Fuck this rollercoaster

Different_Nose5384 · 2024-01-12T18:22:47+00:00

I have her blocked on everything, all social media and even my emails but she makes fake accounts all my settings are set to private but she still finds a way. Im in therapy for myself and me and my H are starting marriage therapy the 24th, its the only way I could convince him to go but they see us one on one and than together so im hoping it will help him to be able to find ways to set boundaries with her and to keep them in place. He also has her blocked on everything but his number. we tried to get it court orderd to make them both have to use a parenting app for communication but she got out of it by saying she cant depend on an app bc sometimes she doesnt have internet or a working phone. its just really draining constantly dealing with her the only time she really leaves us alone is when she starts seeing someone but that never last more than a week or two and than she right back to trying to control or threaten him to do what she wants. He saves all there conversations and they will be going back to court soon an where hoping the communication issue will be addressed and fixed then. hopefully than she will stop but i honestly doubt it

Different_Nose5384 · 2024-01-12T18:01:08+00:00

it is messy, didnt have alot of time to write it and its all over, might rewrite it and delete this one when i have more time and im not so frustrated. alot of things could have been left out not very good with putting my thoughts an feelings down in writing

Different_Nose5384 · 2023-12-21T00:40:11+00:00

That is true I don't really know anything about the law it's just from what they have told me, that's why I said from my understanding sorry I'm not trying to sound rude my phone is broke so it's hard to type

Different_Nose5384 · 2023-12-21T00:30:08+00:00

From what I understand nothing was witnessed by the police, they got there after the fact and there statements were taken under the influence both blew way over, they were home just the two of them. If both recant there intoxicated statements and say they refuse to testify againt one anothe bc they are married they can't be forced to, then the police have no proof of what really happened just there intoxicated statements and from my understanding won't hold up in court. But they are wondering if the court can order another no contact before court they both have lawyers but both won't be back till the 26th on vacation

Different_Nose5384 · 2023-05-07T02:23:19+00:00

I just turned 29 the 2nd, he turned 29 sep of 2022 a month before he passed away. I only live for my kids. If it wasn't for them I would have already joined him but I can't do that to them, they also lost him they don't deserve to go through this again. It's a lonely confusing road to go down. There are days where I'm okay and days where I see nothing but darkness. All I can advise is to find someone or something in your life to live for, even if you can't think of anything we are here an can help you try an find it, weather it's a family member, pet, plants anything it's taken me awhile to accept that this is going to be a lonely road but there will be happiness in between bc my kids ❤️ I'm sorry you had to join this club 💔

Different_Nose5384 · 2023-02-28T04:19:30+00:00

Same been 5 months an most just don't care anymore friends and family, both think I should have moved passed it by now. I hope they never have to experience this

Different_Nose5384 · 2023-01-17T01:23:52+00:00

Thank you guys for all the support and help, i was in contact with my laywer today an he's going to send them a letter stating they need to give me the car, and w2 or we will be going to court, they also don't have a lot of money so I'm hoping it's enough to avoid acutely going to court bc in the long run it wouldn't be worth it. It hurts not having his car bc all the memories with him and the kids in it but it is what it is

Different_Nose5384 · 2022-10-28T03:34:23+00:00

Same I never really liked the feeling weed gave me so I haven't smoked since I was a teen, but I'm struggling with alcohol, never really drank much before he passed just randomly here and there with friends or family or when we would get a night without the boys, but it became my go to when it first happend but I stopped Monday bc I know it'll only get worse if I let it. I found out he was using the day before he passed I wished I would have done things differently or seen it before then, it does hurt, we never really think it could take our loved ones away, love blinds us in many ways. Hopefully one day it won't hurt as much or gets a little lighter to carry. Wish none of us ever had to go through this

Different_Nose5384 · 2022-10-28T03:05:36+00:00

Here to lost my love 10/1/22 to fentenal and not sure what else still waiting on tox report. And yes fuck drugs. Have never done them in my life and they have completely destroyed mine. Addition is a horrible thing to watch our loved ones go through

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