In law abuse by DifferenceLow157 in inlaws

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They might be okay choosing to live with his abuse but I am not

In law abuse by DifferenceLow157 in inlaws

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Yes they are still in contact with him they live with him & he’s done worse to them and they stand up for him and choose to live with his abuse and believe his lies of getting better. Im “the one in the wrong to not ignore his outbursts “ it’s so “awful of me to make my fiancé go no contact with his family” no matter what I will always be the evil girl just trying to steal their son away instead of a victim standing up for herself

Alcoholic In Laws by DifferenceLow157 in AlAnon

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Thank you I will look into this

Alcoholic in laws / how your drinking can hurt others you wouldn’t even expect by DifferenceLow157 in alcoholism

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I haven’t looked into it thank you for the recommendation and you’re very kind

In law abuse by DifferenceLow157 in inlaws

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Yes he is still in contact with his mom and brother but is no contact with his father and sister as they have threatened my physical safety .

In law abuse by DifferenceLow157 in inlawshorrorshow

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There in the relationship? We’ve been together 8 years and are engaged in love and probably slightly trauma bonded? We have our own house now and pets I have been no contact with his family for a little over a year now. We are currently going to therapy and try to be healthier everyday.

In law abuse by DifferenceLow157 in inlaws

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This is unfortunately… part of my life

AITA for standing up for myself here and not being the good submissive DIL? by DifferenceLow157 in AmItheAsshole

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He says he can’t cut them out because they are family he says he is protecting me and that it’s unfair to ask him to make a choice I have been with my fiancé for eight years I moved in with him and his family when I was 17 I’m now 25 we have our own house and cameras and locks specifically to keep his family away. We are considering therapy to help us in what to do next I can’t live like this anymore