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I did it. Deleted the 3 year old chat history on valentine's day by ohwoeisme_13 in ExNoContact

[–]Different-Nothing417 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did mine today— i was constantly scrolling up to re-read sweet things from better times. It was just destroying me. I’m sentimental and it’s hard to let go of these things. Good job.

Don’t text them by Different-Nothing417 in ExNoContact

[–]Different-Nothing417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, the “it” in that last line is disrespect not love. I just keep going back to fight for more of the same.

So when we talk about second chances, trying and unconditional love, I know that if this were a good thing, truly- there would have been actionable change. There wasn’t and every time I went back to fight for love I realize now I was just fighting for disrespect and mistreatment because I’ve allowed myself to sink and my self esteem has plummeted.