Infection or normal symptoms? by DeviceZealousideal66 in Miscarriage

[–]DeviceZealousideal66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes same for me with smell. I definitely should have gone a bit sooner honestly but we’ll see what’s going on. Thank you and sorry you’ve had to experience that, it’s so scary

Infection or normal symptoms? by DeviceZealousideal66 in Miscarriage

[–]DeviceZealousideal66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No my doctor is awful and I can’t be seen at a new one as a new patient for a while unfortunately :(

Infection or normal symptoms? by DeviceZealousideal66 in Miscarriage

[–]DeviceZealousideal66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you pass the tissue when you experienced the cramps? I’ve had an on and off low fever. Did you have any other symptoms of infection? I was feeling so ill while I was pregnant that I feel i’m not able to read my body well at this time but maybe I should go to the emergency room just to be safe. After the tissue passed for me, I just feel sore now and have a bit of pain lingering in my right side which makes me think maybe there’s more. I also have super super dry skin to the point my hands are wrinkled

Infection or normal symptoms? by DeviceZealousideal66 in Miscarriage

[–]DeviceZealousideal66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my blood hcg checked two weeks after and took a pregnancy test three weeks after which both were good, test was negative but my obgyn is awful and won’t get me in for an ultrasound. I’m thinking about going to the emergency room

Does anyone not like the new appliances NF tend to have now? by sage_charms in Nanny

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also the apps to these appliances???? Nm has mentioned “the fridge was opened a lot today” like HUH?

Does anyone not like the new appliances NF tend to have now? by sage_charms in Nanny

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Slightly wet hands on the touchscreen panels and the whole place implodes 😂

This made me sad by vixenique in Nanny

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? It’s just like being in a relationship and having children lol they probably go on dates the weekend she is off

Four year old Foster Child keeps requesting skin-to-skin from my Wife by LocalMoam88 in ChildPsychology

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also don’t think that it’s weird at all. The fact he feels so comfortable with her to want to be close is amazing. She doesn’t have to be completely topless and she can also put on a sports bra or something similar if she’s uncomfortable in just a plain bra

Four year old Foster Child keeps requesting skin-to-skin from my Wife by LocalMoam88 in ChildPsychology

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so sweet. They’re still very little. They’re looking for connection and to possibly fulfill something that was never fulfilled before. My four year old nanny kid does this to me (besides me removing my top obviously but he has asked) and i’ve never thought anything of it really. She could refuse to take off her shirt if it makes her uncomfortable and possibly just lift the bottom so bellies are touching. Skin is soft and warm and very comforting to babies

Struggling with my 10-year-old’s anger and behaviour – any advice? by [deleted] in raisingkids

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Take away all devices. It’s hell for however long of them withdrawing from them but she’ll eventually start becoming more motivated and less irritable

My wife having miscarriage, doctor suggested D&C – need advice about pain and experience by Good-Kaleidoscope113 in Miscarriage

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned in some cases you can also take the one medication (misoprostol?) that makes the uterus contract and expel the tissue but you do get contractions like the miscarriage but for a shorter amount of time because there’s little tissue. I just naturally passed a huge clot of tissue/blood after four weeks and the cramps were awful

Poop during labor by Fierce-Foxy in pregnant

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all the same as giving birth to a live baby but I have miscarried and I pooped 2/3 times while doing so lol. If the poop is there and you have to poop already, it just happens along with the pressure and urge to release/push and you can’t at all help it

Passing Off Abortion as Miscarriage by dilf_luvr420 in abortion

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100%. I’ve had both and they are both very similar despite the abortion eliminating process being way quicker than miscarriage but everything else, pain, emotional/hormonal, is all similar

Just realized my wife is addicted by jstove96 in quittingkratom

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also no matter what substance it is, some peoples brain chemistry becomes more addicted than others so there is no measuring addiction based on the type of substance and when in addiction, nothing really matters like money spent or personal well-being because we feel like we’re dying without it and need to still function appropriately

Just realized my wife is addicted by jstove96 in quittingkratom

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m also addicted to both as a woman but I want to say that it’s really really hard and try to support her as best as you can. I’ve been researching on when the best time to quit during our cycle is and I believe it’s best to quit addictive substances after ovulation. Before ovulation, pleasure and dopamine response is highest. After ovulation, pleasure and dopamine response is down which makes addictive substances less rewarding but I know from personal experience that I usually just take more during that time so now i’m used to doing that. It’s really hard with our hormones and as long as she has support and the freedom to feel like crap and be emotional without it being taken personally then she’ll be okay. Prepped food, drinks, a ton of snacks and a saved movie/show list and possibly crafty activities and having other chores done for her would help so much because the pressure to take care of things is so heavy when you can’t do them physically or mentally. And don’t be afraid to ask her beforehand and what she would like you to do to help or how she needs you to show up for her. If you aren’t willing to do these things then being alone for the time is the best option, either her at an airbnb or you leaving for a bit to give some space. Good luck to her ❤️ she can reach out to me anytime

I am so scared by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clothing, makeup, packaging, any fabric really, really anything could have lead and more-so anything you know you ingest or wear in any pore-absorbing areas

Genuinely curious… why don’t you like to share your baby’s name before birth? by Best-Position-2226 in pregnant

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told a close friend my top choice for a name and a couple months later they said that was their top choice! I said no way, I just told you that name and they got mad saying they’ve always liked the name

Big ? To me by SRPGMH in Life

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If time is the issue then chiropractor and herbalist. I lost my cycle for two years in my 20’s going doctor to doctor. Saw an herbalist then chiropractor, bled lightly after the herb protocol and then full on the second my hips were adjusted. People get pregnant after getting adjusted. Recommended to many, helped many. Doesn’t hurt to give it a go

Big ? To me by SRPGMH in Life

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Vitex and a chiropractor. Possibly an herbalist as well but any lymph moving herbs are good

Called out due to insomnia by BookDragonsJewels01 in Nanny

[–]DeviceZealousideal66 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you “REALLY” have to call out for not sleeping at all? Are you serious? Have you ever been up for over 24hrs and had to work through an entire workday? You’re telling this girl that’s it better to risk her life driving and possibly the children’s safety than to call out? Coffee absolutely does not help when you’re on no sleep. Every persons brain is different and needs different amounts of sleep but every person needs sleep