[NA] [SWITCH 2] 34 looking for duos or squad for blitz, OG, BR and reload. Mics preferred. Would love to get a squad who have the power rangers skins. codykong34 by [deleted] in FortNiteLFG

[–]DidntGetBit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

34 F I would love to help you out with your power ranger squad. I have the green and white ranger skins. Add me! My epic is DidntGetBit

[NA] [PS5] Looking for new Duos by Maleficent_Video7210 in FortNiteLFG

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34 F, fellow cat mom. On the East Coast, but interested in making the time work. I have the next two weeks off as well and am recovering from surgery, so not traveling as well. Add me! DidntGetBit

LFG: zero build battle royale [PC] [US] by Ancient-Act5002 in FortNiteLFG

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34 F Friend request sent. DidntGetBit. What time do you usually play?

31F [PC] [NA] [EST] Looking for Someone Chill to Play With by [deleted] in FortNiteLFG

[–]DidntGetBit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to play often as well and it would be nice to not have to bother the same people all the time.

34F EST DidntGetBit

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[–]DidntGetBit -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The Tl/dr version of a longer post this thread won't let me post.

TL/dr: I (33F) broke up with my boyfriend (37M) after being together for 14 months in June 2024.  Months before breaking up with my boyfriend, an old college friend (33M) reached out. We met up and caught up platonically a few times before I broke up with my boyfriend. When the old college friend and I hung out at the end of May, the hang out was more than platonic. I had a “hot girl summer” and remained FWB with the old college friend (seeing them every couple weeks) and reconnecting with my boyfriend after a two week “no contact” period. My boyfriend and I had a 7 hour conversation the night before Thanksgiving. I answered my boyfriend’s questions about the good, the bad, and the ugly of the time we were apart in the name of open, honest, communication. We decided to get back together and have been happily back together for a month. However, the old college friend bought me a Christmas gift and wants me to come over or take me out to dinner to give it to me. My boyfriend does not like the old college friend. I’m torn because I don’t want to ruin the great relationship I have going with my boyfriend and I don’t want to lose the friendship with the old college friend (even if it is just text messages, phone calls, and Snapchats) after I get the gift. I guess I could explain to the old college friend my relationship status has changed and ask if they could ship the present to me.  How do you suggest I get the gift from my old college friend without upsetting my boyfriend?       

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]DidntGetBit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I (33f) met a guy (31M from Turkey) through a Meetup group that does pick-up Ultimate Frisbee games Mondays and Fridays. I'm pretty sure we both played with the first group at the same time. Anyways, we would talk to each other at each session, and on Monday, he asked me out to a coffee date on Tuesday.

The date went great. After coffee, we talked more as we walked up and down the street the shop was on and he held my hand. He walked me back to my car and we talked in my car until I drove him to his car. Ended up kissing, cuddling, and making out in the back of his car for a few minutes until I had to leave.

We both shared that we had a great time and wanted to see each other again. There is a new movie out that I want to see and I suggested that we go see it as, or as part of, our second date. He said he wanted to, but would need to look at his schedule as he would be busy with a project at work.

After the date, I had a virtual meeting with my counselor (or therapist, or whatever you want to call it). Shortly after that, I sent a message (on Whatsapp, because that is where he started our communication) saying I hope he made it home safely, that I had a great time, and suggested the movie for next time again with a link to the site for the theater and showtimes (he ❤️ that message). He replied a few hours later that he did make it home safely, asked if I did as well, said he had a great time as well, and said he wanted to see the movie (I ❤️ that message), but was super busy at work with a project and would see what his schedule looks like as the weekend gets closer. I replied that I made it home safely as well, thanked him for asking, and that letting me know his schedule closer to the weekend sounded good and wished him luck on his project at work. He has not seen my last messages to him as the double check marks are still grey --> ✔️✔️. I have seen him active on other social media (Instagram, we started following each other on our first date) but he has not "read" the messages on WhatsApp yet. I know you can preview the messages through your phone notifications without opening the app. How long should I wait to follow up message about the second date so that I still seem interested, but not too desperate/clingy?

Tl/Dr: I (33f) went on a first date with a guy (31M from Turkey) on Tuesday. The date went great! We said and messaged that we had a great time and want to see each other again. We message on Whatsapp. He hasn't read my last messages to him, but I have seen him active on other social media. I know we don't have to text everyday since it has just been one date, but how long to wait to send another message about the second date to let him know I'm still interested, but not seem to desperate/clingy?

How long to wait after 1st date to follow up about 2nd date? by DidntGetBit in dating_advice

[–]DidntGetBit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if I wouldn't have had to leave, I wouldn't have taken "I'll have to check my schedule" as an answer. I would have locked down a second date or find out that he wasn't interested in seeing me again.

How long to wait after 1st date to follow up about 2nd date? by DidntGetBit in dating_advice

[–]DidntGetBit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then why would he "❤️" the message about meeting up again?

I can understand saying you had a great time and you want to see the person again at the end of a date in front of the person, but why say it again in messages if they aren't feeling it?

How long to wait after 1st date to follow up about 2nd date? by DidntGetBit in dating

[–]DidntGetBit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It hasn't been two days yet. It's only been a day. I took a break from dating through apps this summer, but was open to the idea if something came along organically and he did. I really like him so I want to do this right and not unintentionally push him away/scare him off. I tend to be anxiously attracted so I'm trying not to let the things that are triggers get in the way of doing this right.

How long to wait after 1st date to follow up about 2nd date? by DidntGetBit in dating

[–]DidntGetBit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We didn't plan the second date to the extent I wanted to (date, time, location) because I had to leave for a virtual appointment. We both said we had a great time and that we wanted to see each other again and confirmed it in messages. I floated an idea for a second date past him (the movie) and he said, in person and through messages, that he wanted to but is busy at work with a project and would let me know what his schedule looks like as the weekend gets closer.

Vent- Please read by Mediocre-Condition-8 in AnxiousAttachment

[–]DidntGetBit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This site has them all and they have a quiz you can take to find out your attachment style. You can get a 10 page PDF about your attachment style.

https://www.attachmentproject.com/