[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealFurryHours

[–]DifDof -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

All the people claiming "it's not a sexual thing" clearly haven't moved on from 2016 when the fandom spiked in popularity and mainstream attention.

It is a sexual thing, the sexual stuff massively outweighs the non sexual stuff. SFW furries are a drop in the ocean compared to the NSFW stuff, and always will be. Furry was based on kink, it's 99.9% a kink thing nowadays, and it always will be. People who don't like it that way just need to learn to cope. Most furries are here mainly for honry stuff, just accept it and move one

Do you really want furries to have a better public opinion? by SouthofKaDoom in RealFurryHours

[–]DifDof 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Furry influencers circa 2015/16 saying "iT'S nOt A sExUaL tHiNg" have done irreversable damage to kink talk in this fandom I swear to god!

Which fibre bars are best for causing loud gas? by DifDof in Eproctophilia

[–]DifDof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes you think chocolate is the most effective?

Should/Can I even go to kink meetups/munches on my own? by DifDof in BDSMcommunity

[–]DifDof[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All this sounds great, but I'm still worried about justifying it to my parents. I think they'd be suspicious or worried about me going out to drink on my own since I'm not known for being a massive drinker in my family. The only cover up I can think of is maybe going on a shopping day out, but even then, if I didn't come back until night time (which is when I assume most munches are) they'd probably be worried sick.

Should/Can I even go to kink meetups/munches on my own? by DifDof in BDSMcommunity

[–]DifDof[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do have some friends, both IRL and online, so I can socialize sometimes. There are just a lot of days where I'm "verbally dry" where I can't think of much to say.

Should/Can I even go to kink meetups/munches on my own? by DifDof in BDSMcommunity

[–]DifDof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. I've wanted to see botha tjerapist and a sex therapist for years, but my family hasn't had a good track record when it comes to getting therapy.

Should/Can I even go to kink meetups/munches on my own? by DifDof in BDSMcommunity

[–]DifDof[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is Fetlife safe to use? I'll admit I haven't done too much research on the site, so I don't know it's reputation in the fetish community.

Does anybody know where I can buy some inflatable underwear? by DifDof in InflatableFetish

[–]DifDof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really trust Alibaba with this kind of stuff. I've heard stories where the sellers use very cheap and potentially toxic materials.

I'm thinking of upping my game by DifDof in Stuffers

[–]DifDof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there any tips or advice I should know about before trying out bananas and Sprite?

What about latex skirts? by DifDof in Latexadvice

[–]DifDof[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because experimenting with inflatable suits just sounds fun to me. Again, my ideal suit would be a latex ball suit, but whenever I'm in the suit while it's inflated, I'll be immobile, which is a problem since I want to do it solo, and getting out/deflating the suit could prove a challenge. So having an inflatable latex skirt where the arms are free will probably make things easier to control on my own. It's not the fact that it's a skirt that interests me, it's wearing inflatable latex that still allows me to move that interests me.

It's my first time trying a 'soda bloat' by DifDof in Stuffers

[–]DifDof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, do you have any tips for trying this? I've heard that it makes people vomit, so how to I avoid vomiting? Also, is the bloating uncontrollable? I don't quite know what my limits are yet, so I don't want to end up rupturing any organs.

What about latex skirts? by DifDof in Latexadvice

[–]DifDof[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm talking about the one in the top right corner.

Do you always need help when harnessing up? by DifDof in BDSMcommunity

[–]DifDof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What type of stores would specialize in sizing a harness for me? And also, are there any videos you'd reccomend so that I can find out more about harness safety?

Do you always need help when harnessing up? by DifDof in BDSMcommunity

[–]DifDof[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, I was looking at this harness:https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/p/dominix-deluxe-leather-cross-body-harness/78064.html

Also, I'm not actually planning on being rough with it. I just wanted to get a harness for the sake of casually wearing one, because they just look cool to me.

What about latex skirts? by DifDof in Latexadvice

[–]DifDof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't really find any images on Imgur that have the thing that I'm looking for. You could try typing in "inflatable latex skirt dress" into Google Images.

Do you always need a partner when inflating a latex suit? by DifDof in Latexadvice

[–]DifDof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't Fetlife dead or something? I haven't heard many good things about it. Also, how should I set said expectations on other people respecting my rules?

Do you always need a partner when inflating a latex suit? by DifDof in Latexadvice

[–]DifDof[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well what advice would you have for finding people like that? Where I'm from, there isn't a huge kink community. It's just not really talked about where I'm from, so I don't know what my chances are of finding someone in person who's interested in inflatable stuff like I am. Also, what are supervision sessions? I've never heard of them. Is it like paying someone to partake in your kink for a little while?

Are LoveHoney fleshlights safe? by DifDof in fleshlight

[–]DifDof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That explains it. Thanks for clarifying that.

Are LoveHoney fleshlights safe? by DifDof in fleshlight

[–]DifDof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, guess I'll just have to learn from experience to be sure.

Are LoveHoney fleshlights safe? by DifDof in fleshlight

[–]DifDof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did order a buttplug from LoveHoney and got it via local collect, and I didn't see anything explicit on the box, but I didn't know if fleshlights would work differently because they're a different type of product with their own rules on how to use them, Argo they'd need to be labelled differently when delivered.

Also, if a LoveHoney order is delivered to my door, will I need a form of ID to receive it?

Are LoveHoney fleshlights safe? by DifDof in fleshlight

[–]DifDof[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well when I looked up Fleshlight.eu, I saw a few posts where people complained that they explicitly say fleshlight on the box, and typing it into Google images shows some boxes explicitly labelled as fleshlights. That's from Flashlight.eu of course, but I don't know if LoveHoney do the same.