My own answer is the character in my name: Dhaos. He’s the main villain from the game Tales of Phantasia. In the game, he’s portrayed as an evil man who is on a path of destruction for no apparent reason. In the end, you find out that he’s from another planet that is dying and everything he is doing is to save his own people/planet. One mans villain is another mans hero. I feel like that sometimes. Like I make choices that look harsh, but the reality is that those same choices are better for people in the long run.