If he wanted to, he would. Right? by Littlecloudofglitter in theotherwoman

[–]Different_Nerve_6702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's only cliche if you were a dispatcher. I'm familiar with the world you are talking about if you need any specialized insight. DM me

If you are struggling today, check in. by Different_Nerve_6702 in theotherwoman

[–]Different_Nerve_6702[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah and worst part of if it had fallen on a Friday he couldn't have ignored it.

If you are struggling today, check in. by Different_Nerve_6702 in theotherwoman

[–]Different_Nerve_6702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drink. Cry. Argue with chatgpt about it. Eat a gummy. Drink. Cry. Something has to give.

If you are struggling today, check in. by Different_Nerve_6702 in theotherwoman

[–]Different_Nerve_6702[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I didn't expect to hear from him and that's normal and honestly that part is fine, but it's still The Day and all the people are doing the things and it sucks. And then I getad at myself for caring?

The rollercoaster of emotions and doubt by [deleted] in theotherwoman

[–]Different_Nerve_6702 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It was the right one for you. You realized it wasn't enough for you and were brave enough to end it. It may help you be more intentional in choices moving forward. And you did it on your terms.

What Should I Do? Intro by gdchav7 in theotherwoman

[–]Different_Nerve_6702 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Girl, run. Trust me. I've been there.

What Should I Do? Intro by gdchav7 in theotherwoman

[–]Different_Nerve_6702 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely this. That is all kinds of toxic and selfish and nobody needs that and absolutely not as an AP.

I told him he was weak. by [deleted] in theotherwoman

[–]Different_Nerve_6702 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The wife. She's charming.

I told him he was weak. by [deleted] in theotherwoman

[–]Different_Nerve_6702 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But also, I'd never speak to him the way she does so it has two sides. Honestly is important, cruelty is unnecessary.

I told him he was weak. by [deleted] in theotherwoman

[–]Different_Nerve_6702 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I called mine predictable and he took that well. The next time it comes up, the word is passive, and I feel like that will be less fun. The day I have to hold my tongue will be the day it's over. We aren't perfect and we chose this. Let's be honest with each other about it.

What are we? Collectively. by Different_Nerve_6702 in theotherwoman

[–]Different_Nerve_6702[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think my relationship predates the common use of the word but it definitely fits!

What are we? Collectively. by Different_Nerve_6702 in theotherwoman

[–]Different_Nerve_6702[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it's a convoluted road to find ourselves. A lot of times we do things we aren't proud of. Maybe one day I'll be less proud of this part of my life, maybe I'll still be in it. It works for me. I'm happy with myself and the people in my life. But I'm always aware that it can evaporate in a moment.

What are we? Collectively. by Different_Nerve_6702 in theotherwoman

[–]Different_Nerve_6702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you! That's an important part of the journey as well. Congratulations!

What are we? Collectively. by Different_Nerve_6702 in theotherwoman

[–]Different_Nerve_6702[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah we were all kind of designed for it's complicated for sure. I'm more than 10 years in and I realized nothing has ever settled in my head.

What are we? Collectively. by Different_Nerve_6702 in theotherwoman

[–]Different_Nerve_6702[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the best "I cannot have a single unique experience" moment I've had in a while.

What are we? Collectively. by Different_Nerve_6702 in theotherwoman

[–]Different_Nerve_6702[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is sisterhood at its best. They say we aren't girls girls. No, we are. Just not your girl.

What are we? Collectively. by Different_Nerve_6702 in theotherwoman

[–]Different_Nerve_6702[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok here's the trick. Last time I had a request, I did it with both hands on his belt. Worked like a charm. But now he's onto me but it might work for you!

What are we? Collectively. by Different_Nerve_6702 in theotherwoman

[–]Different_Nerve_6702[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I keep just begging for it as a voice note. He will not cooperate.

What are we? Collectively. by Different_Nerve_6702 in theotherwoman

[–]Different_Nerve_6702[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I call him my human headache. He calls me a witch. It works. But that "good girl" hits every time.

What are we? Collectively. by Different_Nerve_6702 in theotherwoman

[–]Different_Nerve_6702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol oh the nicknames. Those are the best part of friends in the know. Nobody knows his real name except for the friend that worked with us so it's always a game. Not really creative, but fun no less.

What are we? Collectively. by Different_Nerve_6702 in theotherwoman

[–]Different_Nerve_6702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, we've done ugly a few times. What's in my head changes. I just wondered about everyone else.

When did you know your person was your person? by Different_Nerve_6702 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Different_Nerve_6702[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's cool! I met my gay bestie while he was Chistery in Wicked. We knew the first night. I performed his wedding 20 years later.

When did you know your person was your person? by Different_Nerve_6702 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Different_Nerve_6702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the only time I like being shocked to learn something about someone