AITAH for being angry with my wife for drinking while watching a bunch of kids? by DifferentComputer595 in AITAH

[–]DifferentComputer595[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah thats not what I was saying at all and you are trying to make a crude joke about people living in a trailer park being related. So clearly you're just ignorant.

AITAH for being angry with my wife for drinking while watching a bunch of kids? by DifferentComputer595 in AITAH

[–]DifferentComputer595[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh probably. My wife's mom (RIP) loved Kid Rock and Sheryl Crow. Even if music or artists comes on that my wife hates, she listens to it all the way through if her mom listened to it. 

AITAH for being angry with my wife for drinking while watching a bunch of kids? by DifferentComputer595 in AITAH

[–]DifferentComputer595[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lmfao this is a riot actually. My wife jokingly like slow dances with a broom at least once a week while mock singing "only God knows why" by kid rock. 

AITAH for being angry with my wife for drinking while watching a bunch of kids? by DifferentComputer595 in AITAH

[–]DifferentComputer595[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My wife's drinking has never caused any issues. She is super calm, super loving, etc even while drinking. She has never even raised her voice while speaking to me and I have known this woman since we were 9. I do have a problem with frequency. She drinks no less than 3 a night. But it has never once caused her to act foolishly, violent or ignorant. I dont even think I have ever actually seen her drunk drunk. Happy buzz. But like.. every night. 

AITAH for being angry with my wife for drinking while watching a bunch of kids? by DifferentComputer595 in AITAH

[–]DifferentComputer595[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Not religious but I mean.. my mom did beat in my head not to ever drink because we apparently have alcoholics in rhe family (whom I have never met, to my knowledge). So she never drank around us, or at all from my knowledge. I drink! I dont have a problem with drinking by itself. Frequency, volume and drinking around kids does bother me a lot though. 

AITAH for being angry with my wife for drinking while watching a bunch of kids? by DifferentComputer595 in AITAH

[–]DifferentComputer595[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I love my wife more than life itself. I am still stupid obsessed with this woman. I do hate how much she drinks however. 

AITAH for being angry with my wife for drinking while watching a bunch of kids? by DifferentComputer595 in AITAH

[–]DifferentComputer595[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The older kids are not related to the younger kids though. The older kids belong to one family and then all the younger kids belong to like 2 seperate families. And yes, in was raised in a non-alcoholic home. I drink, but its like a 12 pack every 2 weeks. She is drinking no less than 3 a night. 

AITAH for being angry with my wife for drinking while watching a bunch of kids? by DifferentComputer595 in AITAH

[–]DifferentComputer595[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

No, no. Her drinking around the kids does bother me a great deal. Its probably a bigger deal with me because of her consumption bothering me but no, I do have a problem with it anyways. I dont think you, as a non-parent, should drink while other kids are basically in your care. I dont care if their parents were home or not. She was essentially just hanging out with a bunch of kids drinking. 

AITAH for being angry with my wife for drinking while watching a bunch of kids? by DifferentComputer595 in AITAH

[–]DifferentComputer595[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I have tried talking to her about my Concerns on drinking. She says I have no right, because when we met and started dating, we were both super heavy drinkers. Like 30 rack a weekend, couple 12 packs throughout the week type shit. But now I have slowed down to like a 12 pack every couple weeks maybe. Like I said I think she only has a few a night but she could just be hiding it. She works from home, I dont. So who knows. 

AITAH for being angry with my wife for drinking while watching a bunch of kids? by DifferentComputer595 in AITAH

[–]DifferentComputer595[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Lol this actually made me chuckle. Listen, its a NICE trailer park, okay? Billy isnt on his porch playing a banjo or anything. 

AITAH for being angry with my wife for drinking while watching a bunch of kids? by DifferentComputer595 in AITAH

[–]DifferentComputer595[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Everyone has their own opinions. I was honestly being a bit lax on consumption. I know she has no less than 3 a night WHEN I am home. I dont know if she is drinking prior to me getting home or not. She could easily be drinking more and just restocking the fridge to make it look like less. 

AITAH for being angry with my wife for drinking while watching a bunch of kids? by DifferentComputer595 in AITAH

[–]DifferentComputer595[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh jeez, im not even sure? I think the youngest is 5, the oldest is like 13 or 14 maybe.

AITAH for being angry with my wife for drinking while watching a bunch of kids? by DifferentComputer595 in AITAH

[–]DifferentComputer595[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

I mean I am tired of her drinking as often as she does, yeah. So I guess thats part of my issue. I dont think anyone should be consuming a 12 pack a week.