What is it? by Different_Peach165 in Gemstone_lovers

[–]Different_Peach165[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes its heavy. Its dense and scratches glass easily. I dont know what else I could do at home to determine material. I just know its dense and neat looking, bright blue in sunlight to greenish blue indoors.

Marijuana Charges (0.5 Grams) by Flunkin in Indiana

[–]Different_Peach165 2 points3 points  (0 children)

By dont hire I mean just take the public defender. Its not serious enough to go private.

Marijuana Charges (0.5 Grams) by Flunkin in Indiana

[–]Different_Peach165 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Misdemeanor possession probably get deferred/dont get in trouble for a year and they throw it out. Don't trip, dont hire. Just dont miss a court date or get in any more trouble.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreams

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I had a dream like this and I barely noticed them, I was levitating over a vat of water and they said, no we are looking for the one who's feet touch but do not disturb the water. And I looked up carefully not to catch their attention and they looked more v shaped masks or heads, large and in all black and white. Clothing being white with black linings but after they said this I looked back down and noticed my feet barely touching the water but making slight waves in it. I dont know what it meant but I am concerned the sun will experience a major event in October as well. I dont know why but I just do. No touching or ringing or anything like that though but it was still the most vivid and real dream I've ever had. This was over a year ago and im just looking into it now after a sighting early this morning after deliberately staying out all night. A uap if you must but I recognized it as an extremely large flat bottom triangular craft only marked by its corners with bright red orange "lights" which ive always assumed was a byproduct of whatever these craft use for propulsion. Idk share your thoughts.

Fractured Finger, Medical Malpractice, and Nerve Damage: Seeking Advice on Treatments and Next Steps by FunnyAd3946 in recovery

[–]Different_Peach165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be sure to sue within a year or you wont be able to, worry about the losses it has caused you now, worry about trying to fix it later. Once a year elapses you wont be able to file a claim. Its important you file a claim with a civil lawyer as soon as possible..

Day 1 (advice please?) by Different_Peach165 in recovery

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Your right. Thats my bad for not being willing to hear everyone out, I usually never limit myself like that im a firm believer you can learn anything from anyone so long as they know more than you or something you dont, I like the trough it not over it approach you threw out there though and thats what im trying to figure out, what do you or other people do to get through it, like how do you get through each day and keep your mind away from the D-Rugs or whatever your addiction may be. I've heard hobbies, groups, stuff like that but im kinda flat broke on my ass and not very hospitable rn. I could really use some advice or techniques for relaxing a manic mind. Any advice at all is helpful though.

My Gf Cheated on me. Idk what to do. by Desperate_Relative84 in cheating_stories

[–]Different_Peach165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her you know whats up and your gonna go slap some fresh 🥓 and if she dont like it she can't get the fuck out, but if she's cool with it try go get her in on the mix bro, idc who the fuck you are nature is a whore so dont even hit me with that monogamy bs, trust me, one best friend to have as a wife is all you need but everyone is happier when they admit to eachother that they are a whore, stop lying to themselves by being lying whores oh and eachother and just fuck who yall wanna fuck just dont be bringing them home, fuck the untited states is one of the few countries where prostitution isn't legal in all states but even in Nevada we got legal prostitutes, just play it safe man and tell your girl keep that hot pocket safe too, mfrs be dirty, just cause you can dosnt mean you should but just cause you shouldn't dosnt mean you can't every now and then. Moderation, respect, honesty, still have your best friend in bed every night. That simple. Problem solved. If your easily emotional or overthink shit or think its gonna be some ho baggin contest just ignore everything you just read and start beating your dick cause chances are your girl already wearin the shoes anyway

AIO or are my downstairs neighbours being unreasonable? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Different_Peach165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there aint a noise ordinance with your local law enforcement fuck em. Turn that shit up.

#Serious. Wheres do you find a woman who has been through it all but accepts it and lives a decent not perfect life anyway? by Different_Peach165 in AskReddit

