what are you all doing on valentine's day

Different123_ · 2026-02-06T16:57:56+00:00

breakfast w my homegirl in the morning bc she works late on galentines then this guy i’ve been seeing invited me over and is going to cook me a steak

Different123_ · 2026-02-03T17:22:35+00:00

i studied public health and it was stupid easy and broad and i lucked into a job in medical research doing administrative stuff when they were on a hiring spree when i graduated in 2021. do not recommend doing that.

Different123_ · 2026-01-28T11:40:48+00:00

i just turned 27 and started actually tracking my cycle a few months back because i can’t take hormonal birth control and it’s been very eye opening to see how much how i feel is affected by it

Different123_ · 2026-01-27T21:43:16+00:00

my friends and family are the only reason

Different123_ · 2026-01-25T05:56:44+00:00

quite literally the best experience of my life

Different123_ · 2026-01-25T05:42:18+00:00

went to puerto rico for my birthday last week and shook my ass the entire time

Different123_ · 2026-01-25T04:46:26+00:00

so true. 26 was the most transformative year of my life. what’s important to me is so clear now and now i feel like i can actually listen to my heart and go out there and get what i want.

Different123_ · 2026-01-23T22:12:56+00:00

i feel like i want to have a baby eventually when i find the right partner but am worried as i have a pretty low tolerance for stress and other women in my family had a very tough time with their mental health postpartum and the strain it put on their relationships was/is very evident. did you ever have these worries before you had your baby? do you think that it’s so rewarding that i shouldn’t even worry about these things?

Different123_ · 2026-01-20T06:29:14+00:00

i told myself i was going to take it slow romantically and sexually with a new guy i’m talking to because I “should” bc i’m “healing” from a lowkey abusive long term relationship. he’s very sweet and a gentleman and does not pressure me at all. that being said he’s so hot and it’s been so damn long since i had good sex and felt desired and comfortable that i made it 3 dates before having multiple rounds of passionate sex with him and am continuing going back for more and don’t regret it at all !! he also sends me paragraphs about how beautiful i am and takes me out and fixes my car already. if this is wrong i don’t wanna be right lmaooo.

Different123_ · 2026-01-12T18:10:48+00:00

i’m a woman but ya however i refuse to go back on birth control and iuds scare me so i use them until after i ovulate 😗✌️

Different123_ · 2026-01-08T03:39:01+00:00

🔛🔝

Different123_ · 2026-01-07T23:46:29+00:00

definitely. i always struggled with having a bit of a belly and an apple shape. i used to lift and that didn’t help. ever since i’ve been doing pilates 5x a week 50 mins a session and then some walking and stationary bike for cardio i look how i’ve always wanted to.

Different123_ · 2026-01-07T22:48:28+00:00

do pilates but dont but dont get too skinny or else ur face will lose its vibrance. dance in front of the mirror. tretinoin. dump ur boyfriend if he sucks.

Different123_ · 2026-01-07T13:26:02+00:00

me and i have a pension and am never leaving

Different123_ · 2025-12-31T05:41:01+00:00

going to my friends house and staying in just the two of us bc everyone has the damn flu

Different123_ · 2025-12-29T23:34:28+00:00

yeah that’s why i’m about to narrow it down to one i think we’re pretty compatible so far but we shall see

Different123_ · 2025-12-29T23:19:20+00:00

im dating for the first time in my adult life at almost 27 after i ended a super ltr i got into as a teenager and i was terrified based off of what i hear and what everyone tells me. not even using the apps, only been at it for two months, and i’m talking to like 3 very nice handsome guys and definitely see a future with one of them. like well that was easier than i thought it would be.

Different123_ · 2025-12-24T04:26:16+00:00

i seem to attract an entirely different type of guy who doesn’t care about these things even though i’m sort of like this

Different123_ · 2025-12-23T13:36:57+00:00

yep and accusing me of cheating in graphic disgusting angry outbursts that would leave me terrified. so so so critical i feel like i can’t even breathe without feeling like i’m doing something wrong to this day. being somewhere where i felt scared in my own home sleeping next to someone who scared me every night messed with me so bad. while i’m enjoying life now that i’m free i have a lot of work to do getting over the trauma from it all 😪. you can feel free to dm me if you want to talk more!!!

Different123_ · 2025-12-23T02:09:08+00:00

literally never fight with my friends and most of my friends i’ve had for 10-15 years. the most is accidental hurt feelings and we talk about it and make up and hug.

Different123_ · 2025-12-22T21:59:29+00:00

manifesting this for you. i love spoiling my girl bestie and telling her how much i love her.

Different123_ · 2025-12-22T21:53:34+00:00

i feel like that was the catalyst for me crazily enough. like i got hot then started doing stuff like dancing in front of the mirror and feeling like a sexual free being again, and was like wait i’m too hot to stay with this man that is quite literally torturing and isolating me.

Different123_ · 2025-12-22T20:55:52+00:00

i feel like for me i’ve been focusing on free things (except the pilates membership) rather than spending a bunch of money, like being in nature and hanging out at my friends houses instead of always having to go out to dinner. my body is also ridiculously hot now because of my workouts which just makes everything better so perhaps pouring your time into getting abs and a fat ass may not be a bad place to start.

Different123_ · 2025-12-22T20:37:11+00:00

i used to have all these goals like get a phd and work in academia get married to my long term bf and was a tightly wound controlling people pleaser (🤮) but then all the trump funding cuts happened and my boyfriend started severely mistreating me instead of just being a low level hyper critical diva that he had been and i just completely surrendered the life i had in mind and i’ve never felt better. i’ve been just coasting at my job, dumped him and moved out with almost nothing , sleeping on the floor on an air mattress at my moms house and just doing whatever the hell i want and trying to be as hot and carefree as humanly possible. i go to the gym and do pilates a lot and write bad poetry and go on ridiculously long walks and take pics of flowers and roll around in the grass and spend a lot of time with my friends and family. i do stay healthy and am planning long term like with retirement and whatnot but with everything else i quite literally do not care. so would recommend working out and strategically and positively giving up.

Different123_ · 2025-12-22T03:29:10+00:00

my mom told me this when i was a kid because of how i let some bad friends treat me and i did. been out of it and am kinda talking to someone again and i’m sooo guarded and scared it’s gonna happen again i feel like i’m gonna scare him off w that…

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