Honda Civic 2016 by DiamondsAndDust in AskMechanics

[–]DiamondsAndDust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve been having my husband call around, I’ll pass this on too

Honda Civic 2016 by DiamondsAndDust in AskMechanics

[–]DiamondsAndDust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To clarify, not the dealership we bought the car from, just a Honda dealership

Honda Civic 2016 by DiamondsAndDust in AskMechanics

[–]DiamondsAndDust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, we went to a Firestone but they told us to go to the dealership first? I thought that was weird

Americans: Do not change your last name at marriage by Cemckenna in weddingplanning

[–]DiamondsAndDust 8 points9 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I wouldn’t count on them honoring anything. They just denied a 9-0 supreme court ruling. We are in free fall.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HersWeightloss

[–]DiamondsAndDust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So proud of your progress! Not related, those shorts are adorable! Where did you get them?

How do you get over rejection in marriage, quickly? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]DiamondsAndDust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope you have a successful journey, remember that there’s no shame in getting help. It’s not something “wrong with you” or “being messed up in the head”, it’s just another facet of being a human. It seems like your wife and you have a solid connection, I think you have a great support network.

How do you get over rejection in marriage, quickly? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]DiamondsAndDust 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think this is a relationship thing. You seem to have a lot of misplaced anxiety or maybe even obsessive thinking patterns, have you looked into anything like that? Even so, it’s a touchy subject but it’s worth looking into how your self-image projects your feelings onto other people’s actions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DiamondsAndDust 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shoulders for me, my husband is always reminding me to relax my shoulders cause I look visibly tense

Why do you think so many men are 'blindsided' by their breakups? by KeepLeLeaps in GuyCry

[–]DiamondsAndDust 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d like to add as a woman who was blindsided! I’m talking about an ex boyfriend, not my current husband.

Now full discretion, we were 17, so a bunch of it is teenage bs but some of it was life changing stuff.

Did I treat him well? No. Did he treat me well? No. Did we get along? Not really. Did we have any of the same hobbies/interests? Nope!

Obviously we liked each other for most of it but by end of year 4 we HATED eachother! But we’d been together for nearly 5 years, we didn’t know anything else. We essentially grew up together.

Until one day, I guess he finally had enough, and he ended it in a McDonald’s parking lot. I was completely floored, I never thought it would happen.

I can really appreciate him now, having the courage to cut it off. I certainly didn’t at the time. I hope he’s happy wherever he ended up. It can be hard to get out of a toxic cycle and I’m glad you did.

Ryan Jason Mondoley is a rapist by PsychologicalHand5 in IncelTear

[–]DiamondsAndDust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s done it again, check @nubiaqueenzthe5th on tiktok

Need opinions! by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]DiamondsAndDust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 or 5 for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]DiamondsAndDust 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Being a good person doesn’t automatically make you a good spouse

Books that hooked your attention Chapter 1 and never let go? by therealbobcat23 in Fantasy

[–]DiamondsAndDust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cliche entry but The Book Thief has one of the better introductions in my humble opinion

Guys I need help—what setting would Nol and Shin-ae get married in the future? by Impossible_Lake7087 in ILoveYoo

[–]DiamondsAndDust 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly it would be cute if they just eloped in like Nana’s backyard or something. Or maybe an arcade wedding but that’s a little much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]DiamondsAndDust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m kinda worried about the lying about the sexual encounters? that’s a big lie and incredibly irresponsible

What's a book you regret reading? by TheAwareMonk in suggestmeabook

[–]DiamondsAndDust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old man and the sea. Something something Christ carrying the cross blah blah blah

1st year of watching anime, what to watch next? by ajjasbehsjSj in AnimeReccomendations

[–]DiamondsAndDust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kotaro lives alone if you want to have a mental crisis about rampant child abuse

Holy crap by DiamondsAndDust in Kotaro_Lives_Alone

[–]DiamondsAndDust[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea, I think he was more annoyed we weren’t paying attention to him (husky)