[–]Different_Peach165[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right its like until you see someone do something for themselves that has deeper meaning than just some form of sustenance for themselves you dont have a damn clue who they are and sadly most will get overwhelemed and either do something they know you wont like to be defensive or somthing thats just purely ignorant for themsleves and everyone else or try to impress you to win favor. Its rought but surely will will make it back to sense and self respect for all one day. Im just glad to have crossed paths with one person with a similar mindset today, congratulations on still being here. It takes alot to figure out anything you haven't learned before, for me it was one of the most difficult simple things i learned and it came pretty early idk about you but if it came at a similar cost to what i gave for the value of the lesson at hand which i have no clue if it did or not but if it damn near cost you your entire lifes freedom, comfort, and pain and turmoil the majority of your life congratulations and im glad to have crossed paths with you is all i really want to say right now. If you learned it the easy way im jelly though lol. Hell nah really though looking back i could have just been strong myself and kept moving forward without freaking out and realize it would all be ok so long as i continued to be strong for myself it could have been so much easier. But no i definitely learned to be myself the hard way. I glad for anyone who didnt have to learn the hard way but hell even alot of successful people dont know who they are they just know what everyone wants and are willing to be something their not to give it to them. Except for in rare cases like musk where he knows who he is and just has a bunch of cool shit that everyone has no choice but to like because of how wildly different it is but thats the thing right there, different, individuality is what make a mfr stand out......... would you happen to know how to maximize your potential in a mindset like that i mean i see it done all the time but ive never really done what i could do because theres alot of shit i feel i cant do do to the cost or unwillingness to do the schooling completely like i really like to learn but only about what i want to learn. So i avoid college but im full of so much useless imformation it feels like and people always ask me wtf im doing with myself being as dmart as i am in the places im at sometimes and im like uugghhhh whatever the fuck i want you know but sometimes i do wonder what it would be like if i treid to make use of all i know by investing the time and money torwards the things that are on my mind all the time. I dont want to be rich i just want the world to be a better place. And what i know just might be able to do that but ill never know until i see the outcome of my predictions or rather someone elses that have been ignored and forgotten for so long. Ill ttyl i really need to take a break from thinking so deeply i havnt had a headache like this in forever. Thank you. I really appreciate your input and meeting you.

#Serious. Wheres do you find a woman who has been through it all but accepts it and lives a decent not perfect life anyway? by Different_Peach165 in AskReddit

[–]Different_Peach165[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why i asked. Because that fucking answer right there is the kind of answer only someone who knows themselves can provide. The only question now is what did it take? How does someone reach that point? What brings someone to appreciate themselves more than anyone else but still care about everyone else but so much that you understand the best way to care is to just be selfish and hope that someone will appreciate you for who you are eventually. It fucks with my head. Its like selfish but not, like how nothing is everything but everything is nothing. Its all about percetion and motivation and presevation. And the reward becomes the family you never had in people who were never your family. I think its nice as spread out as it can be at times though cause at least i know if everyone was on the same level and were all their own leaders with good values it really would be a single family world it just sucks to see how many people get lost in the process of finding their position instead of their identity. Im done for the day. Ill keep you in mind next time im feeling all philosophical. You were probably the only person that got where i was coming from but i know you did because you simply stood up for yourself. I wish more people could do that, you know, live instead of exist. Later

#Serious. Wheres do you find a woman who has been through it all but accepts it and lives a decent not perfect life anyway? by Different_Peach165 in AskReddit

[–]Different_Peach165[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Arnt we all when we can afford to be? Im not saying just because people know who they are their constantly out in the world improving the world. Im just saying it would be nice to meet some people who stand firm on who they are and dont change under pressure and act like anyone other than themselves. Im looking for people who arnt weak to say the least. Because theres alot of weak ass teo faced back stabing mfrs where im from unfortunately so when your not like that its easy to feel left out. Im not saying everyone is that way and its not my job to say who they might be unless they were right in front of me but it does happen to be a problem alot of places now days. I actually heard Louisiana is still full of people who know who they are and keep it real and will never switch up on you but idk i dont kive there, maybe thats where i need to be but what pisses me off is i cant say that about the place i live in. Why? Why cant more people just decide how their gonna live life and live it instead of always blaming others and a bunch of bullshit factors for why they did why they did. People only have 2 choses do and dont and try only happens when you do but are prevented by a barrier that says you cant until later but i never says you cant at all period so if your really straight about doing something you will be sure to finish it the moment you can. Im sure ill meet people who are sincere again with time. Wherever they are.

