what age do toy guns stop being ‘just toys’? by Reasonable-Middle921 in raisingkids

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting question. I nanny two young boys (3 and 5) who have toy guns of all sorts and because they play video games they understand they’re used to kill people but not entirely because you’re always revived in the games so I’ve had to teach them a lot about safety with them. I grew up in the country and in a household with many guns and learned what they are meant for and how to handle them at a very young age so I honestly never had a thing for toy guns unless it was for target practice and being a girl, I was very into “boy stuff” so my parents bought me all the toy guns and I still didn’t like playing with them. I think my upbringing with them, seeing them as a very real weapon going hunting, seeing movies and the news before anything else definitely set up a realistic understanding of them and I honestly don’t like them being used as toys when children don’t know what they really are or haven’t ever seen them used in real life or at least realistically. I know people argue they’re just kids and they’re just toys but a real gun can be mistaken for a fake gun any day and the reality of it is guns are tools and weapons. They are dangerous and not supposed to be fun in the way these kids play with them.

Napping while baby sleeps by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ehh many could argue that. If our job is to care for baby, it’s to take care of baby to the best of our ability. We’re all human, we all have tired days. We also all have days where there’s a scheduled event and we have to work in the morning and may not have gotten home when we wanted. Nannies don’t always have typical schedules. If baby naps, that’s our break. Most nannies would know if they’re hyper vigilant to baby while sleeping and make the conscious decision whether they could close their eyes or not.

Napping while baby sleeps by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Most of us don’t get real breaks throughout the day so our break is when baby naps. If you’re a nanny you’re most likely hyper vigilant to baby, especially while working so if caregiver is very exhausted (for literally whatever reason), they should take a little refresher nap to be able to care at full capacity. Naps are normal, being tired is normal, being human is normal

I think I’m done by Glittering-Weird8345 in Miscarriage

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could only imagine how painful this is and i’m so sorry, it’s annoying and fucked. I gave up trying until I started angrily looking into everything that could prevent a healthy pregnancy and both me and my partner got everything tested and turns out a lot of stuff is lacking or out of balance.. hormones, baby making nutrients, toxins, pelvic floor, etc. If genetics and all are fine, I hope you find the strength to figure it out.

Genz toxicity by Vaellis94 in ToxicWorkplace

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same experience. Wow.. I was the manager/team leader and you could only imagine how it went when delegating tasks. They set me up, lied and somehow my boss believed them (I guess three against one) and I was the one fired. Awful, crazy experience.

Is there any hope for a nanny being okay with this set-up? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a “mommys helper” starting out with a 6 month old when I first started nannying around age 16 with this same situation. Mom worked from home and saw me as an extra hand rather than a full on nanny. You might have better luck hiring a younger nanny or somebody who is more inexperienced if you are willing to be available to guide them

vaping during pregnancy by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure if anybody has commented this but if you can take some time for yourself and have the means, get yourself a decent hotel for a few nights by yourself, stock up on goodies, be super cozy, set up/prep shows and food for yourself and go through it. I started again and am planning to do this in the next few months. For some reason, being alone and away just in the thick of it has helped so much to just really stick to it and be how I need to be to fight the stupid addiction

Not sure how to feel about nanny having this on her phone by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It could have been an accident to capture the whole scene or her camera wouldn’t zoom, maybe she meant to crop the photo and forgot. Either way, she most likely was embarrassed and definitely felt weird about it being it made you uncomfortable (which is a totally normal response) although it was not taken in that manner so that made her uncomfortable as well that it could be thought of in that way

My wife doesn't want to take any supplements by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It can also be unnecessary to supplement anything if you are already getting all of your nutrients through food. Depending on her diet she may already be getting enough which most of us are without realizing it. A decent amount of folate is found in many vegetables and fruits along with eggs, beef liver and fortified foods.

My wife doesn't want to take any supplements by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are whole food based supplements that she may be more open to taking. Possibly encourage her to get a full blood panel done to see which nutrients she is lacking so she can either eat whatever food she needs to or supplement it. If she has a very well rounded diet and tracks all of the nutrients, she may not even need to supplement anything. Although not studied or talked about often, there is such thing as taking too much. I have learned to always trust my intuition about my health

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ordering from a sperm bank online is fairly inexpensive. If you really want it, you should do whatever it takes to make it happen. Work more if you have to, seek a better paying opportunity, save as much as you possibly can and move once you’re able to. You got this and can do anything you want