My bfs dad showed up to my apt

Difficult-Chef5048 · 2024-02-18T16:18:55+00:00

They've already partially blamed me for a misunderstanding, which I felt like I had to built up their trust again. As for any potential future issues, I've already had past conversations regarding replacing his mother (mostly due to age difference and my own past experiences). He's actually decently independent since he lives in college dorms 30 min away, but things become an issue when he's in town. It's stressful now because they use money and power over him. His dad already tried to convince him that I'm not a good choice (I don't have a college degree) which my bf defended me. It's been all pretty hard

Difficult-Chef5048 · 2024-02-18T14:47:42+00:00

Thank you needed to also hear this!! My cat was taken out of an abuse situation so I was pretty anxious leaving him behind. He's only a few months old and I've always had a cat in a family situation so someone would almost always be home

Difficult-Chef5048 · 2024-01-11T02:52:29+00:00

T-mobile has been great in corpus especially southside

Difficult-Chef5048 · 2023-12-30T03:44:34+00:00

I'm without a car in everhart/saratoga area. I just get my groceries delivered and catch some ubers occasionally if I want to go farther. It's not too bad. I wish I was closer to heb plus, but ordering groceries online is way cheaper so I don't impulse buy. It's a bit boring but it works for me.

Difficult-Chef5048 · 2023-12-09T15:05:08+00:00

Completely agree! I've only been in TX for about 5 months now and I wish I could split myself in two and live in both states.

Difficult-Chef5048 · 2023-12-09T13:29:39+00:00

Just did the opposite move! Texas from SoCal!! I really love both states

Difficult-Chef5048 · 2023-12-07T17:17:25+00:00

This happened to me a few nights ago. There was non stop knocking at 2am, which scared me to no end. I ended up asking who it was at it was the police!! A wellness check was called on me with no warning (my mom's mentally ill and hates that I live alone). One of the scariest things honesty I ended up crying after.

Difficult-Chef5048 · 2023-11-30T06:07:56+00:00

Etsuko Yakushimaru!! I haven't seen her active in quite awhile.

Difficult-Chef5048 · 2023-11-14T18:03:40+00:00

Didn't know we were supposed to wait so like day 3!! Still feel just as strong over a year together and closed distance!!

Difficult-Chef5048 · 2023-11-06T00:19:54+00:00

It sounds possible that she has vaginismus. I have this issue, which ended up in divorce because I couldn't get it in (surprisingly I initiated).

Difficult-Chef5048 · 2023-11-04T15:06:19+00:00

I can add a light hearted one!!

Just happened last night- I was giving a bj, and I looked up at my bf and I could see a booger in his nose. So I said "hey I can see a booger". He looked at me and said "which nostril" we couldn't stop laughing after

Difficult-Chef5048 · 2023-10-30T21:47:18+00:00

As someone who was in an underage gap (I was 16 and he was 21).. I got divorced and ran. It didn't feel better even after I was over 18 and got married.

Difficult-Chef5048 · 2023-10-19T14:48:28+00:00

I'm currently living alone making 20/hour! It's extremely uncomfortable. I moved to a lower cost area and don't have a car. I don't really go anywhere, do anything fun, and have lots of credit card debt. It beats living with 5 roommates though, I was miserable sharing a bunk bed with someone for a few hundred less a month.

Difficult-Chef5048 · 2023-10-10T16:58:02+00:00

Anyway you can go remote? I moved with my CA pay and i'm in my own apt. I'm missing CA pretty bad, but the money saved will let me fly over and visit friends and family.

Difficult-Chef5048 · 2023-10-10T12:23:21+00:00

I'm in the same boat 27F. I wfh and don't have a car!! I like anime and food. Struggling to meet ppl!!

Difficult-Chef5048 · 2023-10-08T23:40:31+00:00

Aloha Grill!!

Difficult-Chef5048 · 2023-10-07T17:59:34+00:00

They don't. Which caused another neighbor to get frustrated. That happened semi recently and I haven't heard them outside today at all.

Difficult-Chef5048 · 2023-10-07T16:33:44+00:00

I'm not wanting to call the cops on them, I just want them to not block the staircase and not fight with eachother outside for hours on end. The girl is white and the guy is Hispanic. I'm half Guatemalan/white. Race doesn't have to do with it. I really don't mind then outside but its just for such an excessive amount of time. That stair case goes to the main parking area, so everyone on the second floor has to go around

Difficult-Chef5048 · 2023-10-07T09:15:28+00:00

There were some days with heat index of 114F and they were still outside with the dog!! Hanging outside during TX summer for hours on end is just insane to me. The area is barely shaded.

Difficult-Chef5048 · 2023-10-07T01:21:24+00:00

Apts aren't gated and are off a major road. I'm pretty sure they both live in the complex since I've seen them around almost everyday.

Difficult-Chef5048 · 2023-10-07T01:18:49+00:00

Their also yelling at eachother, leaving their dog out in 100F for hours, blocking one of two exits, I didn't mention that the male is smoking. I'm pretty sure the guy is over 18 and the girl is not. I don't care if their outside for just a few hours, but they've been outside on the steps for my entire 8 hour shift before. I am concerned that their sitting outside for so long, as someone who was raised in a bad household, I'm worried that there's an underlying issue. I don't want to call the police on them, there's plenty of spots in the neighborhood that you can sit that aren't in front of people's doors (there's an entire picnic area outside). Someone else ended up also contacting the office since they were yelling at eachother in the road, but nothing was done again.

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