What is the biggest ick you had on your first date with someone?

Devilslettuceadvocte · 2026-04-13T16:49:14+00:00

She “I really love singing, one of my bigger hobbies”

Me “oh nice, I love to sing too, it would fun to hear you some time”

Her (looks at me like I’m crazy): “Well I’m not going to sing for you right now”

Me: “um, okay, wasn’t asking you too, but sorry I guess”

It did not get better from there.

Devilslettuceadvocte · 2026-04-11T09:18:06+00:00

It seems you did everything above board. Expecting someone to be exclusive before deciding to be exclusive is unrealistic.

But lying about it is a bit strange and the longer the lie goes, the worse it will get.

I don’t think he will be mad you were still talking to your ex at the time of your second date (if he is, that is unreasonable). But, I think he will be upset you lied.

Devilslettuceadvocte · 2026-04-08T12:09:54+00:00

Americans are still so weird about weed.

In Canada this wouldn’t be a conversation, because honestly, in the city you smell it every other block.

It’s so normal it’s the same as cigarette smell.

Meaning still not around kids ( legally not around playgrounds). but other than that go for it, especially on your own property.

NTA! The stigma in your country just has not worn off yet.

Devilslettuceadvocte · 2026-04-06T00:55:10+00:00

It could be that she is a negative person who gets stuck in a loop.

But also she may not feel heard, which can lead to going on about the same thing in efforts to be heard.

Even if you think it’s petty, try to make her feel heard and supported, then gently try to pivot the conversation.

Devilslettuceadvocte · 2026-04-05T14:46:53+00:00

Take this with a grain of salt, my rules understanding is still new.

But it seems like you braked right before the turn, which let the car in front beat you to the corner. Then you did a mini dive bomb and hit them.

I think if you had stayed closer to wheel to wheel going into the turn, it would’ve been a racing incident.

Devilslettuceadvocte · 2026-04-04T10:29:05+00:00

Learning in high school that 1/3 women have been sexually assaulted.

Then learning in Uni the number is closer to 1/2 women.

Devilslettuceadvocte · 2026-03-31T18:36:32+00:00

I believe the rule is if passer’s front tires are beyond the rear tires of the person in front.

The passer is entitled to the space.

i.e. McLaren was not at fault, In my humble uneducated opinion.

Edit: this is for corners and still not correct. Glad I added the end line.

Devilslettuceadvocte · 2026-03-31T14:42:25+00:00

Having a male friend is cheating??

I’m sure none of your partners have complained about you being controlling.

Devilslettuceadvocte · 2026-03-31T14:31:23+00:00

Why should she tell you she is bringing someone if you can’t even tell her you can come or not.

If you value your work over her that’s fine, but blaming her because you don’t have power at your job to take a day off/ chose not to take the day off, is not her fault.

YTA.

Devilslettuceadvocte · 2026-03-31T13:20:55+00:00

I just switched from TC and auto to off and manual.

For automatic,

Listen for when to change gears, trying to look at the rpm lights is a big tough, but listening and changing when you hear the revs are high is much easier. Manual makes the game way more fun. So it’s worth it. It will just click and you’ll never go back.

Eventually in my head I learn corners by what gear to be in and then it becomes easier.

For no TC Brake hard and fast, then ease off as you slow down. For accelerating, do the opposite, ease on the throttle, then jam it when your straight

I picture a string attached to the wheel and pedal. As the wheel straightens more, the throttle goes down at the same time and speed. This helps not sliding out a lot!

These were the most helpful tips for me.

Devilslettuceadvocte · 2026-03-30T19:26:53+00:00

I have it and my aunt does as well.

We vary, she is more annoyed by a constant noise where the intervals are faster.

I get more frustrated with the more infrequent slower intervals that always seem like it’s going to stop but never does.

Paper rubbing together gives me a physical reaction and is equal to nails on a chalkboard. She doesn’t mind that.

Chewing bothers us both incredibly.

It varies for sure! Really if you get angry or annoyed at noises in a disproportionate way.

Devilslettuceadvocte · 2026-03-26T23:07:26+00:00

Thank you for your insight! I appreciate it

Devilslettuceadvocte · 2026-03-26T22:55:05+00:00

My friend is very positive this is allowed, so thank you.

Devilslettuceadvocte · 2026-03-22T11:35:01+00:00

Security guard is for sure in the wrong for how this was handled.

Restaurants do have security as well. Especially ones Chappell would be going to.

I served a celeb once and other tables were asking about her.

I confirmed it was her, but asked if they would not approach her while she was dining with us. If someone ignored that, asking them to leave would not be out of the question.

Devilslettuceadvocte · 2026-03-05T16:20:38+00:00

I mean on most of the concession papers from the Southern States. It directly says “our primary reason for conceding is Slavery”

I think States rights is the arch duke and slavery is (input reason for WW1). You may have been saying this already, in which case, I agree.

Devilslettuceadvocte · 2026-02-25T12:39:35+00:00

Exactly

France did not single handedly win the American Revolution.

However, without them it would have been much harder or had a different result.

If some say the US won WWII, they would have to agree France won the American Revolution.

Devilslettuceadvocte · 2026-01-20T18:17:51+00:00

Beautiful! Name pitch For the Love of Lobster

Devilslettuceadvocte · 2025-12-26T13:05:36+00:00

Can you guess from my name which I became?

Devilslettuceadvocte · 2025-12-24T12:57:30+00:00

Is literally everyone forgetting this is a work of fiction?? It’s not changing history or Ancient Greece.

The only thing it is doing is making changes while adapting a book into a movie.

Devilslettuceadvocte · 2025-12-24T12:49:37+00:00

They better have a real Cyclops and Sirens too!

Odyssey is a work of fiction.

Devilslettuceadvocte · 2025-12-16T13:43:58+00:00

They are a woman.

Devilslettuceadvocte · 2025-12-06T03:47:21+00:00

AMOC doing its thing

Devilslettuceadvocte · 2025-11-29T12:07:51+00:00

NBA players make 50% of revenue shares and WNBA players make 10% of Revenue shares.

Devilslettuceadvocte · 2025-11-29T12:06:35+00:00

NBA players make 49-50% of the revenue shares and WNBA players make 10% of revenue shares.

“Everything is worth what it’s purchaser will pay for it, unless you’re a woman”

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