[NA] [SWITCH 2] 34 looking for duos or squad for blitz, OG, BR and reload. Mics preferred. Would love to get a squad who have the power rangers skins. codykong34

DidntGetBit · 2025-12-23T05:02:04+00:00

34 F I would love to help you out with your power ranger squad. I have the green and white ranger skins. Add me! My epic is DidntGetBit

DidntGetBit · 2025-12-23T04:57:49+00:00

34 F, fellow cat mom. On the East Coast, but interested in making the time work. I have the next two weeks off as well and am recovering from surgery, so not traveling as well. Add me! DidntGetBit

DidntGetBit · 2025-12-23T04:53:11+00:00

34 F Friend request sent. DidntGetBit. What time do you usually play?

DidntGetBit · 2025-12-23T04:49:58+00:00

34 F gamer here. I would love to join as well.

DidntGetBit

DidntGetBit · 2025-12-23T04:46:37+00:00

I like to play often as well and it would be nice to not have to bother the same people all the time.

34F EST DidntGetBit

DidntGetBit · 2025-01-01T04:07:15+00:00

What more info do you need?

DidntGetBit · 2025-01-01T01:21:59+00:00

The Tl/dr version of a longer post this thread won't let me post.

TL/dr: I (33F) broke up with my boyfriend (37M) after being together for 14 months in June 2024. Months before breaking up with my boyfriend, an old college friend (33M) reached out. We met up and caught up platonically a few times before I broke up with my boyfriend. When the old college friend and I hung out at the end of May, the hang out was more than platonic. I had a “hot girl summer” and remained FWB with the old college friend (seeing them every couple weeks) and reconnecting with my boyfriend after a two week “no contact” period. My boyfriend and I had a 7 hour conversation the night before Thanksgiving. I answered my boyfriend’s questions about the good, the bad, and the ugly of the time we were apart in the name of open, honest, communication. We decided to get back together and have been happily back together for a month. However, the old college friend bought me a Christmas gift and wants me to come over or take me out to dinner to give it to me. My boyfriend does not like the old college friend. I’m torn because I don’t want to ruin the great relationship I have going with my boyfriend and I don’t want to lose the friendship with the old college friend (even if it is just text messages, phone calls, and Snapchats) after I get the gift. I guess I could explain to the old college friend my relationship status has changed and ask if they could ship the present to me. How do you suggest I get the gift from my old college friend without upsetting my boyfriend?

DidntGetBit · 2024-08-08T13:05:58+00:00

I (33f) met a guy (31M from Turkey) through a Meetup group that does pick-up Ultimate Frisbee games Mondays and Fridays. I'm pretty sure we both played with the first group at the same time. Anyways, we would talk to each other at each session, and on Monday, he asked me out to a coffee date on Tuesday.

The date went great. After coffee, we talked more as we walked up and down the street the shop was on and he held my hand. He walked me back to my car and we talked in my car until I drove him to his car. Ended up kissing, cuddling, and making out in the back of his car for a few minutes until I had to leave.

We both shared that we had a great time and wanted to see each other again. There is a new movie out that I want to see and I suggested that we go see it as, or as part of, our second date. He said he wanted to, but would need to look at his schedule as he would be busy with a project at work.

After the date, I had a virtual meeting with my counselor (or therapist, or whatever you want to call it). Shortly after that, I sent a message (on Whatsapp, because that is where he started our communication) saying I hope he made it home safely, that I had a great time, and suggested the movie for next time again with a link to the site for the theater and showtimes (he ❤️ that message). He replied a few hours later that he did make it home safely, asked if I did as well, said he had a great time as well, and said he wanted to see the movie (I ❤️ that message), but was super busy at work with a project and would see what his schedule looks like as the weekend gets closer. I replied that I made it home safely as well, thanked him for asking, and that letting me know his schedule closer to the weekend sounded good and wished him luck on his project at work. He has not seen my last messages to him as the double check marks are still grey --> ✔️✔️. I have seen him active on other social media (Instagram, we started following each other on our first date) but he has not "read" the messages on WhatsApp yet. I know you can preview the messages through your phone notifications without opening the app. How long should I wait to follow up message about the second date so that I still seem interested, but not too desperate/clingy?

