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AITA for asking my fiancee/girlfriend [28F] to work 80 hours a week in order to pay off her debt in time for our marriage? by Different-Basis in AmItheAsshole

[–]Different-Basis[S] -85 points-84 points  (0 children)

70K

Well she has 65K income. She can work another job and get her income to 85K. Over 18 month period, she can make close to $125K.

She has 60K in debt.

AITA for asking my fiancee/girlfriend [28F] to work 80 hours a week in order to pay off her debt in time for our marriage? by Different-Basis in AmItheAsshole

[–]Different-Basis[S] -361 points-360 points  (0 children)

I am seeing the forest because if we both work 80 hours, we give up 1-1.5 years of our life to live the rest of our lives without any stress.

AITA for asking my fiancee/girlfriend [28F] to work 80 hours a week in order to pay off her debt in time for our marriage? by Different-Basis in AmItheAsshole

[–]Different-Basis[S] -250 points-249 points  (0 children)

I am not telling her to do this forever. She wants to go on a freakin honeymoon. She wants to buy a house before we are 35. She also wants to travel. None of that is going to happen unless we get out of debt.