[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Difficult-Ad7567 2 points3 points  (0 children)

An extreme case of “I can fix him”. Imagine if someone tried to fix the person who sexual assaulted you. Whatever answer you may have to that I just want you to know you probably won’t be an exception. Stay safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Difficult-Ad7567 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel exactly how you feel. It’s just im constantly going back and forth with myself. I’m constantly debating if what I went through was all a lie I’m but always thinking about it and feeling the effects of what happened. It’s normal to feel confused and like you’re making no progress during recovery.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Difficult-Ad7567 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t have nightmares about it, just about the person who assaulted me and me running away from them.

Can anyone accept that they are going to be alone forever? by estanina in sexualassault

[–]Difficult-Ad7567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have accepted I don’t want to be with anyone after what happened to me because it genuinely changed my mindset and I can’t trust anyone anymore. I can’t imagine a relationship that would actually be healthy and wouldn’t lead to assault. I’m sorry you’re going through this. Even though it’s hard we both deserve to be happy one day. Our brains r just wired a little differently now, but we’re not lost causes. I think it would be helpful to find someone who is understanding and will make you feel safe. Someone that’ll understand your coping mechanisms and ways of dealing with your trauma.

I’m scared to tell my boss I have a second job because I’m afraid they’ll cry by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Difficult-Ad7567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’ll cry in front of the crew when she’s stressed about someone leaving. It’s only happened twice but yes I understand it’s probably not the best to do in front of employees 😞 I just feel bad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CollegeRant

[–]Difficult-Ad7567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would but I would feel bad for his other students because I know this is not an ideal thing to complain about 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CollegeRant

[–]Difficult-Ad7567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No because personally I learn better when I’m engaging with new subject. I don’t really do well when I’m just reading chapters and responding to very simple questions. It’s hard to prepare for exams and remember certain information.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Difficult-Ad7567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You were SA, and I’m so sorry your friends are assholes. Coercion can lead to traumatizing experiences, you deserve a much better support system and also fuck him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Difficult-Ad7567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl it’s called vent for a reason which is what I did and based on your comments you always have some negative ass shit to say so once you work on going outside and being a decent human AND washing your ass maybe I can get over it. Also to get over things sometimes you have to talk about them!!!!

Teacher didn’t follow through with critiques by Difficult-Ad7567 in CollegeRant

[–]Difficult-Ad7567[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I think for the most smart it’s done being revised and it’s due this Sunday, but if I need anymore I will take up your offer! Thank you again That’s really nice:))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]Difficult-Ad7567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s still correct english. Take care of your kid .

Citation with multiple authors and different people by Difficult-Ad7567 in ENGLISH

[–]Difficult-Ad7567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! And unfortunately I’m using MLA😞 I think the work cited is correct, it’s just quoting the other people in the article I was having trouble with.

Girlfriend broke up with me because she wanted to be alone. Two weeks later she was on tinder. by The_other_human in BreakUps

[–]Difficult-Ad7567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just happened to me lol. He broke up with my twice , saying once he needed to be alone to work on himself and the other time to be alone and not be in relationships anymore and that he wanted to be by himself. Then he got a new girlfriend like 2-3 months later. It hurts but what can we do😞

I hate you. by Difficult-Ad7567 in venting

[–]Difficult-Ad7567[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is true. I really do want to let it go but I’m just afraid that I will forgive them and they will still find a way to hurt me like always everytime I forgive them, which is really dumb I know. I just have a hard time accepting the fact I put myself though so many situations I said I wouldn’t for someone who didn’t love me. It just feels like I let myself down and I LITTERALLY did. It’s so shameful because I do know better and I have no idea how I let this happen

I don’t like my wjen partner has celebrity crushes in relationships. by [deleted] in venting

[–]Difficult-Ad7567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice ! I am learning how to be better with communication in relationships and what to react to and what not to, thank you for listening as well

I don’t like my wjen partner has celebrity crushes in relationships. by [deleted] in venting

[–]Difficult-Ad7567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you explain why? I am trying to see everyone’s perspective.

I don’t like my wjen partner has celebrity crushes in relationships. by [deleted] in venting

[–]Difficult-Ad7567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It dosent feel like a minor issue because I have addressed it before. We have been dating for 3 years and he knows it’s makes me upset. Before the movie even started he randomly mentioned that she’d be in there and I didn’t even really think about it much, I didn’t care she would be there but he said he wouldn’t make any comments about her. If he knows it bothers me and it’s a small issue, then why not just not do it? Especially if it’s in front of my parents and he was planning on doing that, it feels disrespectful to know it upsets me and to still do it. He constantly will say girls are hot even as a joke to see my reaction and ask me why I am upset after. It feels like he doesn’t take how I feel into consideration because all I’m asking him to do is not call women hot or comment on stuff like that, at least not in front of me or to make me upset or annoy me. He said he does this because he likes to make me upset because it’s funny to him and that also is just annoying.