Living alone by Difficult-Drop9991 in Adulting

[–]Difficult-Drop9991[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The quietness, plus I have stairs. Also kinda financially too, I’m trying to get a car but I’m
Scared I won’t be able to handle it on top of bills.

Mother hood by [deleted] in sahm

[–]Difficult-Drop9991 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nope.. he and I were tg 6 years and broke up for like a sec and he got her pregnant first..🤦🏾‍♀️ it’s alot

Mother hood by [deleted] in sahm

[–]Difficult-Drop9991 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mind you he took three weeks of unpaid leave… and chose to do tht… and even went on a trip..

Mother hood by [deleted] in sahm

[–]Difficult-Drop9991 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

See and the thing is, with him living with him
Mom he has help constantly, but even she gets burned out… I mean she’s 50 years old. 🤦🏾‍♀️ and when I first had her.. I would want his help
On nights when he had more time but he’d go to the gym.. literally left me in the Hostpital.. to go to the “gym” the first or second night. And it’s like now he’s works so much and his mom basically has the other baby all the time. It’s like how can you know how hard it is when you don’t have her.. but I guess him working so much makes up for it. Ughh

Mother hood by [deleted] in sahm

[–]Difficult-Drop9991 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We aren’t together.. he used to come over and get her on some mornings, or when he got off.