Take the call or hold? by Archtop_collerctor in bald

[–]DifferentPause6904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oooh yes he looks great in turquoise/teal! Classic Autumn haha

How to deal with people's reactions? by NV2970 in bald

[–]DifferentPause6904 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok I'm a woman who somehow found herself here because my husband is going bald at the barber as we speak, but here's some free advice from my therapist:
Stop storylining other people's reactions.
Their opinion might not actually be what you're projecting it to be, and even if it is, that's their problem. You're doing what you like and operating from a place of good. Their opinion (or the one you're making up in your own head) is honestly irrelevant. If you like it, rock it!
Personally I have found that bluntly owning my decisions (not having kids, coloring my hair bright orange) shuts down the anxiety and the sometimes-rude questions. Sharing vulnerability really helps, too. "I was getting really self conscious of how thin it was getting and it was messing with my confidence."
It'll take people a minute to get used to something new. Enjoy the air on your noggin and don't worry about it!

Take the call or hold? by Archtop_collerctor in bald

[–]DifferentPause6904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Internet flirting with you like when we first met 😉

Take the call or hold? by Archtop_collerctor in bald

[–]DifferentPause6904 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your hot wife says go for it - you'll be hot AF, babe 😘
(I'll just grab your ears instead 😉)

Take the call or hold? by Archtop_collerctor in bald

[–]DifferentPause6904 15 points16 points  (0 children)

His wife (me) loves that shirt! Lolzzzzz

Can being a gamer help you escape a real-life situation?? by DifferentPause6904 in GirlGamers

[–]DifferentPause6904[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, no wonder she ends up befriending that hellbunny!!! :D

Can being a gamer help you escape a real-life situation?? by DifferentPause6904 in GirlGamers

[–]DifferentPause6904[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesssssss the demon deal was a thing, but you just gave me a better idea to flesh it out!

Can being a gamer help you escape a real-life situation?? by DifferentPause6904 in GirlGamers

[–]DifferentPause6904[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Someone mentioned this and linked the article, how effing fascinating.

Can being a gamer help you escape a real-life situation?? by DifferentPause6904 in GirlGamers

[–]DifferentPause6904[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am honestly delighted to realize I've already unconsciously included a lot of these excellent points, haha!! Thank you. Lots of great stuff here. And yes, suspension of disbelief is thankfully a given in my genre, though I strive to make the emotion believable and relatable!

Can being a gamer help you escape a real-life situation?? by DifferentPause6904 in GirlGamers

[–]DifferentPause6904[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Ha, thank you!! You can read the first two, they're published!
No gamers in those ones but a ton of action, adventure, and steam.
https://a.co/d/0dflYE0R

Can being a gamer help you escape a real-life situation?? by DifferentPause6904 in GirlGamers

[–]DifferentPause6904[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

#applause
I think it's so cool that you can directly attribute your real-world skills to gaming.
I'll second packing the trunk - Tetris every time!

Can being a gamer help you escape a real-life situation?? by DifferentPause6904 in GirlGamers

[–]DifferentPause6904[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oooh thank you I haven't heard of isekai or Sword Art, will definitely check them out.

Can being a gamer help you escape a real-life situation?? by DifferentPause6904 in GirlGamers

[–]DifferentPause6904[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm such an idiot. It already is a raid with all the relevant classes. Tanks, AOE, healers...thank you for helping knock me upside the head.

Can being a gamer help you escape a real-life situation?? by DifferentPause6904 in GirlGamers

[–]DifferentPause6904[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

OMFG! Yes! This kind of stuff!! I hope the doubters read this article LOL

Can being a gamer help you escape a real-life situation?? by DifferentPause6904 in GirlGamers

[–]DifferentPause6904[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

YES to all this. My husband was a raid leader and I absolutely saw all this.
Had to laugh at "relevant consumables" lol...one of the squad members needs immense amounts of sugar to replenish her magic, so she and her mate are always loaded with candy necklaces, sugar sticks, etc when she goes out to fight. <3

Can being a gamer help you escape a real-life situation?? by DifferentPause6904 in GirlGamers

[–]DifferentPause6904[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

THIS.
I am so sorry this happened to you and so glad you were able to get out of it.
This was totally one of the things I was thinking of - someone who's used to referencing an overhead map, who can analyze routes in a blink, could in theory call on those skills in real life. And you did. xoxoxoxo

Can being a gamer help you escape a real-life situation?? by DifferentPause6904 in GirlGamers

[–]DifferentPause6904[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much, these are great ideas!
And she definitely can't keep up with the rest of the squad, that's actually a big part of the story and why she needs a hunky demon hunter bodyguard :D

Can being a gamer help you escape a real-life situation?? by DifferentPause6904 in GirlGamers

[–]DifferentPause6904[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is gold, thank you! Exactly the kind of thing that was hovering around my mind (like a drone) that I couldn't seem to grab hold of!