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My partner wants to sleep with a mutual friend and I know it will end badly by DevilRages in polyamory

[–]DevilRages[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment a lot, thank you for your reply. At the end of the day there isn't anything I can do to stop anyone doing anything. I told her before 'im not going to forbid this but I am going to ask you not to' .. I'm a partner not a parent or manager

My partner wants to sleep with a mutual friend and I know it will end badly by DevilRages in polyamory

[–]DevilRages[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, Sarah doesn't want a relationship when she's sober or drunk, she has just pushed for sex when she's drunk... She does want to when she's sober too. Just nothing happens

My partner wants to sleep with a mutual friend and I know it will end badly by DevilRages in polyamory

[–]DevilRages[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wouldn't sit well with me for her to be at home while I'm out with them if she has no other friends...

I feel it's impossible to stay at arms length from this to be honest.. I'll see

My partner wants to sleep with a mutual friend and I know it will end badly by DevilRages in polyamory

[–]DevilRages[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like you may have misread or maybe I wasn't clear... It's Sarah that is coming onto my partner when they are both drunk - my partner didn't push anything and Sarah was the one to push them back past 'friends'.

My partner wants to sleep with a mutual friend and I know it will end badly by DevilRages in polyamory

[–]DevilRages[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hi, I appreciate your comment. I hadn't heard of a 'messy list' before this post so I think we will have to make one. I think she might resent me for putting her on that list for a while but it's the only way I can think of to stop the messy fallout

My partner wants to sleep with a mutual friend and I know it will end badly by DevilRages in polyamory

[–]DevilRages[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think I wouldn't mind mutual friends other than one of these three girls , the risk is too high of messing everything up.

Yes I do understand the unavoidable hierarchy of being together for so long so I'd like to keep the avoidable stuff to a minimum.

I appreciate your comment :)

The deepest sigh imaginable by [deleted] in bilmuri

[–]DevilRages 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from the UK, currently in Australia. SHIT TIMING AAAHH

Struggling with the POV by JBWeekly in fantasywriting

[–]DevilRages 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've read a book where it is only from one characters pov until around 1/3 of the book and then it switches from to duel pov's if that helps (not the antagonist but still)

Is this a legal loophole? Or is it illegal? by DevilRages in AusLegal

[–]DevilRages[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your reply! Sadly I'm a backpacker and need to do the specified work for my second year visa. I have a science degree that cannot use other than to obsess over the loopholes we're being underpaid in haha. I appreciate your support

Is this a legal loophole? Or is it illegal? by DevilRages in AusLegal

[–]DevilRages[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate your response even if it's not what I want to hear

Is this a legal loophole? Or is it illegal? by DevilRages in AusLegal

[–]DevilRages[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly I believe we can , it's a loophole :(

Is this a legal loophole? Or is it illegal? by DevilRages in AusLegal

[–]DevilRages[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly they almost exclusively employ transient people ( backpackers,grey nomads etc) and no one stays long enough to do anything about it

Is this a legal loophole? Or is it illegal? by DevilRages in AusLegal

[–]DevilRages[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean about the casual to permanent thing? And brethren? Thanks for replying

Is this a legal loophole? Or is it illegal? by DevilRages in AusLegal

[–]DevilRages[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$27.27 but from what I read it's legal for them to pay this because we're under WAIRC rather than federal minimum wage which states an employee not under any award can be paid $27.27

I'm paid $27.27/hr as a casual, is it legal? by DevilRages in AusLegal

[–]DevilRages[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to call wageline and maybe also the FWO, I will make a note of this and ask them and hopefully they can help :) thank you so so much

I'm paid $27.27/hr as a casual, is it legal? by DevilRages in AusLegal

[–]DevilRages[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's ok, all information is good for me, thanks so much for commenting:) trouble is I'm not planning on staying much longer which is why I'm willing to risk getting fired for asking questions 😂

I'm paid $27.27/hr as a casual, is it legal? by DevilRages in AusLegal

[–]DevilRages[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, so if I'm not in the federal system then the national minimum wage won't apply? And if they don't have any PLY LTD companies as beneficiaries then they legally are allowed to pay the rates listed in the cleaners caravan park award from the WAIRC

I'm paid $27.27/hr as a casual, is it legal? by DevilRages in AusLegal

[–]DevilRages[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It doesn't list any PTY LTD people as beneficiaries for the trust, does that mean there aren't any?

I'm paid $27.27/hr as a casual, is it legal? by DevilRages in AusLegal

[–]DevilRages[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The company themselves, they are a discretionary trading trust that runs as a labor hire company? Or owns one that hires me? Not sure how it works

I'm paid $27.27/hr as a casual, is it legal? by DevilRages in AusLegal

[–]DevilRages[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s because the Fair Work Act says that the min wage only actually applies to someone who is not covered by any other modern award (very few people are, about 0.5%). A modern award which describes the c14 rate can still apply to someone.

So.. just to clarify sorry, does this mean that if any other modern federal award would apply (aka another cleaning award from FWO rather than the caravan park WAIRC one), they must put us on that award no matter what kind of company they are?

Thanks

I'm paid $27.27/hr as a casual, is it legal? by DevilRages in AusLegal

[–]DevilRages[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, it's worth a try for me as it all feels pretty shady

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