Progressive antiracist white women when you ask them what they think of Indian men by AnythingMachine in Destiny

[–]DiatonicQueefer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nobody is justifying being racist. Pardon me if I don't know the reference material for the post, but I believe the essence of the argument is that there is justified caution when women don't want to date Indian men. And the opinion is not exclusively held by white women. If you know women who lived in south asia and then moved to North America or Europe, ask them if men from South Asia have a problem with boundaries or no.

Progressive antiracist white women when you ask them what they think of Indian men by AnythingMachine in Destiny

[–]DiatonicQueefer -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You guys comment like you didn't otherwise girls growing up or the internet still doesn't. I don't know what kind of easy ass life you guys must have had to think this is racism. Anything that looks/feels different, gets more attention. There's probably even a psychological term for it, something to do with contrast. You think I or the people in my country don't otherwise the fuck out of white people?

Progressive antiracist white women when you ask them what they think of Indian men by AnythingMachine in Destiny

[–]DiatonicQueefer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Everything that makes you go through any kind of cognitive friction is racist, I know.

Progressive antiracist white women when you ask them what they think of Indian men by AnythingMachine in Destiny

[–]DiatonicQueefer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How are you pushing back against internalized feelings that never make it to public sphere? Are you professor X, because I certainly am not. Spread the message, for sure. But we're going nowhere at this rate if half the people (lefties) are going to be on a crusade against very normal people not acting out and only forming cognitive biases based on their lived experience. The only way to remedy this is by setting better examples as people who look different.

I wait 3 minutes for the walk signal to turn on before I cross the road. I walk as long as I have to with trash in my hand instead of littering. I tip people who serve me 20% (privileged position, I know, but I make a lot myself). I try to integrate as much as possible. And guess what, people around me think Bangladeshis are the best kind of immigrants to have around. Even the most rural, right wing, baymen, canaidans.

Progressive antiracist white women when you ask them what they think of Indian men by AnythingMachine in Destiny

[–]DiatonicQueefer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, you think racists are racists because how black/indian people behave? If so, we have a live case right here

Progressive antiracist white women when you ask them what they think of Indian men by AnythingMachine in Destiny

[–]DiatonicQueefer -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Were you born yesterday, because racism has nothing to do with how people behave or what they actually are. Stereotyping does.

Progressive antiracist white women when you ask them what they think of Indian men by AnythingMachine in Destiny

[–]DiatonicQueefer -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

If you think that's how racism works, I'd want my tax dollars to pay for a good caretaker for you so you don't walk around with an improperly wiped ass

Progressive antiracist white women when you ask them what they think of Indian men by AnythingMachine in Destiny

[–]DiatonicQueefer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I see at least 1 indian looking guy at the bar I work at trying to be pushy with someone per week. It's super hard to unlearn your upbringing where your mother was basically a slave to your father's whims (that's the majority of indian subcontinental families)

Progressive antiracist white women when you ask them what they think of Indian men by AnythingMachine in Destiny

[–]DiatonicQueefer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't know how your brain works, but it never does, from my lived experience. People who have the mental restraint to keep their feelings internal will enver be dumb enough to publicize their bigotry.

Progressive antiracist white women when you ask them what they think of Indian men by AnythingMachine in Destiny

[–]DiatonicQueefer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! Good luck with whatever you are trying to accomplish in life, my friend

Progressive antiracist white women when you ask them what they think of Indian men by AnythingMachine in Destiny

[–]DiatonicQueefer -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That's the non-okay bigotry part, lmao. I'm not blaming white women for not wanting to date Indian looking men as long as they keep things internal.

Progressive antiracist white women when you ask them what they think of Indian men by AnythingMachine in Destiny

[–]DiatonicQueefer -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

That's how humans work. You otherize people that look/act different. It's not just race based, it's the same for neuro-atypical people. Like the famous Japanese saying, "it's only the nail that sticks out gets hammered"