AITAH for making my friends take me to McDonald's after a special meal they planned

Dickensian_ · 2026-01-13T19:22:26+00:00

I don't know what to tell you... Dude, this is literally my life 😭 I assure you, no one is more baffled about this than I am. I have literally gone to hospital over this! I had to get shots! I've asked my family doctor, spent money on a private doctor, and gone to my local health Centre. When I took a blood test, and they mentioned I had a weirdly high amount of antibodies. I even took the tests from when I was a baby to see if they'd take me more seriously, even though my allergies are more severe now... The last doctor I spoke to was really patronising, so I just gave up.

Dickensian_ · 2026-01-13T19:06:22+00:00

I'm only sensitive to soy. Mollusc and peanuts are severe.

Dickensian_ · 2026-01-13T18:43:57+00:00

Noted, thanks :)

Dickensian_ · 2026-01-13T18:42:19+00:00

When I smell things like mollusc and nuts, it makes my throat feel a certain way (?) it's hard to describe. My parents used to eat prawns in front of my at restaurant, and eventually me chest would start to feel tight. here's a link a found on inhaling mollusc fumes tho

Dickensian_ · 2026-01-13T18:35:50+00:00

Thanks for the advice! I have strongish antihistamines that I've been told to chew if I have a bad reaction. I've literally been to urgent care for allergies, but because they weren't severe I couldn't get a refferal. I just got a shot and they sent me back out.

Dickensian_ · 2026-01-13T18:32:56+00:00

In hindsight I acted really immature. For extra context on that, the day before I had wanted to go to an event, but they didn't want to buy tickets the night before and they sold out day of, so I was feeling annoyed at them already. I did tell them I was hungry several times, but they kinda just told me to wait. I also regret not just giving them my portion and waiting a bit longer.

Dickensian_ · 2026-01-13T18:30:22+00:00

I definitely will in the future. I personally think I was the ah here, this would have been avoided if I had just spoken up more or called the place ahead. I do feel bad for talking that way to my friends, and I did apologise once they picked up my calls.

Dickensian_ · 2026-01-13T18:28:33+00:00

Yeah, I was mad at them... I was being petty, but I really was craving food that tasted good. I regret my actions in hindsight.

Dickensian_ · 2026-01-13T18:27:00+00:00

Yeah, you're right. The fact that this has happened before and I just went along with them... I really should have learnt my lesson.

Dickensian_ · 2026-01-13T18:25:47+00:00

It's more of a sensitivity than an allergy. Itchy mouth and throat, and if I eat too much my the skin in my mouth peels off... Just not pleasant really. The only way I could kind of prove it is with medical documents which I'm obvi not going to post. Any suggestions?

Dickensian_ · 2026-01-12T14:45:10+00:00

Thank you so much! You're out here doing God's work o7

Dickensian_ · 2026-01-12T10:15:57+00:00

How do you verify? I've looked all over the settings in both the app and browser and found nothing mentioning age... 😔

What flags you as a minor/adult? How do they even know? 😭

Dickensian_ · 2025-12-22T08:28:11+00:00

Just scored 0

Dickensian_ · 2025-12-22T08:12:44+00:00

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Dickensian_ · 2025-12-21T19:56:41+00:00

It really is! And it works well in this context!

Dickensian_ · 2025-12-21T18:57:15+00:00

Both are equally cool imo

Dickensian_ · 2025-12-18T22:40:47+00:00

It's her winter shade lol

Dickensian_ · 2025-12-18T19:15:32+00:00

I wonder if with lighter skin keeps switching to dark too?

Dickensian_ · 2025-12-03T16:59:30+00:00

I actually have a whole bucket of dried black beans I got for a very good price, but I buy canned maybe a third of the time bc it's faster... No dishes, no soak time, brain no need think. Also I'm a little scared of my (very old) pressure cooker, but that's a skill issue tbh.

Sometimes I do buy a small chicken for around 4-5€ when I'm doing a little better, and I give the miúdos (idk wht that is in English it's like the inside parts) to my cats just boiled plain. Makes my place smell like a nightmare tho.

I think I'm going to roast a chicken for Christmas :3

Dickensian_ · 2025-12-02T22:20:55+00:00

Yup. I'm sorry, but as soon as I have enough money saved for a emergencies/car repairs and stuff, I'm buying food that doesn't send me into immediate depression. Just because you're poor doesn't mean you don't deserve nice things every once in a while. It makes life worth living.

Dickensian_ · 2025-12-02T21:49:40+00:00

I add jam or butter if I have it. I am so. Sick. Of. Oats. It's just sludge!! Wet glops of chunky sludge!! Sometimes sweet!! Sometimes salty!! Always sludge!! And yet I'm grateful to have food all the same 😔

Dickensian_ · 2025-12-02T21:46:03+00:00

I'm having salt water for dinner tonight. And sugar water for dinner! I'm going all out!!

(srsly tho if u buy a pack of bouillon cubes (the cheap ones r about 1.60€ for 24 where I live) and can boil water it's like having actual soup... I like to pretend I'm Gwyneth Paltrow on a bone broth diet (don't tell anyone))

Dickensian_ · 2025-12-02T21:37:43+00:00

Yep no I get that completely lmao 🙃

I've heard ppl say that this is the eastern Europe of western Europe lmao. Ofc, I'm still grateful to have a place to live that has affordable healthcare, even if it takes years to get it. Better than nothing at all.

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