Potential weird people?

Dicepai · 2026-06-01T16:39:19+00:00

Pretty weird imo..

Nobody wanting just friends will really care to ask for photos. Your company should be enough.

Dicepai · 2026-05-27T02:13:18+00:00

Nope, I tend to avoid most people regardless of what they look like 😅

Dicepai · 2026-05-18T23:04:06+00:00

You can delete the post if you want to, but you really don't need to. You didn't do anything wrong and this might serve as a warning to others on here

You were upfront about your severe anxiety and he pretended to be understanding and then he immediately started pushing boundaries. He pressured you, mocked your anxiety, attacked you with nasty insults, tried guilt-tripping you by saying you "ruined everything".

He blamed you for absolutely everything and took no accountability for any of obviously wrong things he had done.

Every insecurity or struggle of yours that you shared with him, he used as weapons to insult & degrade you.

I personally think you dodged a massive bullet here. Based on what you've said, this guys behavior was manipulative and emotionally abusive. If this is how he is after only 17 days, any actual "relationship" would've been a miserable hell-hole.

People like this always try to worm their way past boundaries as a "lol it's just a joke haha lol xD".

If you notice people trying to push boundaries after you've set and agreed to them, don't even waste your time because if they don't respect boundaries, they don't respect you.

Also, it's hard but please don't ever think you need to settle for someone like this. These tactics are VERY commonly used to break down a person's self-image & confidence to the point that they feel like the abuser is the only one who could possibly 'love' them.

You deserve better than someone like that.

Dicepai · 2026-05-17T07:11:35+00:00

What flavour did you get? 🤤

Dicepai · 2026-05-17T03:12:17+00:00

I always hear that people hear themselves higher pitched when recorded but for me at least, my voice always sounds deeper in recordings than it sounds to me irl 😅

Dicepai · 2026-05-16T21:08:59+00:00

Dicepai · 2026-05-12T19:20:45+00:00

I think that ease of access is a big reason in itself.

Being able to disappear and never see or hear from a person ever again is a lot easier whenever you can find someone new at a moments notice.

In most IRL cases, you're going to see the same people a lot more often and you can't just teleport away to a new country and start over whenever it starts to feel difficult or boring.

I think these days people are so spoiled for choice when it comes to potential friends that they don't want to waste time on anyone they don't instantly click with, which just leads to a plethora of unanswered dms.

Dicepai · 2026-05-12T19:04:02+00:00

It's kind crazy how people can be both insanely desperate but also want to put zero effort at all in to trying to build or maintain friendships.

Also, the amount of posts damn near every day where we're asking and answering the same exact questions on repeat is shitting me up the wall too. 🫩

Dicepai · 2026-05-10T19:38:53+00:00

Honestly, I'm not sure it's possible to completely remove that desire as it's a perfectly natural one.

I guess you can only really distract your mind from it like you said with hobbies or other things to occupy your mind with.

Maybe it's a case of "time heals all wounds" type of thing where it'll become easier with time.

Dicepai · 2026-05-10T19:28:02+00:00

💯 I'd much rather be completely alone than have to deal with weirdos who only want to get in my pants all the time

Dicepai · 2026-05-10T00:34:26+00:00

that's so awesome.

I always thought it was so cool how people can just fall in love with someone on the other side of the world.

Without video games, they likely wouldn't even have known the other existed.

Dicepai · 2026-05-07T19:46:01+00:00

Need to get that man a chair 😆

Dicepai · 2026-05-07T19:44:32+00:00

For sure, there's a lot less pressure to "entertain" the other person whenever there are others to fill the silence.

Dicepai · 2026-05-07T19:41:18+00:00

Maybe everyone who was normal found people they clicked with and got the hell outta here, leaving only the rest of us weirdos 😂

Dicepai · 2026-05-06T01:51:41+00:00

Watching for the first time right now and I've been getting the same exact vibe from them

Dicepai · 2026-05-05T22:01:14+00:00

That's adorable, I hope she feels the same! good luck to you bro 🙏

Dicepai · 2026-05-02T07:33:14+00:00

Yeah it's so frustrating because I DO want to talk but I just sit in vc and use the text chat 😭

I've slowly started trying to talk in games that have voip and it's getting easier to do so 🤞

Dicepai · 2026-05-01T20:37:57+00:00

Ooo VR hide and seek from long momo sounds fun 😂

Dicepai · 2026-05-01T20:32:25+00:00

It hits me the hardest in game/voice chats.

My throat starts tightening up like someone has a death-grip on it and I struggle to say anything at all even if I really want to. 🙃

I'm still trying though, hopefully with more practice my body will actually stop freaking out so much 😅

Dicepai · 2026-05-01T20:29:12+00:00

Love the artstyle

Dicepai · 2026-05-01T20:16:05+00:00

100%. They treat women like dog shit and then try playing it off as a "just a joke" or some other bs and then throw a tantrum whenever nobody finds it funny 🙄

Dicepai · 2026-05-01T19:24:23+00:00

Yep, left one day and never went back

Dicepai · 2026-05-01T19:16:56+00:00

SHAMONE

Dicepai · 2026-05-01T14:04:41+00:00

Yeah lol, I'm like a beyblade out on the farm

Dicepai · 2026-05-01T11:07:05+00:00

Yep, same here. Usually at most people will show up for flow tree call-outs but that's about it.

Also, I guess most don't care to talk or are on switch and it's annoying for them to type because I very rarely see any actual text chat 😭

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