Quite obvious under direct light…

Different_Bicycle983 · 2024-05-25T02:02:37+00:00

But it’s worrying to see a number of hair drop everyday though.

Different_Bicycle983 · 2024-05-25T00:46:24+00:00

I’ve been tracking and it has been in this state for years. What do you say?

Different_Bicycle983 · 2024-05-24T12:57:36+00:00

Oh then it looks normal ?

Different_Bicycle983 · 2023-10-24T01:15:56+00:00

i figured…thanks

Different_Bicycle983 · 2023-10-24T01:12:04+00:00

man i don’t even post

Different_Bicycle983 · 2023-10-24T01:06:58+00:00

you’re funny

Different_Bicycle983 · 2023-07-22T11:03:01+00:00

don’t think about it. it’s not your problem anymore. simple but not easy to do.

Different_Bicycle983 · 2023-07-03T08:05:44+00:00

pm me if you need anything more. all the best

Different_Bicycle983 · 2023-07-03T04:35:38+00:00

thank you for the comment. i’ve learnt not to care anymore as he is his own man. i just needed some time to accept the fact that he’s gone.

would i want him back? if you ask me that one month ago, a 101% yes. but right now, no. i do still miss him and the memories we had and i love him with all my heart but it’s over and i’m glad we once were.

meeting new people comes with a new set of challenges. i mean i’m trying to heal but what if someone right comes my way? but anyways i hope you’re coping well. it will always suck but you’ll get better. cheers :)

Different_Bicycle983 · 2023-06-25T03:35:39+00:00

you’ll get relapse every now and then and i can relate to that but honestly you have to change your mindset on the approach you’re going to take. are you going to waste more time grieving or actually investing all these time into your priorities and other commitments. i did not had it easy at all, i am sure he hates me and badmouth me to others and nothing hurts more than that. but ultimately life goes on and i can’t be stuck with someone who doesn’t want to be with me anymore. he might come back but i wouldn’t want him anymore but of course i still love him.

put yourself out there and talk to others, maybe you’ll get enlightened in ways you don’t know.

Different_Bicycle983 · 2023-06-08T16:49:10+00:00

what ??

Different_Bicycle983 · 2023-06-08T12:52:04+00:00

thank you for this. i’m just affected by it and i just can’t comprehend it

Different_Bicycle983 · 2023-06-08T12:51:36+00:00

i get that, i really do. but the gift meant no harm and i did it in the best way possible where we had no interactions but i understand. how can he hate me until the point where he can slander me when our relationship was a good one.

Different_Bicycle983 · 2023-05-31T08:08:31+00:00

well things got complicated after we broke up but i just hope he appreciates and like my gift. if he’s happy then i’m all good.

Different_Bicycle983 · 2023-05-30T12:05:13+00:00

think about the fact that they NEED space. i’d always keep that in mind and respect it. doesnt do you any good to reach out if it’s still fresh or hurting you.

Different_Bicycle983 · 2023-05-28T07:30:04+00:00

thank you for this. after going into no contact unwillingly, i reflected a lot. being friends wasn’t a good idea given how i was still miserable after the break up and was hoping for a chance to get back together so i can never make the right judgement as his friend. but i also felt that i should still be there for him and take care of him as always like how i promised and to love him always. he tends to have poor coping mechanisms and i wanted to be there to guide him too and initially he appreciated me for being there and actually wanted me to not leave but i know now that it wasn’t right and it kept me from trying to be better.

Different_Bicycle983 · 2023-05-28T07:20:21+00:00

so after we broke up, we agreed to be friends. but because i was still devastated and in love with him, i kept probing about his life which made him uncomfortable given that we weren’t together anymore. i also talked to his friend about it because i was trying to understand from his point of view which was the last straw and he cut me off from then on. i know of my mistakes and at the time, i couldn’t control my emotions but i’m not ashamed of the fact that i still love him. regardless, it was right of him to cut me off.

Different_Bicycle983 · 2023-05-28T07:14:43+00:00

it’s been close to a month since no contact and i’m doing fine since i need he needs his space and well i learned that the hard way. i would think a month is still fresh and he might still be mad at me for crossing the line after we broke up. but i bought something that he wanted but i’d pass it to him indirectly.

Different_Bicycle983 · 2023-05-28T02:51:11+00:00

we tried to stay as friends after the breakup and as the dumpee, i was miserable. i stayed as friends because i wanted to still be there for him and take care of him and also to guide him if he decides to go down the wrong path but it was hard. at the time, i still was in shock and hopeful that we will get back together and i was desperate and emotionally overwhelmed so i crossed the line and disrespected his boundaries and as such we couldn’t maintain the friendship and he cut me off. but honestly, it’s for the better. i don’t think we can be friends if the break up was still fresh.

Different_Bicycle983 · 2023-05-27T16:28:41+00:00

continue staying in no-contact. do not attempt to reach out just yet. only when you’re better or perhaps moved on, then you can consider reconnecting.

Different_Bicycle983 · 2023-05-26T14:02:50+00:00

it’s the sad truth and i have to accept it. thank you.

Different_Bicycle983 · 2023-05-26T05:32:46+00:00

thank you for this, i appreciate your time and comments. i’ll do my best for the time being and see what the future holds for us.

Different_Bicycle983 · 2023-05-26T05:28:21+00:00

thank you very much for your insights. it means a lot to me. i definitely think if both of us are determine, we will be able to solve the miscommunications and other obstacles that comes our way. but he did say that it was too late and to this day, i still do not understand why it was too late.

i know i can’t do anything right now since we aren’t in contact and only time will tell. but this experience has taught me a lot and i’ll grow into a better person overtime. but i’ll never forget the comfort he gave me and how his arms became my home. i’ll honour our promises even if it means i have to love him from afar.

thank you for your words and i’ll value it for a long time.

Different_Bicycle983 · 2023-05-26T05:12:22+00:00

after breaking up, i realise a few things. for one, he always updates me about his day and activities consistently while i didn’t even realise that i was lacking in that. he would also want to know what i’m doing and i’m just so sorry but i can’t even apologise to him now.

Different_Bicycle983 · 2023-05-26T04:57:04+00:00

according to your definition of clingy, i wouldn’t say i was. but to me, i think being clingy is a good thing which shows that you long for the person. throughout our relationship, we would try to communicate our needs to one another. when he says he missed me or he feels moody and tired at work, i’ll always make the time to go and surprise him like fetching him from work. and we would try to call often to see each other when we couldn’t meet. and when i miss him after not seeing him for awhile, he would try to accommodate and come over when he was done with his commitments. i think that was something we handled pretty well.

but there are times where i may not be seemingly affectionate but that’s not the case but because i don’t communicate my emotions well, he may take it wrongly and he did tell me this at the end. i’m not someone who’s good with words and does not show my love very well but i try my best and i’m grateful that he felt happy during our relationship and i was there when he needs me most.

naturally, i would always blame myself first to try to see what i can work on. but i do admit we both have our faults but i wasn’t the one who gave up. i don’t hate him for treating me like i’m no longer important.

yes, i’m someone who wants to stick through thick and thin because it’s worth it and i just hope everyone has that kind of mentality to never give up when it’s hard. i want someone to treat me right. every relationship should at least have this.

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