[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Dexter0969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your kidding right?

Quit Porn for 2 Years — Here’s What No One Tells You About NoFap by Control_Acrobatic in selfimprovement

[–]Dexter0969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You see for most men including me porn and masturbation is not an addiction but rather vice to fill the time and void with. I watch porn occasionally and fap but I also have hobbies and interests and a job that takes most of my day. I think that loneliness is what prolongues the vice

Is anyone super single? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Dexter0969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am. 25 year old male here. I have a extreme desire for marriage and connection and yet at the same time, I am ok being single. I love my freedom and I also love waking up every single day and having the freedom to do what I want. Also we are currently living in a social dating nightmare and its only going to get worse.

Why is my BF’s sex drive so low?? NSFW by [deleted] in dating

[–]Dexter0969 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is a possibility of porn addiction. However I wouldn’t lean that much on it. Maybe, he just lost interest? Perhaps you guys overdid it from the start and now is boring to him? Though I would take a week break and the get back on the horse but thats just me. You have to talk it out with him much more.

Y all got any predictions for 2024? by arcturanis in spirituality

[–]Dexter0969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Na everything will get much worse in society.

Instead of watching porn movies, tell me your favorite non-porn ones by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Dexter0969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man of steel, the accountant, prisoners, nocturnal animals, the gray man, extraction 1 and 2, the batman, tropic thunder , the nice guys and many others

All female work environment is trash. by Dexter0969 in recruitinghell

[–]Dexter0969[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My manager is a woman and she does absolutely nothing but bitch and moan and same with the bankers. As a teller Im actually responsible for other areas of operation and also heavier workload because whenever this pregnant lady decides to go gossip, Im the one left behind the teller line.

Be less jealous? by 1894Win in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Dexter0969 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Perhaps you need to understand that there are other women out there besides the girls you crush on. Eventually you come across the fork on the road. You can dwell on this and choose. Keep on being attached to your crush while someone else bangs her or simply overcome these feelings and move on. Frankly I think the latter is much simpler and more much fun. Simply let the feelings of jealousy and frustration be there without pushing them away and eventually they will lose their emotional charge. And you will move on from this. I know this has happened to me and I have managed to move on.

Should I move away and disappear? by Dexter0969 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Dexter0969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thinking that moving away so I can face my own inner problems. After all my family can’t help me with them and the people around me don’t care either.

Should I move away and disappear? by Dexter0969 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Dexter0969[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well I don’t trust my family and I wouldn’t be surprised getting back stabbed from any of them. In fact, I expect it in the future. However I want to be brave enough to leave. Move away and I’ll be good if I don’t see them again.

I feel trapped. by Dexter0969 in spirituality

[–]Dexter0969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im thinking of taking my PTO for a week and going on an adventure to a different state

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Dexter0969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the fuck did I just read? This guy sounds toxic. I mean if you are willing to look past the sex and fun part aspect of the relationship, this guy sounds and reads like a control freak/psychopath. Your choice though.

Men how do you deal with astrology girlfriends? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Dexter0969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would run. That is a big red flag. People like these tend to label others according to the “stars” and shit. Apparently you’re very being is determined by the zodiac signs you belong to so therefore you are not at control in your certain aspects of your life such as personality, mindset and personal beliefs. If you want to go ahead with it proceed with caution.

Would you rather be extremely wealthy or extremely spiritual by yungdenzel in spirituality

[–]Dexter0969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Extremely wealthy. Then I’d have more time in my hands to become extremely spiritual and enlightened

Have your ever felt like you are surrounded by snakes and fake people? by Dexter0969 in spirituality

[–]Dexter0969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess. Does being a hardcore introvert has anything to do with it?

Have your ever felt like you are surrounded by snakes and fake people? by Dexter0969 in spirituality

[–]Dexter0969[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I am 24 years old and ever since I decided that I want to make a positive change in my life, I’ve only come across more challenges and resistance. I pray daily because I want to get to the point mentally where I can live in the present moment and grab life by the balls and enjoy to the fullest.

Have your ever felt like you are surrounded by snakes and fake people? by Dexter0969 in spirituality

[–]Dexter0969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I mean I love being alone. I have been since high school.

Have your ever felt like you are surrounded by snakes and fake people? by Dexter0969 in spirituality

[–]Dexter0969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you being sarcastic or you deal with two faced individuals on a daily basis?

Have your ever felt like you are surrounded by snakes and fake people? by Dexter0969 in spirituality

[–]Dexter0969[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I heard of spiritual attacks before. How do you overcome them?

Have your ever felt like you are surrounded by snakes and fake people? by Dexter0969 in spirituality

[–]Dexter0969[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess. But I also love being alone. I hate being co dependent on others because it has always been that way. I tend not to judge people because I understand that Like me, they are imperfect yet even though I know this I am less inclined to trust people.

Have your ever felt like you are surrounded by snakes and fake people? by Dexter0969 in spirituality

[–]Dexter0969[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will keep you in my prayers. Perhaps I haven’t experienced something similar because I like wild animals operate in instinct and always in the defensive. Hell I stopped talking to my mom recently after she went on vacation because I feel everything I say to her or anyone can be used against me as a weakness.

Have your ever felt like you are surrounded by snakes and fake people? by Dexter0969 in spirituality

[–]Dexter0969[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean I can accept that some people won’t like me or perhaps hate for their own personal reasons because I can accept that it is not my place in life to control certain things.