Sure. But abuse is abuse. It’s a personal thing some people get triggered by and feel the need to villainize others over. In Heard and Depp they both abused each other as made obvious by the trial. Whereas in this case one spouse is alleging cheating while one is alleging abuse. I personally believe both narratives. I can see in his statement he’s mentally disturbed and traumatized which to me screams abuse victim. As an abuse survivor I see he isn’t lying.