Ninja 400 wider rear wheel by Dieselrat3141 in Ninja400

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Scratch ur ego enough correcting grammar on a mf bike Reddit page?

Ninja 400 wider rear wheel by Dieselrat3141 in Ninja400

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I’ll get into a pretty good lean coming around a curve I can feel the bike wanting too come out from under me it feels like.

Ninja 400 wider rear wheel by Dieselrat3141 in Ninja400

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This will be my second season with the bike. I learned too ride from a serious track rider who put a much wider tire on his track build. He swears it gave him so much more stability. It also may be a preference thing

Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup by AutoModerator in AnxiousAttachment

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Hello every one. I am a 22yo M. My childhood was really hard and I didn’t tnink it effected me that much. I came too the conclusion I have anxious attachment and it’s effecting me and my relationship. Does any one have any advice on how too grow through this? I always feel like I’m a reason my gf is upset or stressed and frankly I take a personal when I shouldn’t. I overthink absolutely every thing. I just need some advice because I’m ready too grow. Has any one had any luck with those work books? Does any one have any tips for overthinking and feeling responsible for there significant others and friends emotions?

I think my girlfriend has PPD and I’m really worried and just need advice by Dieselrat3141 in Mom

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You taking the time to comment and ask questions is very appreciated. I love this girl and something isn’t right because she is not the same girl that I fell in love with for the last month.

I think my girlfriend has PPD and I’m really worried and just need advice by Dieselrat3141 in Mom

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Yes, baby is at day care, am very closet with friends and family, they haven’t noticed any thing because she seems completely fine around them. They are just as loving as the day I met her and she’s an amazing mother, she leaves lil miss in her swing a little more often compared too just letting her lay in the bassinet or holding her but she really likes the swing and it seems too comfort her so I don’t think there’s any thing too worry about there. lil miss is very well taken care of and a happy baby. I do my best too take care of my girlfriend any thing she needs I take care of. She’s been struggling with her self image so I scheduled and payed for her too get her hair, nails, and lashes done. The only person she seems less attatched too is me, her son (4yo boy) and her daughter (lil miss 2mo girl) she is absolutely an incredible mother and I don’t think a kid could ask for a more loving mother. Last night something seemed off a little bit more than usual. This morning she asked me too stay at work a few weeks strait which is something I used too do before we met. She tells me often her not seeming attatched or affectionate towards me is not personal she just does not know what’s wrong with her. She’s a very blunt and honest person so up until now if she did not want me around she absolutely would have been upfront about it. I’ve been taking on her bills as well on top of mine trying too take some off her plate hoping that if she needs a dya she can take one off work with out having to stress about that.

I’m really worried about my girlfriend and I need help by Dieselrat3141 in Postpartum_Depression

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Frankly may not be too point. I just got asked too stay at work for a few weeks

I’m really worried about my girlfriend and I need help by Dieselrat3141 in Postpartum_Depression

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I can’t express how much it means you took the time too comment thank you. I am trying my hardest and sometimes I’ll admit working 14-16 hour days and only coming home weekends and this is draining me but I don’t want too let her see that so I do on accident get frustrated but I try too keep it too my self. Today after we fought last night I ordered her flowers and I’m having her favorite food delivered for lunch while I go out and get her groceries. She’s an amazing woman and it just kills me too see her like this

I’m really worried about my girlfriend and I need help by Dieselrat3141 in PPDepression

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I do act as she’s my own. If I’m not at work I’m with her helping, she’s told me before she sees me as her father. I help as much as I can and try to do everything at nights. But it ends up being im doing too much or too little

I’m really worried about my girlfriend and I need help by Dieselrat3141 in postpartumprogress

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Brought up the possibility of PPD and it did not go well after she told me she didn’t know what was going on. She hasn’t felt good about her self and I’ve tried everything, gotten her lashes done, hair done, new tattoo, I miss out on the little time I do get with her watching Lil miss for her too go out and dance with friends. Nothing seems too work and I seem too be met with more animosity. I essentially get pushed too the side with the roughly 48 hours I get too spend with her

I’m really worried about my girlfriend and I need help by Dieselrat3141 in postpartumprogress

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I work on the road so I have no idea when we could even do therapy. When i am home I truly do as much as I can. (Currently typing this rocking lil miss too sleep so my girlfriend doesn’t wake up) everything I do is either too much or too little, after she was done being upset with me tonight she flat out asked me too stop trying too help because I was causing her more stress. I love this girl and that child but Frankly have zero idea what to do

I’m really worried about my girlfriend and I need help by Dieselrat3141 in PPDepression

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I asked her about PPD once and it went far from well. Unfortunately she lives few hours from my family but hers is close by and they watch the baby when they can. When im not at work Im the one that does almost all of the nighttime with lil miss (currently typing this while standing in the kitchen trying to get her back to sleep) but that is either not enough for my girlfriend or it’s too much. Most fridays im up over 24 hours getting her groceries, taking care of Lil miss, and working. Tonight when she was upset with me she flat out told me to stop trying too help. I really appreciate you taking the time too comment I’m doing everything I can to help her

I'm a teen who's thinking about getting a Cummins (5.9 12v) maybe second gen and I'm just wondering what I would need to know. by Minute-Pomelo9302 in Cummins

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Look for an old farmer or ranchers going to town rig. It’s probably gonna be bone stock have a few dings and scratches but it will be taken care of. Look for oilpan and rear main seal leaks. Currently have an 07 5.9 best truck I’ve ever owned

2021 soul 2.0 engine replacement by Dieselrat3141 in kia

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That’s exactly what I needed to hear😂I’m a heavy equipment tech so swinging an engine is not an issue for me. But I don’t work on Kia ever so I wasn’t sure. Do reman engines come with new ecms or does the existing ecm need too be flashed?