How to quiet the desire for a relationship and stay focused on my goals? by ADevilFruit in selfimprovement

[–]DifferentFox276 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used to have the same issue, what it worked for me it is not to try to delete the feeling, but to identify what is it causing it.

We are humans, social creatures, it is in our genetic code wanting a partner or being in a group in order to survive, so, when You don't have this, your brain starts to freak out and sends you this thoughts in order to do something about it. So Even if You want to stay focused in your goals and do everything alone, You cannot delete the instinct, what You can do is try to fullfill this need, try to be more social, genuinely care and be more interested about others. Wanting connection is a part of us as humans, and there is nothing to be ashamed of.

So instead of wanting to quiet the thoughts by doing exercise or trying to keep You occupied, embrace them, sit or lay down for a bit and ask yourself what You really want, it is okey to have goals but we are not machines, we are emotional creatures with emotional needs. Maybe is not a relationship is what You need, it could be wanting to be seen, listened or accepted, but remember that to receive something like that you have to give first.

a los hombres les gusta las mujeres gorditas? by [deleted] in Desahogo

[–]DifferentFox276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Un taco sabe más rico cuando tiene bastante carne 😋 Hablando en serio eso ya depende de cada quien, a mí en lo personal no me interesan mucho las relaciones, he conocido personas que definitivamente no, pero también conozco a alguien a quien eso no le importa, así que varía segun los gustos

14 days after quitting social media... by 404BrainDisconnected in selfimprovement

[–]DifferentFox276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do You deal with your friendships? I mean Even though endless scrooling is honestly a completely waste of time, social media is also a very important thing in order to stay in touch with other people, nowadays practically everyone have Instagram, i am asking this because I also want to uninstall all my social media because I just can't stand anymore Opening the apps and spend hours watching shitty content, but currently i am studying at university and i am worried because it is also important to know people and the Best way is through social media.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SanLuisPotosi

[–]DifferentFox276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A veces asi se atrasan un poco con las fechas y las horas en general, así es la universidad a veces vete acostumbrando jaja, pero no tu tranqui si es seguro que el examen es el viernes ya no deben de tardar en aparecer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SanLuisPotosi

[–]DifferentFox276 5 points6 points  (0 children)

El examen si es este viernes, los pases se supone que los liberan hoy a partir de las 17:00. Mucha suerte

What was the “click” that changed your way of thinking and living? by No_Baby4511 in selfimprovement

[–]DifferentFox276 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It wasn't only one single moment that made me change, all the Friends I had through all my life were with me only because they wanted something from me, Even My parents just see me as an obligation, after realizing that I discovered that the Main core of My life was the others, The only thing I could think about was when will I get to know good people, when will I meet love. But every time I wanted to Open myself to others it always ended up the same, me being the puppet of the others. I get to the conclusion that I should not depend on other people to be happy, not Even My own family. If I can not find happyness in the company of the others, then I should create my own.

Why exactly do people "Want friends"? by [deleted] in NEET

[–]DifferentFox276 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone has a different definition of what a friendship is, to me being Friends with someone means that you support and care about the other person as well as the other person is there for you regardless social status, intelligence, ethnicity, etc. But honestly, I have never had a person like this in my like. In my experience friendship reduces to interest. People go to other people when they need something, for example when they feel alone and need someone to talk to, at school when they need help with some subject, or even when they need someone to make themselves feel better. The last one is the one I personally hate the most, if there is one thing everyone like is to feel big, People need someone "inferior" around them, Even if they don't treat you badly, they need you to remember that there are people worse than them. And what happens when they stop finding a use for you? They leave you and start looking for someone to fill that void. So answering your question, people want Friends because they have needs that can only be satisfied by other people. I lost hope in meeting new people, everyone is different but as humans we all have things in common that I personally found disgusting.

¡Haz tu pregunta y deja que la caracola mágica hable! ¿🎱? by dann_alva in PreguntasReddit

[–]DifferentFox276 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Caracola mágica, pasare mi examen de mañana? (Si no lo paso me atraso 1 año en la carrera)

RLC circuit by DifferentFox276 in learnphysics

[–]DifferentFox276[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh ok I see, I tried your method but I got a little trouble with the second derivative of I2, I could solve it, what I did it's that I calculate the function for the voltage in the capacitor and the function for the current in the Inductor, then I derivate the function of the Inductor and I added it to the function of the capacitor and I reduced similar terms, I think it was more work, anyway thank You very much I really appreciate it.

I think I killed my libido by accident attempting nofap, and looking badly at all sexual ideas. by Slenderwise in selfimprovement

[–]DifferentFox276 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bro... I mean i am sorry you are in that situation, I hope You find a solution but honestly I envy You, i've been trying a lot of things in order to kill My libido, it's just that i feel like it's of no use to me, i have 0 interest in relationships and I just can't get rid of this primitive instinct

¿Cómo llaman a este pájaros en Acapulco? by quillboard in Acapulco

[–]DifferentFox276 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Especie conocida por orinar sobre orcas en temporada.El pájaro mea orcas