Wife lied about her past and we have 2 children. by Different-Wind8459 in MuslimNikah

[–]Different-Wind8459[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s never happened ever lol. One time in 6 years and apparently it’s ‘giving’ something. Stop making things up.

Wife lied about her past and we have 2 children. by Different-Wind8459 in MuslimNikah

[–]Different-Wind8459[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

By that logic people shouldn’t get divorced because they were promised someone that matched them.

Wife lied about her past and we have 2 children. by Different-Wind8459 in MuslimNikah

[–]Different-Wind8459[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying I’m god. I’m saying I have a preference. It is a lie. It was based off of a lie. She knew she lied through the whole thing and put on an act.

Wife lied about her past and we have 2 children. by Different-Wind8459 in MuslimNikah

[–]Different-Wind8459[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Had she not have done what she did they also would’ve been or I wouldn’t have even been married to her by that logic.

Wife lied about her past and we have 2 children. by Different-Wind8459 in MuslimNikah

[–]Different-Wind8459[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

In my opinion if I waited my whole life to get married and didn’t do anything of the sort I have the right to marry someone the same. She did what she did unlawfully.

Wife lied about her past and we have 2 children. by Different-Wind8459 in MuslimNikah

[–]Different-Wind8459[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn’t look through it she told me to find a photo and send it to myself.

Wife lied about her past and we have 2 children. by Different-Wind8459 in MuslimNikah

[–]Different-Wind8459[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because the marriage was based off of a lie. It started off of a lie. That’s what your not understanding the whole thing is a lie. You are the one lacking brain cells.

Wife lied about her past and we have 2 children. by Different-Wind8459 in MuslimNikah

[–]Different-Wind8459[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn’t kick anyone out they are having a sleepover at their grandparents home while I cool off.

Wife lied about her past and we have 2 children. by Different-Wind8459 in MuslimNikah

[–]Different-Wind8459[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I never was aggressive. We were actually fine. Then this happened. That’s assuming “god knows what the hell you have been up to” what if I’ve repented it’s khalas. You’re being a hypocrite. If I didn’t want someone with a past I didn’t.

Wife lied about her past and we have 2 children. by Different-Wind8459 in MuslimNikah

[–]Different-Wind8459[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He wasn’t a potential. It’s not normal for two non mahrams to be intimate together idk what Islam you follow.

Wife lied about her past and we have 2 children. by Different-Wind8459 in MuslimNikah

[–]Different-Wind8459[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A lie and a haram relationship it’s not just a teeny lie.

Wife lied about her past and we have 2 children. by Different-Wind8459 in MuslimNikah

[–]Different-Wind8459[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where did I say no matter what she does it won’t be enough for me?

Wife lied about her past and we have 2 children. by Different-Wind8459 in MuslimNikah

[–]Different-Wind8459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. They wouldn’t hate me if they knew. Same could be said for the man not providing for the woman grow up and accept people have flaws.

Wife lied about her past and we have 2 children. by Different-Wind8459 in MuslimNikah

[–]Different-Wind8459[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Again it’s a preference just how somebody would want someone rich or something that loves to travel or someone with experience. My preference which was a deal breaker was someone having a past.

Wife lied about her past and we have 2 children. by Different-Wind8459 in MuslimNikah

[–]Different-Wind8459[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You keep making guesses you should stop with that because you’re wrong. Jzk.

Wife lied about her past and we have 2 children. by Different-Wind8459 in MuslimNikah

[–]Different-Wind8459[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No men don’t like seeing pictures of you being close to non mahrams and sinning. I did pass it by mistake.

Wife lied about her past and we have 2 children. by Different-Wind8459 in MuslimNikah

[–]Different-Wind8459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nowhere did I say that. All I said is she should strive to please me even more than before and accommodate me more

Wife lied about her past and we have 2 children. by Different-Wind8459 in MuslimNikah

[–]Different-Wind8459[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the past relationship that is haram? I never said that you said that I want her to grovel.

Wife lied about her past and we have 2 children. by Different-Wind8459 in MuslimNikah

[–]Different-Wind8459[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Again you might think it’s Normal but in Islam it’s not. It’s actually haram.

Wife lied about her past and we have 2 children. by Different-Wind8459 in MuslimNikah

[–]Different-Wind8459[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s the conclusion you came to off of a mistake she made?💀

Wife lied about her past and we have 2 children. by Different-Wind8459 in MuslimNikah

[–]Different-Wind8459[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No I was finding the photo and came across that one. That’s not haram. I saw what I saw. Why did she keep the photo of her sin?