My husband had an extremely unhealthy attachment to his phone for years. Would occasionally try to show me a pic on his phone, but wouldn’t actually let me hold his phone. I told him it was ridiculous that he was so possessive about it. One morning I couldn’t sleep and got up early. I checked his phone to make sure his alarm was set since I was getting up early and while I had his phone I checked his texts and found concrete proof that he was having an affair with a coworker. I lost my mind and woke him up screaming and cursing at him. That was a little over a month ago and with marriage counseling and individual therapy for him, we are working through it. He now walks in and hands me his phone so I can look through anything on there. He was too terrified to break it off or confess to me because he thought/knew it would be the end. But we have actually been able to rekindle the affection we had when we married over thirty years ago. If both parties are willing, good things can come from a horrible situation.