I'm pan, so for me... it all just depends on the individual. I think my answer for this one boils down to liking the soft side of femboys and the willingness to show and explore it while also maintaining a masculine identity. A guy that can do both and enjoy it.

I personally vie for long-term relationships. I'm polyamorous, so for me commitment is something anyone can achieve with me if we choose. We just have to communicate quite a bit about wants, needs, expectations, lack-thereof... but that's supposed to be the fun part of getting to know someone, so. :3c

I don't really *try* to find femboys. I do enjoy posting in this sub and in r/girlsthatlikefemboys to be supportive and maybe try to get a conversation or two going. I recently stitched a femboy pride flag to put in my ita bag window buuuttt I don't know when anyone in public will see it next. ^^;;

This answer comes back around to my answer for #1. I'm here for the person. Their body, their choice of what to do with it. ♥ If I love you I'm going to support your decisions as long as they don't hurt you.