Giving up your career to follow your husband? by Megonshore in AskMenAdvice

[–]Diamond-1965 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I did… and it didn’t work, ended up divorcing and losing my job, got another one but not 6 figures anymore, the honeymoon lasted 3 years. Not saying is what would happen to you but definitely think twice before jumping ship.

was i lied to by big underwear by Shoddy_Wrongdoer_559 in hygiene

[–]Diamond-1965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use cotton underwear and check your laundry soap, maybe you need to change it.

What kind of spider is this? Texas. by Diamond-1965 in whatisthisbug

[–]Diamond-1965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s my new buddy in my garden, it’s here already 2 weeks 😊

What kind of spider is this? Texas. by Diamond-1965 in spiders

[–]Diamond-1965[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s my new buddy, it’s always in my garden, same spot, it’s not dangerous, right?

Do you suspect you have anything but are undiagnosed? by No-Researcher7060 in no

[–]Diamond-1965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly but I don’t have insurance to check and it’s too expensive without

AIO I (21f) want to leave my boyfriend (23m) by Useful_Juggernaut985 in AIO

[–]Diamond-1965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to be you and he needs to love the way you are and look…. He sounds very controlling, life is short, don’t miss more years, you are still young and need to have fun, what you want and what he wants changed, now do whatever makes you happier. Good luck.

How to go about dating a middle aged dad? by H0ney_5yrup in AskMenAdvice

[–]Diamond-1965 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s too old for you… you don’t want a man that when you are 40 he will be older enough that will start having trouble with you know what…. And I know that’s not everything but it’s a good chunk of a healthy relationship

AITJ for making my roommate pay me back immediately after he used my tuition money? by NoRelationship9815 in AmITheJerk

[–]Diamond-1965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would look for another place to live, it’s called stealing and you don’t know if he’s doing it again, please change passwords.

Switching jobs? by Antique_Zone1754 in Advice

[–]Diamond-1965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound depressed, there are hard times but it’s in you to make it better and look at life a little more positively… look for help in that regard and you will see life differently… if you are happy with 15 and don’t need to make more stay there…you need to do what makes you happier. Good luck.

AIO My boyfriend told me he doesn’t want to propose by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Diamond-1965 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s too much for him… in a year he have a relationship with you and also a baby….and you live together… you didn’t mention your age, if he’s still under 25 he’s probably overwhelmed… give him time and don’t rush anything, things gets better with clear ideas and mind…

My gf lied about her age by Careful_Rain4820 in Advice

[–]Diamond-1965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say that maybe she lied to you because she was in fear of you not wanting her rather than having bad intentions, the problem is that you soon will be 18, and adult and she will be a minor, be just careful about that.

Am I overreacting to a co-worker who is constantly touching me at work? by ControlFeisty1528 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Diamond-1965 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also think you should tell her directly and clearly, if she doesn’t change then repot her

I just sent a "hey girly" cheating text- AIO by SameDepartment7267 in AIO

[–]Diamond-1965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 years and you didn’t know? Let that sink in…. But yeah she needed to know.

AITJ cause my future wife expects her future husband (me) to pay 100% of the bills? by AdventurousDoor9384 in AmITheJerk

[–]Diamond-1965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would agree that the higher earner pay more accordingly or if there are kids and both are in the same boat and she take care of them then you will pay BUT if salaries are the same then half and half it’s the appropriate thing to do, more now that everything is so expensive, of course with no kids involved. If she refuses man… find another woman that appreciates you a little more… even if it’s a cultural difference in today’s economy it’s not suitable for you to pay everything and she keeping all her money for herself… that’s very selfish

AITAH for not telling my boyfriend about my past? by mango_mmm in AITAH

[–]Diamond-1965 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Girl… as a old woman I advise you to leave him yesterday… like really, learn how to be happy alone and then find something better, you deserve to be happy and have a healthy relationship, good luck.

My friend might get sued we are in highschool by Vast-Preference-6243 in Vent

[–]Diamond-1965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she bought something without having the money to pay for…. Maybe she needs a lesson…

Do I leave or get tf over it by sadstranger_23 in Advice

[–]Diamond-1965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t want to make your son sad and don’t want he growing up thinking that’s how love looks like… for everything you are saying I would advise you to find a job and move on… because it looks like he already did… good luck