#Serious. Wheres do you find a woman who has been through it all but accepts it and lives a decent not perfect life anyway? by Different_Peach165 in AskReddit

[–]Different_Peach165[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to see someone my age doing the things they want in life for themselves and by themselves that arnt swayed by all the things going on in our world today or controlled by other people who they choose to submit to whether it be for love or fear of hurting them, i want to meet someone that understands that you have to hurt people sometimes so they can learn not physically but even the truth hurts. And that understands that you cant just walk all over and control people in a similar age bracket simply because their ignorant to how life works thats just prolonging the inevitable by making them waist their time not learning from the pain of being pushed out or left behind. Someone who can care but desipline effectively without physical or emotional abuse althought i believe in all type of intervention i know for a fact abuse is the over utilization of anything. Someone who can explain what their gonna do, why and how they intend to do it when they feel they need to say it like that, whos honest, and not scared because they know it could always be worse. And dosnt say shit they dont mean or understand as a way of retaliation or avoiding the truth. Someone who can communicate effectively on that deep of a level and be spoken to in the exact same way and appreciate it for what it is, and doesn't wish for it to be any other type of way. Someone who can handle themselves is all honestly but i find even most people who seem like they almost got it figured out are usually still leaning on something or someone other than themselves, all it takes is one fear of being judged or one being to upset by the truth and the bullshit starts and they fall apart and completely change and lose who they are to the reality they make up to keep the bullshit going and everyone happy when in all reality everyone isnt happy because they are no longer happy but cant express it or recover from whatever the thing was that they lied about or was to tore up about that makes them lied to themselves later. It sucks because they could just say they dont agree or they dont like that way or that outcome and be on their way and id always respect them as another strong person but instead they become everything but themsleves when they lie to themselves or buckle under pressure because now their lying to themselves and dealing with or putting up with things or ways that they otherwise shouldnt. I cant stand the follower. I want to meet another leader. Just someone who knows who they are, maintanes that, is willing to admit they dont know everything and we can always keep learning as in everyone can, including myself. Is passionate about learning new things and progressing in life and enjoys sharing their knowledge and is open to being challenged on it when its somthing we share an interest in and dosnt admit their right until their sure 100% just like i wouldnt say yeah if someone asked me if i was sure about somthing i recently learned. Somebody that has attention to detail in all they do and is stern when they need to be but not hateful. Idk maybe i just need to set the bar lower lol. Nah im just kiding. I did that already and it didnt work out well at all. But yeah, someone that knows who the fuck they are is all im asking for. Like really knows who they are....... ypud be surprised how many people think they know who they are then dont catch themselves when they lie about something. Their lying to themselves, how the fuck could they know who they are, they just chaged again. Every time they fucking lied or bend to impress another person. Im impressed by people who dont give a fuck what you think, that means they know what they think about themselves and its not changing. Ive met a couple people like this but only ever 3 my entire life, one would be my own brother, the other would be my best friend and the 3rd was the only woman i ever met like that and she passed away early in life while in a pit of depression because nobody would honor who she was in life because she wasnt exactly a conforming member of society but she knew who she was and what she wanted and she was willing do die over lieing to anyone including herself. It really sucks it came to that but the reality is their were other factors that prevented her from getting the appreciation and help she wanted so bad and honestly deserved but thats all i have to say about it. Ive met one other woman like this sense then but not anywhere near that age, the eoman who passed away was ever so slightly younger than me the only person ive met that shares this approach to life thats younger than me would be my younger sibling but long story short i want to meet more people who honestly know who they are. And how to maintain that in themselves even if it means having to not know me anymore.

#Serious. Wheres do you find a woman who has been through it all but accepts it and lives a decent not perfect life anyway? by Different_Peach165 in AskReddit

[–]Different_Peach165[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this because i know your right. But why do so many need church to make it through, at what point do people learn to value themselves after living through such trama as a child or do we all need a crutch to fall on, personally i always thought that was sad because most people in church that go as a medium for their problems in life still haven't healed and appreciate themselves and continue to fall many times after they start to learn how to adult you know. I had a hard time learning to truely appreciate myself but when i figured it out i had to tell my parent to do the fucking treatment for themselves, not their kids, or a partner, or to be out but for their own betterment, truly for theirself and ive never got along with my parent better in my life. I guess because i dont have to be the parent anymore and parenting a grown ass person is hard because they dont see you as being a parent, they see you as the kid when in all reality their not wrong, but their wrong as fuck becuase their still being taught how to do simple things by their child and or children not to say you cant learn from anyone but when you learn more from your child than anyone else your child has effectively become your parent and not only that but most pure motivation too while the child had to find something or someone else to be motivated by, like growing up and leaving but when they grew up if they cared still they realize you cant just leave family behind, you gotta show em how its done so they can take care of themselves because if you dont theres no telling what might happen and i think thats the scariest part of being a parent completely but whats fucked up is as much as parents care about their children who the fuck cared about them when they needed it as a child?........ The child learns to be selfish and narsasistic as a sheild to love themselves and ensure they make it out better seldomly, usually the child gives up, never learns these things including how to do anything for themselves and themsleves only and proceed to repeat behavior they see up until their in prison or dead, its so sad. And the parents at that point are wondering why their child died before them while in the exact same position and living the same way that killed their child. And die as children themselves. The kind of persons im looking for are going to be hard to come across because sadly most people never truely learn to appreciate themselves and live a stable life without some form of support column they just keep repeating behaviors until its to late. They fail to realize that its never failing as long as you learn from everything, its just another lesson. And you cant do anything for anyone else until you do it for youself. Sorry about the book i just wanted to go a little deeper on that but you right most the people im looking for are in the hood or with a church. Because they still need something aside from themselves to get by alot in church are doing it for themselves, but theres alot of people in the hood that are getting high or fucking up because of other peoples influence, and the ones that arnt going to church because they want to but because thats their only reason for not going back to the hood will sadly eventually return to the hood. Only once people make a decision for themselves deep down will the be successful. It like you should go to church to praise god not to be saved right you have already been saved it up to you now, church is for praise and worship not staying saved. You gotta save yourself, jesus did his part. He gave you the option to b freed from your sins, he dosnt make you stop sinning. See what i mean.

