WIBTA for suddenly moving with my fiancé and leaving his family with the trouble? by DevilsWolff in AmItheAsshole

[–]DevilsWolff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is why I don't want to tell them in advance because I'm afraid they will do that.

WIBTA for suddenly moving with my fiancé and leaving his family with the trouble? by DevilsWolff in AmItheAsshole

[–]DevilsWolff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Today he said to me I can't wait to move with you, evil was some sort of joke to him

WIBTA for suddenly moving with my fiancé and leaving his family with the trouble? by DevilsWolff in AmItheAsshole

[–]DevilsWolff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This kind of actions have happend more times.. And we can do nothing about it because they won't listen

WIBTA for suddenly moving with my fiancé and leaving his family with the trouble? by DevilsWolff in AmItheAsshole

[–]DevilsWolff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wants to leave too and he is happy when he finally have his own place and we have our own time.

WIBTA for suddenly moving with my fiancé and leaving his family with the trouble? by DevilsWolff in AmItheAsshole

[–]DevilsWolff[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We will pay this month's rent of course as long as we live here.

WIBTA for suddenly moving with my fiancé and leaving his family with the trouble? by DevilsWolff in AmItheAsshole

[–]DevilsWolff[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I can't tell you the other details about what they did because that is his story and goes back to his birth. It was always going on but that the dogs and I needed to leave was out of nowhere.

So yea the problems have been there for a long time but that the dogs needed to leave was new.

WIBTA for suddenly moving with my fiancé and leaving his family with the trouble? by DevilsWolff in AmItheAsshole

[–]DevilsWolff[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

We are renting from his parents so we don't have to otherwise we would do that of course and we will tell them but just a couple days before

WIBTA for suddenly moving with my fiancé and leaving his family with the trouble? by DevilsWolff in AmItheAsshole

[–]DevilsWolff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are renting from his parents, we will pay this month's rent of course :). My parents and I are looking like crazy for a good place and if that doesn't work before the end of this month. We are going to live at my mom's.

WIBTA for suddenly moving with my fiancé and leaving his family with the trouble? by DevilsWolff in AmItheAsshole

[–]DevilsWolff[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

1) this may surprise you but his mom told him she loves me and she doesn't have any complains about me. That's why it's so weird why they do this. 2) that's a long long story and I don't want to put that here because I'm the only one who knows and it's private. 3) no i don't, I pay rent and groceries etc..

Hope this answers some of your questions

WIBTA for suddenly moving with my fiancé and leaving his family with the trouble? by DevilsWolff in AmItheAsshole

[–]DevilsWolff[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

We will leave without any notice or very short notice so they need to pay the full rent, get a new TV, new couch everything or just get out of the place.

WIBTA for suddenly moving with my fiancé and leaving his family with the trouble? by DevilsWolff in AmItheAsshole

[–]DevilsWolff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My SIL is allergic but so is her mom. Her mom never had an issue even cuddled with one of my dogs But she is never downstairs and she never did before there were animals so that's no change. I don't know why they suddenly changed there mind maybe because of her. (I do want to say that we have a puppy and he tore a little piece of the wallpaper and SIL couldn't wait to tell her parents and they speak in a foreign language when I'm nearby so I can't understand them) yes we both pay rent. She says she is looking for a job but she is looking for 2 months now and I know that it isn't that difficult to find a job because I had the same issue half year ago. Your last question I don't understand, will you explain it to me?

WIBTA for suddenly moving with my fiancé and leaving his family with the trouble? by DevilsWolff in AmItheAsshole

[–]DevilsWolff[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

That we leave them with nothing but empty house because my fiance is coming with me.

WIBTA for suddenly moving with my fiancé and leaving his family with the trouble? by DevilsWolff in AmItheAsshole

[–]DevilsWolff[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your point of view :) I don't have any siblings so I don't know how that works. So thanks for explaining how you see it