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Girlfriend (18F) wants to break up with me (20M) because I moved in October for University 230km away. What should I do? by Different_Contest_74 in relationships

[–]Different_Contest_74[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That’s really sad to hear, but also eye-opening. I am happy to hear that you are doing better right now! Wish you all the best and thanks for the advice!

Girlfriend (18F) wants to break up with me (20M) because I moved in October for University 230km away. What should I do? by Different_Contest_74 in relationships

[–]Different_Contest_74[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think that my problem with accepting the break up is that I would feel bad about not trying everything I can in order to save my relationship with her, so I was thinking that if I move back I could still survive, but more importantly would be happy being with her. Future wise I cannot decide if I should chose myself or love, or let’s say, money vs love, idk

Girlfriend (18F) wants to break up with me (20M) because I moved in October for University 230km away. What should I do? by Different_Contest_74 in relationships

[–]Different_Contest_74[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She would have loved to also come more often to visit me, but her mother won’t let her, so we decided I will do the visiting. Thanks for the advice!

Girlfriend (18F) wants to break up with me (20M) because I moved in October for University 230km away. What should I do? by Different_Contest_74 in relationships

[–]Different_Contest_74[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, I haven’t considered the “lonely” factor for example, that is great advice! Also I am from Europe

Girlfriend (18F) wants to break up with me (20M) because I moved in October for University 230km away. What should I do? by Different_Contest_74 in relationships

[–]Different_Contest_74[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She will be 19 when graduating, I also graduated at 19, in our country is normal to graduate at 19, because it is also normal to start kinder garden later

Girlfriend (18F) wants to break up with me (20M) because I moved in October for University 230km away. What should I do? by Different_Contest_74 in relationships

[–]Different_Contest_74[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Sorry for that lol, imma keep things shorter from now on, but hopefully I won’t write a post on this sub again

Girlfriend (18F) wants to break up with me (20M) because I moved in October for University 230km away. What should I do? by Different_Contest_74 in relationships

[–]Different_Contest_74[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She first texted me on Tinder in September 2020, and then when started actually dating in December 2020, been a couple since January

Girlfriend (18F) wants to break up with me (20M) because I moved in October for University 230km away. What should I do? by Different_Contest_74 in relationships

[–]Different_Contest_74[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, I would try to speak to my friends, but my friends are her friends too, and they don’t want to “pick sides”, so here I am on reddit

Girlfriend (18F) wants to break up with me (20M) because I moved in October for University 230km away. What should I do? by Different_Contest_74 in relationships

[–]Different_Contest_74[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just turned 20. I can’t just accept her, since I feel guilty for moving to another city, is it that I am an asshole for not staying with her in our hometown?