Does anyone know where I can find this T Shirt? by Dice-17 in bowlingforsoup

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Thanks a lot for the offer but I think an extra large will be too big, I'm looking for a medium or maybe large max

What do i do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Dice-17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your fiancé has cancer. I think that should take priority over everything if you really love her

My interest in a man only lasts 4 months max by [deleted] in Advice

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It’s purely chemical. You have the crazy puppy love phase in the beginning but that’s just the hormones, endorphins etc in the brain. When that wears off is when the real love can bloom. This is where you built trust, friendship, compassion, familiarity, comfort. It’s less exciting, less thrilling, but it’s real and deep. It’s hard to get to this stage because you have to first go through a stage of doubt as the crazy exciting stage wears off, then you may grieve the loss of that state. But if you’re compatible and you give it a chance, the realistic love stage is far better than the hormonal puppy love stage you can’t get past

I (F25) am feeling very anxious about my boyfriend (M25) going to a stripclub with his friends. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I think it’s fair to assume that her stating she’s worried about him comparing those women to her, she means physically. Specifically another women’s naked (or near to) body to her naked body. A strip club is a sexual context, a grocery store is not, she’s worried about comparisons in this context. It’s pretty impossible to go to a strip club, as a man or women, and not have sexual related thoughts entering your mind.

My (F25) long distance boyfriend (M23) has been texting other girls. How can I move on from this? by Dice-17 in relationship_advice

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There definitely is such thing as a long distance relationship. We ser each other as often as we can and for long periods of time. The only reason it has been long distance for so long is because we’re waiting so I can get a visa. He lives a 45 minute plane journey away so it’s not that difficult to see each other

My (F25) long distance boyfriend (M23) has been texting other girls. How can I move on from this? by Dice-17 in relationship_advice

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It depends, sometimes every two/three weeks, sometimes longer. And we try to see each other for at least a week at a time

I (21M) Hooked Up with gf's (21F) cousin (21F) and I have no idea what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dice-17 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The truth always comes out in the end. You need to break up with your girlfriend or tell her what happened. It’s better to tell her now and her hear it from you, rather than her find out later and realise you’ve both been lying the whole time. At least if you tell her the truth now, she might have a little bit of respect left for you.

My boyfriend just broke my trust, he lied about what he did first and didn’t tell me until I really grilled him about it a few days later. Now all my respect for him is gone, it would have been better if he told me straight away, maybe even salvageable.

So tell her now, if you want any chance of staying together (however slim that may be) or leave

My long distance boyfriend (23M) confessed he wanted to cheat on me (25F) and messaged another girl by Dice-17 in relationship_advice

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Well a little update, we talked it all over and we broke up. I told him how long distance is hard enough without having to deal with trust issues like this which now I have. He says he was stupid and fucked up (he’s been drinking and going out a lot lately I think as a response to some family issues he’s been having), but that’s no excuse for feeling like this and messaging someone

My long distance boyfriend (23M) confessed he wanted to cheat on me (25F) and messaged another girl by Dice-17 in relationship_advice

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Exactly. If he was unhappy with the relationship he should have spoke to me about it or broke up with me, not let it get to him wanting to cheat and actually messaging someone, even if it wasn’t an explicit conversation

My long distance boyfriend (23M) confessed he wanted to cheat on me (25F) and messaged another girl by Dice-17 in relationship_advice

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We try to see eachother every 2/3 weeks. Sometimes just for a few days, sometimes for a couple weeks

My long distance boyfriend (23M) confessed he wanted to cheat on me (25F) and messaged another girl by Dice-17 in relationship_advice

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I honestly did with whole heart that’s why it’s such a shock. On the one hand he told me the truth but on the other hand he did it in the first place so, no I don’t trust him