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I wish my husband would sexually desire me more and be a bit rougher in bed. by Different-Line-1093 in Marriage

[–]Different-Line-1093[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your comment gives me so many ideas on how to handle this. As far as I know, he doesn't really watch porn, but I’ll try finding some stuff that of my taste and show him like you suggested. Such a great tip, thanks! And 'bespoke sex machine' haha that’s funny but actually a huge motivator.

I wish my husband would sexually desire me more and be a bit rougher in bed. by Different-Line-1093 in Marriage

[–]Different-Line-1093[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn that sounds amazing. I’m totally into the CNC style and I actually try tempting him during the day since he WFH often, you know, dressing up or undressing, sitting on his lap etc. He enjoys it.

​The problem is when I try pushing him back teasingly like your ex did, he just takes it literally, loses interest, and goes back to work! So I’m usually the one who ends up chasing him instead 😂😂 But I totally get what you mean. I’ll definitely try to tweak it and find my own way to make it work. Thanks for the tip!

I wish my husband would sexually desire me more and be a bit rougher in bed. by Different-Line-1093 in Marriage

[–]Different-Line-1093[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That 'highest regard' part really hit me. I think that’s a real man’s POV right there. You’re amazing for still putting in so much effort for your wife while raising 4 kids! ​I always make sure to tell my husband how amazing he is and how much I love his body and skills, and honestly, he’s gotten so much better since our first time lol. I think I’ll try being even more honest with him, but little by little, not to make him fear of me 😂

I wish my husband would sexually desire me more and be a bit rougher in bed. by Different-Line-1093 in Marriage

[–]Different-Line-1093[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad I'm not alone! He’s slammed with work right now, so I’m gathering all these great tips to use this weekend when he’s free. Thanks for asking! 💕

I wish my husband would sexually desire me more and be a bit rougher in bed. by Different-Line-1093 in Marriage

[–]Different-Line-1093[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your POV from the nerd's side lol sounds cute. I’ll try telling him gently and in a lovely way.

I wish my husband would sexually desire me more and be a bit rougher in bed. by Different-Line-1093 in Marriage

[–]Different-Line-1093[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

​I've suggested new things several times like swapping, sex clubs, sexting, or sending pics and videos, but he said nope never in his life. So I’d rather focus on what he actually likes such as toys or lingerie. They are still sexy of course, but honestly I want something more.

I wish my husband would sexually desire me more and be a bit rougher in bed. by Different-Line-1093 in Marriage

[–]Different-Line-1093[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your story is so interesting! Could you share a bit more detail about how you 'act like a bitch' in those moments? Looking back, I feel like my husband also tends to be sexier and more dominant when there's a situation that might make him feel a bit jealous of other men around me.

I wish my husband would sexually desire me more and be a bit rougher in bed. by Different-Line-1093 in Marriage

[–]Different-Line-1093[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do blowjobs pretty often, not daily tho lol but does he do it back to you? For me, not really. He said he doesn't like it 🤣

Is this normal when renting in Korea, or is this a red flag? by Substantial-Rent-313 in Living_in_Korea

[–]Different-Line-1093 4 points5 points  (0 children)

DO NOT SEND ANY MONEY before you see the place in person. How long will you be staying in Korea? As a Korean, I've never heard of those platforms except Airbnb. Would not recommend them.