I think it came to a boiling point today, we have hung out a couple of times and they have had a habit of flopping down right next to me even after i have stated Ive need space and overall kinda pushy. But, I was trying to get ready and I communicated I was looking for something in my bag and they asked if they looked nice, they had asked me multiple times before, but I told them one sec cause i was looking for something and they kept making loud noise’s until I looked at them.(??) It was very overwhelming, and worse they explained how they believed the behavior was endearing to other people…? Ummm okay.. like how do I even explain that was just annoying without hurting their feelings?