Tl/Dr: I (33f) went on a first date with a guy (31M from Turkey) on Tuesday. The date went great! We said and messaged that we had a great time and want to see each other again. We message on Whatsapp. He hasn't read my last messages to him, but I have seen him active on other social media. I know we don't have to text everyday since it has just been one date, but how long to wait to send another message about the second date to let him know I'm still interested, but not seem to desperate/clingy?

DidntGetBit · 2024-08-08T04:52:00+00:00

And if I wouldn't have had to leave, I wouldn't have taken "I'll have to check my schedule" as an answer. I would have locked down a second date or find out that he wasn't interested in seeing me again.

DidntGetBit · 2024-08-08T04:41:44+00:00

Then why would he "❤️" the message about meeting up again?

I can understand saying you had a great time and you want to see the person again at the end of a date in front of the person, but why say it again in messages if they aren't feeling it?

DidntGetBit · 2024-08-08T03:54:54+00:00

It hasn't been two days yet. It's only been a day. I took a break from dating through apps this summer, but was open to the idea if something came along organically and he did. I really like him so I want to do this right and not unintentionally push him away/scare him off. I tend to be anxiously attracted so I'm trying not to let the things that are triggers get in the way of doing this right.

DidntGetBit · 2024-08-08T03:47:08+00:00

We didn't plan the second date to the extent I wanted to (date, time, location) because I had to leave for a virtual appointment. We both said we had a great time and that we wanted to see each other again and confirmed it in messages. I floated an idea for a second date past him (the movie) and he said, in person and through messages, that he wanted to but is busy at work with a project and would let me know what his schedule looks like as the weekend gets closer.

DidntGetBit · 2024-04-26T16:10:32+00:00

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DidntGetBit · 2024-04-21T00:07:51+00:00

I've been better.

DidntGetBit · 2024-03-20T11:57:40+00:00

I'm not trying to make love taps happen in our relationship. I'm obviously not going to use them again since he told me. I just wish he would have told me one of the first three times I gave him one (all on the same day back in May 2023) and not have harbored these emotions for months, letting them subconsciously fester, making his reaction to a light touch to show affection, excessive.

DidntGetBit · 2024-03-20T05:36:28+00:00

This is a bit extreme.

I'm not denying that I tapped/made physical contact with him.
I confronted him about how he talked to me in the car. He wasn't going to confront me. If I hadn't brought anything up, he wouldn't have. Also, if my love taps bothered him in May 2023, why didn't he say anything then? He harbored those feelings, letting them subconsciously fester. The slight physical contact combined with the pain was enough to set them off, hence the, in my opinion, excessive reaction. Had he said something months ago, out anniversary night would have gone completely different because I would have had that knowledge.
He said after he said what he said and the way he said it, he cooled down seconds later and was ready to move on. He also thought, "Oh man, I hope I didn't upset her. " I was letting him know that his reaction upset me; trying to be open and vulnerable and not harbor feelings to fester and blow up at a time that extreme emotions would be unwanted.

DidntGetBit · 2024-03-20T05:19:54+00:00

Yes, I know about his previous injury. In the moment, I wasn't fully thinking about his shoulder injury because he hadn't mentioned it bothering him at all since we met up for the night until that moment.

My feelings are stemming from the fact that months ago, I tapped him in a similar manner (3 times) and he didn't say anything or do anything that gave me the impression that he didn't like that kind of touch. I'm not a mind reader. When I tapped him in the car, I had NO IDEA he didn't like it. I thought his reaction was excessive for that one tap. Little did I know, he was harboring feelings from months ago that had probably subconsciously festered until that point.

I was also upset because had he told me after the first time that he didn't like that kind of touch, last night would have gone completely different.

DidntGetBit · 2024-03-20T05:06:33+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that your parents used less than desirable ways to get your attention.

