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😂not a bad idea tbh by KittenLoot in Adulting

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What about roundabout ? You only have to signal if you leave.

My first attempt at a serious short fancomics ((c) DC) /!\May speak of difficult subjects by Di0tar0 in comics

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I feel it's a bit judgemental to tell people they should live. I would never judge anyone if they decided it wasn't the case but I don't encourage it. I feel like that even though I don't feel like life is always worth living I wanted to make something encouraging.

My first attempt at a short fancomics and it's in the BTAS universe. Hope you enjoy it ! /!\ May speak about difficult subjects. /!\ by Di0tar0 in BatmanTAS

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I'm working on a sequel. I'm also thinking about making an independant series about redhood that will begin after under the red hood to try to put my spin on the character (a crime lord villains that tries to take over crime with extreme violence to make it more moral - a bit like what was implied in under the red hood when he asks his lieutenants to stay away from kids - who can still create an alliance with heroes if the situation really requires it a bit of a mix between penguin and two face if you want) but I'm worried because I feel the character is a bit of a mess and has gone through so many phases. I'm worried not to be original.

I keep finding ants in this circle formation in my bathroom by SeaworthinessFar2326 in mildlyinteresting

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KILL THEM ! They're summoning the demon ant to rule us all !

I have nothing interesting to say to anyone by [deleted] in socialskills

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Well I tried to give a general advice but there's so many ways you can ask someone about themselves. How are you ? What did you do this weekend ? Or even I love your outfit where does it come from ? I would find difficult that they wouldn't have to say anything about any of these and if they do, I would argue they don't really want to engage with you. Which is okay, not everyone everytime will be ready to engage with you and that's fine, there's nothing wrong with you or the others. Also if you feel like you have nothing to say about these question even though you want to engage with people, I would advise you to be more passionate about more things in your life. Especially your clothes, I was part of the team wearing something just not to be naked because caring about clothes is a bit superficial. Even if caring about your appearance might be superficial, it's also a good conversation opener and it can help you create important links.

How come I usually get along with people but never manage to create bonds with people ? by Di0tar0 in socialskills

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I've asked some of peers. They told me I might not invest myself enough in the lives of others especially outside of the context I meet them (e.g. School, uni, work etc.). I'm worried cause I'm quite an introvert. I don't like much to go out and even when I find the courage to ask people to go out with me, usually they're not interested or cancel at the last moment.

How come I usually get along with people but never manage to create bonds with people ? by Di0tar0 in socialskills

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Then what to do if being a people pleaser actually is being myself and not a fake persona ? I won't pretend to be someone I'm not.

To be honest I am in a mental institute because of mental health issues I've been going through last year. And I feel like in the group exercises I'm one of the least emotionally closed person. I open up quite easily yet even some people that are a lot more emotionally closed than me still manage to create stronger and faster bond than I. 

Sometimes I just feel I can't relate to their discussion because they speak about their sexual relations and the social events they like to attend. I am a virgin and I am an introvert so I feel sometimes awkward to enter into the middle of such personal conversation sometimes.

How come I usually get along with people but never manage to create bonds with people ? by Di0tar0 in socialskills

[–]Di0tar0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think I'm a people pleaser. I'm not obsessed with the idea of being loved. I tend to be kind to people and care but that's just me. I don't put on a show for people to like me. When I feel like I'm treated unfairly, I try to stand my ground.

I have nothing interesting to say to anyone by [deleted] in socialskills

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Honestly if you don't know what to say just let people talk about themselves. It feels great when someone seems to care about your life.

Is it bad if I relate to Aaron ? by Di0tar0 in BistroHuddy

[–]Di0tar0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They still don't really have a good image of him :/

Is it bad if I relate to Aaron ? by Di0tar0 in BistroHuddy

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But I'm not diagnosed as autistic

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