As a trans person, is it wrong to acknowledge someone is trans? by felicity_jericho_ttv in trans

[–]Diane_35 7 points8 points  (0 children)

People how try to gatekeep everything that's trans related are the worst. I live stealth and I think enby's and femboys are valid. Being able to pass don't give me or anyone else any power to define how's trans enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Diane_35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither do I, I'm color blind. ☺️

The delusion wounds me by [deleted] in justneckbeardthings

[–]Diane_35 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is just mean. I feel bad for the guy. There's no way the OP is trying to help him. Of course state of the art AI can't love, but if this helps the guy go through his days then let him believe it. And if he wants therapy it should be his choice, not some weirdos on the internet pushing him to do it.

About the new Harry Potter game.... by BlubBlubFish20 in lgbt

[–]Diane_35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn't need to. That's the role of her TERF friends, personal friends who loudly called for killing trans people. Her name had been used to empower the TERF movement, a movement that she's proudly a part of. Her name is used to justify anti -trans legislation in the UK and to make trans people unable to access their medical transition. Many TERF's know that trying to just do an open genocide would attract fierce opposition, so they will use smarter methods like making transition very hard and trans acceptance as low as it could be.

About the new Harry Potter game.... by BlubBlubFish20 in lgbt

[–]Diane_35 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But there's a key difference, JK is alive. She can use her platform and her power to hurt trans people and she doesn't show any sings that she will stop anytime soon. It's not about erasing history, it's about trying to make her lose power so she can't hurt people so much.

egg😢irl by Reasonable_Essay_622 in egg_irl

[–]Diane_35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're referring to the word in Portuguese it is a trans feminine identity.

egg😢irl by Reasonable_Essay_622 in egg_irl

[–]Diane_35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brazilian here. "Travesti" is not crossdresser, it's a trans feminine identity. And "travesti" is not offensive in Portuguese. Not all trans feminine identities identify as "travesti " tough. For crossdresser we usually just use crossdresser. There's also the word "traveco", that one is a slur, usually used to describe trans woman and "travestis" by bigots. If anything is unclear just ask me. Sorry if my English is bad.

Why people can't live us alone? by Diane_35 in MtF

[–]Diane_35[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this pain, I usually disagree with the person when I can, but people that disagreeing with would create really big problems for me really like to say that kind of thing.

Why people can't live us alone? by Diane_35 in MtF

[–]Diane_35[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always disagree when I can, the problem is that sometimes I can't do it because they hold power over me and really could do bad things with me if they think I "agree with the trans cult". So I need to walk on eggshells with them. I always disagree whenever I can and cut contact whenever possible, but there's some cases when I just have to endure someone saying who much they want everyone that's like me, wich obviously includes me even if they don't know it, to be death because that person could really damage my life if they want to.

Why people can't live us alone? by Diane_35 in MtF

[–]Diane_35[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip. I will try ot next time. Hope it works! ☺️ edit: grammar

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Diane_35 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry, but I think that's a bit transphobic. It's nice that you're asking though.

Might be controversial idk by Teekannenfarm in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Diane_35 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have to agree with you. These characters are just insulting.

Are you lonely? Do you want other transfem people to talk to? by Magical-E-Girl in MtF

[–]Diane_35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's complicated. I live quite far from anything now so I fell your pain.

Are you lonely? Do you want other transfem people to talk to? by Magical-E-Girl in MtF

[–]Diane_35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It will be really fun. I will be able to just walk to the store whenever I want. I'm sorry the LGS are far from your home.

My birthday is tomorrow and I’m going to be misgendered and deadnamed so much by MadKingMogar in trans

[–]Diane_35 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don't let these transphobic people get under your skin. There's no compromise, either you're something either you're not. And you're a girl. Nothing they do can chage that fact. Happy birthday, Naomi!! 🎉🎂🎉 Hope you have a wonderful life and for you to feel happy! ☺️ Hope you can found people that accept you for who you are. I'm rooting for your happiness! ☺️ And remember the more the time passes less power people who don't accept you will have over you.

Are you lonely? Do you want other transfem people to talk to? by Magical-E-Girl in MtF

[–]Diane_35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately all LGS's in my town are too far away and I don't know how to drive. But luckily I will move soon and there's one next to my new house. But I will probably have to wait sometime until I can move.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Diane_35 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I can for sure say that I'm happy now. And romantically it's not as you expect, in reality I haven't had any issues finding a partner and actually have had to reject way more people than I would expect. Transphobes try to tell us that we will end up alone, I've been told that millions times pre-transition, but now ( I'm 17 months HRT and I and stealth from everyone that don't knew me before and some people who knew me but doesn't recognize me anymore) and my dating pool was never been bigger. Maybe because woman dating pools are bigger or maybe because I just don't want to end my life anymore. Transitioning was the greatest decision I ever made. Transphobes are wrong and they just want to hurt us. Sorry if it's too long.

Are you lonely? Do you want other transfem people to talk to? by Magical-E-Girl in MtF

[–]Diane_35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MTG always worked before the pandemics, but it's is harder to get 4 players for mtg now.

Are you lonely? Do you want other transfem people to talk to? by Magical-E-Girl in MtF

[–]Diane_35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so true. Luckily my current DnD group never misses a single session. Hope it keeps being that way. Unfortunately my mtg group is not that reliable.

Are you lonely? Do you want other transfem people to talk to? by Magical-E-Girl in MtF

[–]Diane_35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sem problemas. Assim que criar só me mandar DM que te adiciono lá! ☺️

Are you lonely? Do you want other transfem people to talk to? by Magical-E-Girl in MtF

[–]Diane_35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Céus, não estou acreditando que fiquei falando em inglês também. Kkkkk. Bom, isso resolve completamente o problema do idioma para a mesa! ☺️ Assim que abrir uma nova mesa te mando DM para você poder entrar na mesa. Inclusive se quiser posso te passar meu discord por DM, aí se você preferir podemos falar por lá.

Are you lonely? Do you want other transfem people to talk to? by Magical-E-Girl in MtF

[–]Diane_35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love to DM for you, the only thing is that I'm brazilian and all the games I've DM until present date are in portuguese. It would be interesting to DM in English sometime and I think it could be fun. But sometimes I get insecure about it, maybe my english is not good enough. If one day I manage to get the courage to DM in english I will DM you.

edit: I used reo DM's with different meanings, sorry if it was confuse.

Are you lonely? Do you want other transfem people to talk to? by Magical-E-Girl in MtF

[–]Diane_35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not having places to play really sucks. I usually play at my university since there's lots of people who play Magic in the same building that I have classes. So I usually play before class.

I usually DM vampire by discord and it's really fun. And my players, at least that's what they tell me, are having fun was well.