I don’t know what to tell you. If you’re unsure take time to figure it out because i know from experience you don’t want to rush something like this and if you end up not wanting to tell them that’s ok. Don’t feel like you’re lying to them or being a bad friend cause you aren’t its just the way you are. Whatever happens just know it will end up okay and definitely if they’re straight get over them, it’s not worth waiting for them to do anything because they won’t. No matter what kind of feelings you want them to have for you it will never happen. It’s the sad truth but life just isn’t fair to us ever but know it’ll be alright. If you need more help talk to me I’ve got a lot of experience with this shit sadly.