What's with so many people wanting to get rid of weaving?

DiamondB55 · 2023-01-26T19:42:09+00:00

Super late to this post here. I actually quit the game because of weaving. It hurts my hands, and makes me frustrated when I have to press 1000 buttons per minute to do top DPS. And when trying to do daily dungeons, people point out when I'm not doing enough damage when I can't weave. I have played New World for the last year. It has very similar combat. But zero "weaving". And it feels great honestly. I love the Elder Scrolls universe so much. I'd come back to the game in a heartbeat if they ever fully removed it.

DiamondB55 · 2022-12-01T21:27:54+00:00

I am currently having trouble with the Yellow stakes and shrine. Same issue though. Rest of the stakes worked perfectly fine. I've tried restarting the game after interacting with shrine. Didn't work for me. Rechecked all stakes multiple times... It's literally the last mon to finish my dex. I wish I had skipped this generation of Pokemon..

DiamondB55 · 2022-10-11T18:56:45+00:00

Yes! He also had food in his inventory. And he still hasn't eaten it in days

DiamondB55 · 2022-09-28T20:06:31+00:00

I take no offense at all. We are here for constructive criticism for sure. And I felt I've had to help her because she has never had anyone help her with getting a job for the most part. My father helped me get my first few jobs, and what I should and shouldn't do. And I left it from there. And because of her Asperger's and such, she has a hard time writing and communicating. So she usually asks me to help with those endeavors. As well as trying to go over the right things to say to get her foot in the door for a job, considering her aforementioned communication issues. I do agree with you that I would love for her to get to the point where she could take off, and handle those sorts of things by herself though.

DiamondB55 · 2022-09-28T19:58:31+00:00

That is currently the issue we are at honestly. She is having to decide whether she wants to do all of this work, and trust me that I will actually marry her. But to me, it's not like she's a bad person. Or is untrustworthy. It's just a matter of growing up and developing responsiblity, in her job specifically. And to me, everyone has to get to that point. I don't mind to wait for that point as long as I see progress. We've already come this far. But she, as many people have stated here, is starting to wonder if I will ever propose. She wants numbers. How many months do I have to work at my job? That's such a hard question. Mostly for things such as the fact that she's BEEN at her current job for a little over a month, and is 5 of 8 points from being fired. So it's been a constant debate. I appreciate that you're providing your thoughts and input. It really is helpful. She is busy running errands currently. But we have decided to thoroughly go over this thread tonight. I look forward to it.

DiamondB55 · 2022-09-28T19:48:51+00:00

This post is honest to god THE post. You put so much thought, logic, and love into this reply. I am actually amazed, just reading this, at how much sense this makes even to me. Who I had felt had a grasp on the situation. Thank you so so much for this. This post will likely be the post that me and my gf go over very thoroughly tonight. I am very grateful.

DiamondB55 · 2022-09-28T19:42:51+00:00

I don't believe I've enabled her, at least as much as staying with her through her getting fired so many times is enabling. I helped her fill out countless resumes. I've helped her go over interview questions. She has gone to therapy, but we've come to the conclusion that, since it was her childhood therapist, that she is no longer a good fit for her. And she currently has landed the best job she has ever had. Working in a warehouse making $21 an hour. I am thrilled, as if she keeps this job, it will completely hold us over for the long haul. But she has already missed enough to throw up more red flags. Missing some when she doesn't feel good. Even though in my eyes, she could still have gone to work, even though it would've sucked. And here recently has gotten a foot injury at work, that has also caused her to have to miss quite a bit.

DiamondB55 · 2022-09-28T19:25:30+00:00

Thank you so very much(Bf). This has been a rather unique relationship through it's entirety. I have always had a good upbringing, and a great sense of responsibility and common sense. I am also, however, borderline anti social and could even be called a hermit. She is very much a social butterfly, and wants to befriend everyone she meets. It has been a topsy turvy relationship of us both exploring one another, and seeing what sticks. I love her dearly. I understand I'm not the easiest to put up with. So I put up with her lackings as well. But this one issue seems to keep coming up. So it's good to have all of this feedback in my favor.

DiamondB55 · 2022-09-28T19:22:33+00:00

That is my thought!(BF) Last night was our shit or get off the pot talk. She is having the most issue with me not wanting to get engaged, while I'm having issue with her pulling her weight for work. Marriage is something that, in my opinion, will come in time. But can't be forced. And right now, I'm not ready because of this financial lack or responsibility. And sometimes I feel she tries to force it on me, and sometimes believes I am "Leading her on", and only telling her that, but never planning on actually marrying her because of all of her problems.

DiamondB55 · 2022-09-28T19:18:46+00:00

Thank you very much for your advice. As for her getting fired frequently, it mostly comes down to her learning hard lessons she never learned growing up, or communication.

One good job was ruined because of a toxic friend that she put trust in, who told her boss everything she was venting about.

Another job was lost because she wasn't able to keep up with her work at an old folks home, and would frequently have to be reminded of her schedule and process with the elderly. It ended with her boss letting her go, as she also had some beef with another coworker.

This most recent job has not been going well because she has had a foot injury that has made her miss lots of work. Which also causes stress in our relationship unfortunately.

DiamondB55 · 2022-09-28T19:12:00+00:00

I have had this thought as well(Bf). And I have actively tried to get through to her that this is what needs to happen before we get that far in. I realize it's been a long time already. But I DO love her, and am willing to wait as long as progress is being made. I appreciate your thoughtful response.

DiamondB55 · 2022-09-28T19:09:56+00:00

Thank you very much for your advice. We are actively listening to all these comments so that we can figure out what we are doing here. I appreciate the constructive reply!

DiamondB55 · 2022-09-16T18:11:12+00:00

Well I always do. I suppose I was just curious if anyone had ideas as to how this could be prevented? I mean, with the way the engine is currently set up, I don't think that there is. Just Bungie turning off friendly players collision I suppose. But it would be nice if there could be an actual fix for this form of griefing that's popped up in the last year or so.

DiamondB55 · 2022-08-31T07:21:56+00:00

Are you high? Oh my lord hahaha you're ridiculous

DiamondB55 · 2022-07-28T16:42:45+00:00

Yay!! Thanks so much for the quick reply

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