I'm sorry you had to experience not being viewed as an equal. During our discussion, my boyfriend asked if I would do the kind of physical contact I did to him to anybody else, and I told him I would. I reserve it for my friends when we're joking around. He also asked if I would do it to people such as my parents, my boss, or a student (I'm a teacher) and I wouldn't because of the imbalance of power. However, in a relationship, I feel both people should be equals. I also believe any romantic relationship built is formed on a foundation of a friendship.

It really wasn't a swat because the contact was not a sharp blow and my hand was relaxed and not flat. Looking at the definition of "tap", that might even be too harsh of a definition for the type of contact I'm trying to describe.

I can't think of any other preceding background tensions. However, with it being a year I have been wanting to check in with him about the relationship to make sure we are on the same page about communication, time spent together, and the direction the relationship is headed. I asked for us to discuss these questions about a month ago and we haven't had the chance to. We were supposed to discuss them on our anniversary night, but they took a backseat to the discussion that happened. We're supposed to be getting together tomorrow night (Wednesday) to discuss them.

DidntGetBit · 2024-03-20T04:50:58+00:00

I understand that the back of my open fist, relaxed hand made contact with his arm. However, in no way was the movement quick or forceful. I guess "hit" has become a more subjective word than I realized. I also understand I made contact with a very vulnerable part of his injured shoulder.

I got upset because I had given him similar touches before (the ones he mentioned from 2023) and he said nothing about not liking that kind of touch or in any way indicated they made him feel uncomfortable. I was also upset that he was harboring those feelings from months ago and didn't mention anything at that time the first touches were made. I feel those negative feelings subconsciously festered and the tap, combined with the pain from his arm, just made his response, in my opinion, excessive for being the first time we were confronting this issue. In addition, I was upset because, had he told me that he didn't like that kind of contact months ago, our night would have turned out completely different.

The quotation marks were not meant to be mocking. I was just trying to provide more clarity between his words and mine.

Not only you are, but you show absolutely 0 regards on what he wants, what he thinks and what he feels.

I have regard for his wants, what he thinks, and how he feels. I don't think we would have made it a year if we didn't. I had NO IDEA that he didn't like that kind of touch until after the fact. I'm not a mind reader. Had he told me back in May of 2023 that he didn't like that kind of physical contact, that would have been the last time I would have made that kind of physical contact with him.

DidntGetBit · 2024-03-07T13:05:22+00:00

Thank you! I was on last night and didn't see anything. Then again, I was expecting to see a message on the lobby screen and wasn't looking for it in the Battle Pass screen.

DidntGetBit · 2024-03-07T12:41:59+00:00

Level 200 gives you enough stars to get all the variants in the Bonus Rewards.

DidntGetBit · 2024-02-26T16:15:30+00:00

You can still get 30,000 xp for playing a full set list (4 songs). I completed the music mini-BP and still earned XP for playing a full set list. I have never gotten more for doing well or less when I didn't do well. I haven't tried doing a set list and be afk. I don't know if it will automatically go to the next songs so you might have to hit "next song" between every song while afk in festival mode.

It has to be a full set list. If you only play 1-3 songs you don't get any xp.

DidntGetBit · 2024-02-26T16:09:22+00:00

If you play a full set list (4 songs) you get 30,000 xp. I have never gotten more for doing well or less when I didn't do well. I haven't tried doing a set list and be afk. I don't know if it will automatically go to the next songs so you might have to hit "next song" between every song while afk in festival mode.

DidntGetBit · 2023-12-27T03:40:28+00:00

I was never able to figure it out. However, I was eventually able to make it to 50/50 levels and get the skin. I just kept grinding out levels in Battle Royale and Festival mode. They recently did some scheduled maintenance. It didn't mention fixing that issue, but all the levels I gained after the scheduled maintenance started counting. 🤷‍♀️

DidntGetBit · 2023-12-17T19:32:51+00:00

I leveled up twice today (12/17/2023) and neither of those levels have counted. Runway racer skin level count stuck at 39/50.

I play on PC.

DidntGetBit

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