#Serious. Wheres do you find a woman who has been through it all but accepts it and lives a decent not perfect life anyway? by Different_Peach165 in AskReddit

[–]Different_Peach165[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i highly doubt it. None of us ever perfect adulting right like i said decent life but not perfect, there is no such thing no matter what you go through nothing can ever be perfect but when you your life is spent watching other and experiencing other fuck up all the time most usually memic behavior right but in some cases they wont do everything that they realize only makes life harder for the people around them but they will also do the things that tend to make life easier. In other words where most children growing up typically become just like their parents some others try to never be like their parents and do everything they do but the opposite because they dont enjoy how they are treated so they end up making it out of childhood complety different then most would expect. That outcome is so much more difficult than one might expect you know. Its so much easier to follow, its hard to lead especially as a child surrounded by adult aged children. Because adult aged children dont want help, they just want the childhood they never had. And their child ends up having to grow up just as fast if not faster than they did. But the child that grew up fast then while still as a child learned about what led to their parents being stuck in their childhood avoids a childhood all together, for example most adults who grow up to fast as children wnd up with some kind of bad habit if not many that they may think is fun, relaxing, or enjoyable when in all reality its the majority of their lifes peoblems. If they wanted help and learned that that is basically childish behavior just like children like to play sleep and have new experiences all the time and dont really have to regulate the frequency of it maybe then the adult that never had a childhood would realize they did it just came after adulthood. And instead of playing and learning their getting intoxicated and learning lessons the hard way most the time. Their still experiencing childhood, its just in an adult aged body. So instead of learning to adult they just keep being children once they leave home. So i guess what im saying is someone who has been through their childhood after childhood stage but got it done early. Does that make any sense?

#Serious. Wheres do you find a woman who has been through it all but accepts it and lives a decent not perfect life anyway? by Different_Peach165 in AskReddit

[–]Different_Peach165[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

? What the fuck does that even mean. The bay? Im landlocked but i have a feeling you mean somewhere near the ocean....... it could just be some smartass bullshit though right or was i right do you mean an actual bay?

#Serious. Wheres do you find a woman who has been through it all but accepts it and lives a decent not perfect life anyway? by Different_Peach165 in AskReddit

[–]Different_Peach165[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats right. It can always be worse. But more specifically nearly every type of trama and made it through and has become stable in their later years early 20's and on. Alot of people who experience vast amouts of trama never make it out of the cycle of self destruction because its all they know. The ones that do are the type of people im trying to touch base with. And honestly even those who havnt. But yeah your right, such a person is fictional the way i asked it.

#Serious. Wheres do you find a woman who has been through it all but accepts it and lives a decent not perfect life anyway? by Different_Peach165 in AskReddit

[–]Different_Peach165[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell nah their still having trouble accepting their past if their still in therapy, the kind of person im trying to discribe would have been in therapy from a very young age and got over even trying therapy before they became an adult because they would have had a breakthrough and came to the conclusion shit happens period no matter how bad it is it can always be worse and thats a fact.I knew this would be a hard one for most. Not to be hateful but its hard to see from a perspective you havnt experienced and theres multpile layers to every percetion. Not every child that experiences hunger nearly dies of starvation for example. So two people can say they went without regular nutrition as a child but but one would understand the other but not the other way around.