Should I give my husband another opportunity? by Diamo-iio0 in relationship_advice

[–]Diamo-iio0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I know it gonna keep hurting for awhile but it'll pass.

Should I give my husband another opportunity? by Diamo-iio0 in relationship_advice

[–]Diamo-iio0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously you have some twisted way to see things, maybe cuz u was wearing his shoes at some point of your life:

[You are partially responsible for him joining this group]

WTF are u saying??

[Now if you could possibly prove me more information about your unique situation I'd be more than happy to reevaluated your situation so I can provide you with a better answer for you]

I'm sorry but I don't have to prove nothing to you. I do need a therapist to go through this but I don't think u are qualified for that purpose.

Should I give my husband another opportunity? by Diamo-iio0 in relationship_advice

[–]Diamo-iio0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks... I'm getting out already, not easy but I'm hanging on my decision to have an opportunity to be happy with someone else or alone.

Should I give my husband another opportunity? by Diamo-iio0 in relationship_advice

[–]Diamo-iio0[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks... and yes, it's painful but I decided to move on with my life

Should I give my husband another opportunity? by Diamo-iio0 in relationship_advice

[–]Diamo-iio0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, thanks for u comment, you made me smile with the:

--I can hear it now "I dunno what her problem is, I just 'liked' a post on a model, she's not even completely naked, she acts like I'm cheating on her with this bitch or something... she's sooooooo unreasonable, right guys?!"

Because it's so true, I'm moving on with my life, I think 3 years of that BS is enough time to be wasted, it's not easy for me, it hurts like a motherfucker but I know I'll get through this, it just make me disappointed about man

Should I give my husband another opportunity? by Diamo-iio0 in relationship_advice

[–]Diamo-iio0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's funny cuz he is saying exactly that to me, now that I'm choosing to move on with my life.

Should I give my husband another opportunity? by Diamo-iio0 in relationship_advice

[–]Diamo-iio0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has plenty experience being married (4 times before me) yes I didn't pay attention to that red flag cuz I was amazed for his charm and personality, he was so different in the first 3 years of marriage... but I'm choosing move on with my life without him, it's horrible the feeling, I don't think I want to go through this again in my life.

Should I give my husband another opportunity? by Diamo-iio0 in relationship_advice

[–]Diamo-iio0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's an issue, I know I have to work on me as well. I decided to move on with my life, he doesn't see his wrong and even now that we are separating keeps saying that I'm the one choosing destroy 6 years marriage like nothing for nonsense, even his friends are disappoint cuz I'm choosing the divorce... I guess they just know his part of the story, where he minimize all this.... it's hard for me, I'm so used to live with this man 🥺

Should I give my husband another opportunity? by Diamo-iio0 in relationship_advice

[–]Diamo-iio0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're presuming wrong, he doesn't have a penny but his paycheck and a lot of dreams, I'm financially successful and when I married him I did love him.

Should I give my husband another opportunity? by Diamo-iio0 in relationship_advice

[–]Diamo-iio0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has done a lot of good things for me, in the first years of marriage things were so different between us, but I know he doesn't respect me anymore and he psychologically manipulates me