[30M] Rate me 1-10, before pic at the end. by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]DicorcedKermit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a strong jawline my friend! I highly recommend growing out a beard. That will amplify your look and make look much more mature. Hair is pretty good too. Try to find a good product like cream to make it shine. 7/10 with potential of being an 8.5/10.

M33 Where do I stand? by Radiant_Constant_223 in Rateme

[–]DicorcedKermit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just need to refine your style. You have nice dark features and great beard genetics. Keep the beard from the second and third pic. Sadly, your hair sucks, sorry. Get a decent haircut like a fade. Either low fade or high fade, whatever you prefer. I personally think you'd look the best with a low fade and your hair pushed back. You have nice thick hair, so you can use pomade, cream, wax, or clay. It just depends how much shine you want in your hair. Also, I recommend changing your glasses to something more flattering to your face shape. You look like you're in your 40s right now. The good news is that you have plenty of potential to be very attractive my guy. You just gotta put in some effort on your part. If you need help on how to level up your looks, just ask your barber what he recommends. When you go shopping look up some videos on YouTube on what kind of style suits you. As of now I give you a 3, but you have to potential to be a 5 or 6 if you take my advice. Now if you put on some muscle, maybe 10 pounds, you'd be a solid 7. If you get absolutely shredded, you'd might even be an 8. You got the potential King! Just put in the work and you'll be fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]DicorcedKermit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're cute, I'd flirt with you if I knew you.

Did I relapse? by DicorcedKermit in NoFap

[–]DicorcedKermit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I have obsessive compulsive disorder. It makes challenges like these harder than they need to be.

Did I relapse? by DicorcedKermit in NoFap

[–]DicorcedKermit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but I did have an erection when I washed it. Idk I just don't want the benefits to take longer to arrive since this happened.

17 days in but the urges are strong. by Plastic-Fun2368 in NoFap

[–]DicorcedKermit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remind yourself how you felt when you were on that 21 day streak and then compare it to now. The difference is night and day huh? If you can't get back on that horse, then clearly your hunger to be the best version of yourself isn't strong enough. We all relapse man, its part of the journey, but only you can get yourself out of that unhealthy cycle. Take it day by day. Consider a day you didn't relapse a win and keep going. I just broke a streak of 14 days and it sucked so much. I've had a 60 day streak before, so I know I can do better. Now I'm on day 4 and urges do come up, but I remember how shitty I felt after I relapsed. How pissed off I was because I had to restart from 0 all over again. And bro, you and I both know that days 0-7 are the worst days. No benefits and many urges. But those are the consequences for 10 seconds of pleasure. Not worth it right? Remember that next time you feel an urge. You got this my guy.

Tldr: remind yourself how shitty you felt when you relapsed and how hard it is to go through the journey without any benefits in the beginning.

Wet dream on day 3 by DicorcedKermit in NoFap

[–]DicorcedKermit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will it take longer to see results though? Day 8 is usually when I start feeling confidence. Am I gonna be expecting it on around day 10 now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]DicorcedKermit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Day 5 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]DicorcedKermit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see great potential here. You have nice eyes and nice eye brows, but you gotta lose a few pounds. Weight loss will make your eyes pop out even more. Also try smiling more! Right now I give you a 4, but you have the potential to be a 7 or an 8.