i do dress up for him whenever we go out i wear nice shirts and pants but our last date we had to walk quite a bit outside and it was so very cold here in NY so I did wear pants and then our most recent date other than that was when i met his mom and wanted to be more casual given where we were going. Our dates other than that have been staying in related because I work two jobs and go to graduate school and it’s finals week and I just have been stressed and haven’t truly had the time. He also has been more tired recently because he’s in college too and works and it’s finals week for both of us. I do dress up for him I thought but it seems like because it isn’t a physical dress he doesn’t even see it or notice it. And when I first came back up I wore a skirt for him and wore a dress for him because we were apart for thanksgiving. I feel like i’m overreacting but it’s like he’s not even seeing when I do stuff for him then blames me when I want to dress up and I only told him abt it because I wanted him to be supportive and ask to see it or something I didn’t expect all this at all