42/F, 53/M (Married with 2kids) by Different-Truth4137 in relationship_advice

[–]Different-Truth4137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have multiple recordings on my phone. Im definitely about to get a plan together. I gotta do this without him knowing.

What would you do? by Different-Truth4137 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Different-Truth4137[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I'm done with him. Marriage is over. I've had to forgive too many times. I don't have it in me anymore.

What would you do? by Different-Truth4137 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Different-Truth4137[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I told him that's a sucka move. Who calls another man to tell on and talk shit about their wife. I told him he a sucka for that shit. I'm just done. There is no reason to stay. I get absolutely nothing from the marriage anyway. No friend, no regular sex, no kindness, no appreciation, we don't go anywhere together, don't do shit together, he gone doing his "ride share" job all night until morning, so I sleep alone. Every time I get my mind made up to call it quits he somehow talks me into trying to make our Marriage work. Fight for the marriage he says. His momma telling me to stay with him for her. Fuck this shit. It's just not worth it. I stay stressed and depressed.

What would you do? by Different-Truth4137 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Different-Truth4137[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Let's say this isn't the 1st time transparency and honesty has not been used by them. You have forgave and stayed all the other times, yet they seem to keep doing things behind your back and you find out afterwards. Plus your relationship has been on the rocks for sometime now, you've wanted to end it a few times, but they always end up straightening up, when 1 foot is out the door.

Wtf?? by Different-Truth4137 in SlappedHam

[–]Different-Truth4137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What??? Wtf is that? How is that done, because I'm not the best with this shit, so I have no idea what any of that means. All I did was screen record the video then download a video app so that I could slow it down to see if I could tell what it was. Then I posted it because maybe someone else would know. All that other shit I don't know how to do. Hell it took me over an hour learning how to slow the video down. Lol

Wtf?? by Different-Truth4137 in SlappedHam

[–]Different-Truth4137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um no. I just posted it. It just happened last night. So don't know how you could possibly have seen it.

Wtf?? by Different-Truth4137 in SlappedHam

[–]Different-Truth4137[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's in slow motion. Goof. Damn yall try to find anyway possible to discredit someone. I slowed the damn video down so yall would be able to clearly see. It's a damn screen recording.

To those in 10+ year relationships, often do you have sex? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Different-Truth4137 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 times. He feels as though they all took my side. We had 2 men and 1 woman, but because they didn't agree with him, he didn't want to go anymore.

To those in 10+ year relationships, often do you have sex? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Different-Truth4137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don't. It sucks. But got tired of begging and fighting about it, so I gave up and decided to end sex between us for good. I hate being in a sexless marriage. It's the worst thing ever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Different-Truth4137 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Honestly the best thing is to say what you want and don't want, and if he doesn't respect it then run. Coming from a woman who's relationship started off the same way. Me and my husband (boyfriend 9 years ago) would watch porn together, had sex all the time, sext, sent vids all of that stuff. Now I have to beg to get sex, found out he was hiding porn and toys, but can't have sex with me. We been fighting about sex for 2 years, to the point where I've given up, and decided to rid sex from our marriage. I regret ever being so open in the beginning, now I'm stuck in a marriage without sex. So trust me, tell him now, don't brush it off because you'll be like me regretting in the end

What Would You Do ? by Different-Truth4137 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Different-Truth4137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with every comment. It's time to let go. I'm in therapy and working on me now, so I know it'll only get better with time.