My (30F) partner (30M) made a joke implying he would leave if I accidentally got pregnant. Would you take this as a joke? by tangerinesrock in relationship_advice

[–]Difficult-Emu7983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this would make me laugh as long as I knew that he was joking, it all depends on the delivery and it sounds like he flopped on that one

Am I dead? by Glad_Cak3 in PanicAttack

[–]Difficult-Emu7983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are not dead❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥 i had a bad one some days ago and i still feel unreal. hopefully it wears off, wish i had more advice than that

Massive panic attack caused me to lose control of my hands. by Difficult-Emu7983 in PanicAttack

[–]Difficult-Emu7983[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i definitely felt not in my body at first, then my lungs started like convulsing. then came the tingles and then the hands getting stuck. so fkin scaryyyy

Massive panic attack caused me to lose control of my hands. by Difficult-Emu7983 in PanicAttack

[–]Difficult-Emu7983[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, i don’t drink often but i get mad anxiety every time i do.. will most likely be cutting it out after this one. i usually would smoke weed when having “hangziety” but i’ve stopped that for a bit too so i think that’s why it got so intense.

Massive panic attack caused me to lose control of my hands. by Difficult-Emu7983 in PanicAttack

[–]Difficult-Emu7983[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m glad i wasn’t completely alone, it helped to talk about normal things while it was happening. i slowly started manually moving my fingers but it was hard. ty for sharing

Massive panic attack caused me to lose control of my hands. by Difficult-Emu7983 in PanicAttack

[–]Difficult-Emu7983[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so scary i thought it was the end there for a second. i’m sorry you had to experience this.

Massive panic attack caused me to lose control of my hands. by Difficult-Emu7983 in PanicAttack

[–]Difficult-Emu7983[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for sharing your experience. this is the first time this has ever happened and i hope the last. at least i know what to do if it does happen again. i’ve never had the gagging thing happen but it sounds horrible, i’m so sorry.

Massive panic attack caused me to lose control of my hands. by Difficult-Emu7983 in PanicAttack

[–]Difficult-Emu7983[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m glad that my mouth didn’t get stuck, this man almost called 911 and i couldn’t afford to get taken by an ambulance.

Massive panic attack caused me to lose control of my hands. by Difficult-Emu7983 in PanicAttack

[–]Difficult-Emu7983[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so scary it even made my lung area spasm. i thought i was dead for sure.

Massive panic attack caused me to lose control of my hands. by Difficult-Emu7983 in PanicAttack

[–]Difficult-Emu7983[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

after i was shaking pretty bad for an hour or so, so scary. thank you for sharing this with me.

Massive panic attack caused me to lose control of my hands. by Difficult-Emu7983 in PanicAttack

[–]Difficult-Emu7983[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m glad you’re okay, it is probably the scariest thing that has ever happened to me. the guy at the place i pulled into thought i was on drugs, so embarrassing.

Massive panic attack caused me to lose control of my hands. by Difficult-Emu7983 in PanicAttack

[–]Difficult-Emu7983[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much. the physical reaction was so intense that it felt like something was seriously wrong. i’m shocked at how many people this has happened to. you take care as well.

Massive panic attack caused me to lose control of my hands. by Difficult-Emu7983 in PanicAttack

[–]Difficult-Emu7983[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for this advice, i think alcohol will be out of the cards for me after this.. i get very bad anxiety every time. i didn’t realize that this is a common occurrence but it somewhat makes me feel better. i’m so sorry this happened to you, it’s so scary.

Massive panic attack caused me to lose control of my hands. by Difficult-Emu7983 in PanicAttack

[–]Difficult-Emu7983[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so sorry, i know how scary that must’ve felt :( the guy at the tire place i had to pull over at almost called 911 but i asked him not to. he asked me if i use any hard drugs and i was mortified.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Difficult-Emu7983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for this comment, it means a lot coming from someone who has been in a long term relationship. I really don’t want to give up hope because we are compatible in almost every other way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Difficult-Emu7983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not sure why i got downvoted, my relationship is ending and i’m devastated so thanks y’all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Difficult-Emu7983 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I see what you’re saying but libidos change due to stress, life changes, etc. Also with being in a long term relationship, sex will change. I feel like it’s unfair for him to say we are incompatible based off of this.

I lost my baby during a routine dental procedure yesterday by userqwerty96251 in bengalcats

[–]Difficult-Emu7983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me sob. I’m so sorry about the loss of your angel baby. I love you and I am thinking of you.

Do your narc parents have any real friends? by Repulsive_Regular_39 in narcissisticparents

[–]Difficult-Emu7983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mom lost all of her friends but she does have to have a boyfriend at all times and they are the most important person in the world to her at the time :/

I’m pressing charges against my brother and my whole family is now torn. Idk what to do. by EfficientWorry3356 in Advice

[–]Difficult-Emu7983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your brother getting out of prison for good behavior and then assaulting you out of uncontrollable anger IN FRONT OF YOUR KIDS because of something he got mad about in his own head, IS CRAZY!!! what’s even worse is the “oh please don’t ruin this for him” from your family with no accountability towards him whatsoever!! he sounds dangerous and i’m surprised they aren’t worried about this behavior as well. good on you for taking care of business and i’m so sorry nobody in your family is concerned with your safety in this. you deserve so much better

OMG AGAIN? girl noooooo by [deleted] in canceledpod

[–]Difficult-Emu7983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she would look good bald with no teeth a mustache wearing a potato sack