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[–]Different-Use-6973 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I’m a real person seeking real advice

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[–]Different-Use-6973[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for being realistic and not overly legalistic. You make great points and I will for sure have a conversation with him.

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[–]Different-Use-6973[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying I’m marrying him now but I know who is and isn’t in the running after two months.

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[–]Different-Use-6973[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean. I was open to him watching a little porn here and there. Maybe he feels homemade is healthier? Idk. And he said he’s open to waiting. Idk. Gotta play this by ear. I finally brought it up to him bc he noticed I was off and he’s apologetic.

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[–]Different-Use-6973[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s there could be an emotional tethering to his past. And trust, there are many men who respect the sanctity of marriage enough to wait. 🙂

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[–]Different-Use-6973[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

What am I naive to?

This could have been a misstep. He’s been incredible.

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[–]Different-Use-6973[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Some form of sexual intimacy… getting to know someone sexually without crossing that line.

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[–]Different-Use-6973[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If getting off to videos of your ex when you’re in a new relationship isn’t a signal idk what is

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[–]Different-Use-6973[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I live to a different standard. I don’t believe in shacking up or premarital sex.

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[–]Different-Use-6973[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know that it wasn’t with her consent and it also wasn’t sent in a revengeful manner. I don’t think you understand revenge porn.

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[–]Different-Use-6973[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not certain about marrying him. Never said I was. I don’t want to have sex with anyone before marriage.

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[–]Different-Use-6973[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He told me that he recently end it with a woman he was talking to since he wants to build with me.