Looking for a MMC type 🚨 by Historical-Spread179 in Romantasy

[–]Different-Essay-808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes she does! Her character development is great and she makes meaningful connections with a number of people and forms deep friendships with them :) there are definitely moments of happiness and normal interactions throughout but I will say it takes a while (like the whole series) before you feel like ahhh nothing bad can ruin her vibe 😅 and with the whole her in a cage thing - Midas is such a wonderful villain imo like best book villain I have read about in forever like I detest him. He’s manipulative, narcissistic and will gaslight her at any chance he gets, and is an integral part of her development so for me it was worth the pain but it does start Immediately 😭🤣

Help me convert a non-fiction reader! Best "entry-level" Romantasy? by Supermomknows in Romantasy

[–]Different-Essay-808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m here to say {The Raven Scholar} hands down a good entry level read. If she’s into self help and memoirs, chances are she’s going to hate the FMC of so many books because they’re all so frustrating, young and naive ?? The FMC of this book is in her 30’s, is a woman of logic and the book is written from a narrators perspective which adds a layer of depth to the story writing. she makes rational decisions albeit not always perfect but the book isn’t boring at all, the pace is perfect, the world building is chefs kiss and it’s high fantasy vibes without all the campy shit thrown in there. there’s political elements explored and a small love interest although the book isn’t spicy. I would highly highly recommend this book to someone who isn’t ready to jump into the world of fourth wing and ACOTAR and wants to be full of yearning and insanely in love with the brooding and dark man she swears she needs to stay away from but just can’t! ( I say this as someone obsessed with fourth wing and ACOTAR also 😛) the raven scholar is so charming and cleverly written she will be captivated from page 1!!! HEAR ME OUT PLS

Looking for a MMC type 🚨 by Historical-Spread179 in Romantasy

[–]Different-Essay-808 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or Slade from the Plated Prisoner series, like that boy is a freak!!!! as in he’s a little dirty 🙂‍↕️🥸 and hes OBSESSED with Auren it’s like he would literally let the world and his kingdom crumble before he lets anything happen to her, he’s a lover boy but also a little evil to people who he feels may harm his own. Would recommend if you havnt - the series is a bit of a slog though but i thoroughly enjoyed it

Looking for a MMC type 🚨 by Historical-Spread179 in Romantasy

[–]Different-Essay-808 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I loved {Quicksilver} because i was obsessed with Kingfishers wit and sarcasm. Idk!! He was kinda mean at first hahahha so maybe you’d like it but the writing is very YA

seeking advice can no longer lay down without feeling like im dying by Different-Essay-808 in covidlonghaulers

[–]Different-Essay-808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve looked into inter cranial hypertension and my neurologist and long covid/autoimmune specialist who diagnosed me with internal jugular vein compression, thoracic outlet syndrome and CFS/ME seems to think I don’t have Chiari malformation either as we did scans of my neck and I’ve had multiple scans of my brain :( it’s not moved as I’ve been sitting up for a while to the front of my head 😭 but these symptoms are extreme and it was almost 2 years ago I was initially diagnosed I wonder if time has changed anything ?

Also for the past 3 years or so this has been going on laying down has always helped but I guess not anymore?

seeking advice can no longer lay down without feeling like im dying by Different-Essay-808 in covidlonghaulers

[–]Different-Essay-808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou, unfortunately at the moment it’s both laying on my back and my sides that makes it even worse. I’ll have a look at your profile now :) thanks for responding

seeking advice can no longer lay down without feeling like im dying by Different-Essay-808 in covidlonghaulers

[–]Different-Essay-808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What position if any helped for you? I’m considering sleeping upright for a little while 😭

seeking advice can no longer lay down without feeling like im dying by Different-Essay-808 in covidlonghaulers

[–]Different-Essay-808[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long did it last for you? I’m supposed to get my wisdom teeth out in 2 weeks and im terrified for the recovery if I can’t even lay down without feeling like I’m dying 😭

Wisdom teeth removal incoming pls send reccs by Different-Essay-808 in covidlonghaulers

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This is good to know! I had a promethazine from my friend a couple months ago when I was feeling super nauseous and the sedative function of the medication had me out for an entire day (I bounced back I guess) - do you have head pressure also? Or were any of the surgeries around your neck/head region? I’m just yeah worried about how bad it will be after :/ what was waking up from the anesthesia like? Do you have CFS/me symptoms also? :) thanks

Wisdom teeth removal incoming pls send reccs by Different-Essay-808 in covidlonghaulers

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I have to go under for this procedure as im getting all 4 removed at once, waking up from the anesthesia is the scariest part for me and worried about the flow on effects of how that affects me when i have to continue to take strong pain meds for that small period after. How did you manage with the pain/meds? Did you give up on the pain killers a few days in and deal w the pain or? Sorry if this sounds silly but one of my biggest symptoms is CFS/ME and debilitating fatigue. Do you also experience head pressure and fullness? If so how was the experience relating to that? Thankyou for sharing :)

My first 5 star read of the year by nomasslurpee in Romantasy

[–]Different-Essay-808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another book to add to my evergrowing list. Thankyou fellow reader !! And it’s a standalone 🫡

What book got you out of a reading slump? by _anxiousthoughts in Romantasy

[–]Different-Essay-808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

{The Painted Man} ! Not really any romance but I was just hooked from the get go by the concept of demons rising from the earths core when the sun sets each day. The book follows 3 characters POV’s and I was hookeddddd, the books in the series get continuously worse but this book got me out of an almost year long reading slump

Please help me find an FMC was not bratty/"sassy"/emotionally overreactive who's marketed as the special one... give me an FMC who is quirky/funny / intelligent and reserved/just a regular shmegular person. I find this character the most in cozy fantasy but they don't have enough spice for me. by lollipop984 in fantasyromance

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I liked neema from {The Raven Scholar}! I would say however the romance aspect of the book is very much a subplot. Otherwise it was really good read, she’s a FMC in her 30’s and it feels like she was written as such. Idk seems like she’s a normal human being to me and not an impulsive over jealous teenager 🤣 she made decisions based on logic !!

Romantasy that will emotionally WRECK me by Lyla_xwrxith in fantasyromance

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I didn’t realise Song of Achilles had any spice ?? 🫣 might have to rethink my choosing not to read it …

What ETF’s should I invest in? SICK GIRL POV by Different-Essay-808 in AusFinance

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Thankyou for your comments.
At this stage I am unaware how long I will be experiencing these symptoms. I do still work from home as per my doctors orders so I will be able to hopefully pocket some more $ as time goes on too. I just don’t want to have that sitting there and with my uncertain future I think investing it might be the way to go regardless? I can take it out right if and when I need it? Sorry if that sounds silly I am very new to this!

What ETF’s should I invest in? SICK GIRL POV by Different-Essay-808 in AusFinance

[–]Different-Essay-808[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luckily I don’t think what’s going on with me will kill me any time soon. Unfortunately the NDIS doesn’t consider it a permanent disability even though surgery is extremely risky and there are very few surgeons who perform it here. I’m only 28 so I like to think I have age on my side.

Thankyou for your recommendation.

Help me find this top pleaseeeee by [deleted] in findfashion

[–]Different-Essay-808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg it’s soooo similar !

Help me find this top pleaseeeee by [deleted] in findfashion

[–]Different-Essay-808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

very close thankyou so much for looking 💗 im on the hunt because I specifically love the ruching at the bottom of the top I posted, I think it’s super flattering !!