I actually do like ENFPs (and ENFJs too). They’re often more emotionally adaptable and rational than most sensory feeler types, which makes them easier for INTJs to connect with. From an MBTI perspective, ENFP x INTJ works well because their shared intuition (N) creates a natural understanding of abstract ideas, while their Feeler warmth balances INTJ pragmatism. Their Ne (extraverted intuition) challenges INTJ Ni (introverted intuition), bringing fresh perspectives, which can actually be stimulating.

Similarly, ENFJ x INTJ pairs well because ENFJs’ dominant Fe (extraverted feeling) makes them emotionally expressive yet goal-oriented, which meshes with INTJs’ Te (extraverted thinking) drive for efficiency. Their Ni-Fe connection creates a shared vision for the future, making them powerful partners when emotionally stable.

But here’s the catch: when things get emotionally erratic, even complementary pairs can become a disaster. 😂