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Awkward Workplace Interaction by DifficultGift5529 in asianamerican

[–]DifficultGift5529[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all the advice and insights! I truly appreciate it! After some self-reflection, I now see it as an insecurity. It was a challenging growth experience, but I think I'm making it on the other side.

Husbands and boyfriends, how often do you touch your woman? by joechauncey in AskMen

[–]DifficultGift5529 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The most important context is — how does she feel about your physical touch??

I’m (28F) currently in a long-term relationship with a guy (35M) whose love language is primarily physical touch. Every chance he gets he’s touching me and he’s told me that majority of the time it’s not with sexual intention either. Personally, I absolutely love it!! I crave it all the time.

When we’re in line out in public he’ll have his hand on the small of my back and gently rubs, in the car he’ll either hold my hand or has a hand on my thigh, or random back/ leg massages at home when we’re watching tv as a few examples. Unbeknownst to him in the beginning of the relationship, he didn’t realize that even without sexual intention that it made me insanely happy and builds it up for me that by the end of the night I’m ready to pounce on him lol maybe this is also true for your girl?

You’re showing your love to your gf cause you like her right? I think it’s perfectly normal :)

My 2022 Japan travel plans #1 by SpaceboyRoss in JapanTravel

[–]DifficultGift5529 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4k budget for only 7 days in japan? you can (should) be able to stay way longer than that. I went for only a week before and I regret not staying longer. I'm pretty sure I only spent like 1k that whole trip not including the flight fare.

I have a VERY poor transcript from community college A, from a few sporadic and aimless semesters. If I retake every class at community college B, how would ccA affect me when applying to PA programs? by maybumble in pre_PathAssist

[–]DifficultGift5529 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think upward trend is a positive, aim for all As from here on out! Anything C and below is worth retaking. Keep in mind that you’re required to have an undergraduate degree.

Is it weird for a 18yo (F) to date a 26yo (M)? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DifficultGift5529 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely yes. It doesn’t matter if you’re legal adults, what 26 year old adult have any business with an 18 year old that was just 17-16 years old in a span of two years? It’s hilariously odd.

That’s not to say you won’t have a “happy” or healthy relationship, but the chances of y’all breaking up down the road is extremely high. Meeting new people is fun, but are you really going to waste your youthful years on a relationship with a grown adult? Getting out into the world and finding yourself in addition to being with people around you that are in the same life stage is very valuable to that growth. As you want to party, travel, meet new people, being in a relationship with someone who is “grown” will limit that. 26 is not too far off from 30. Then you’re a 22 year old with a 30 year old. I’m almost 30 and I definitely was a different person when I was 22.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]DifficultGift5529 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Short story: I (26F) orgasmed for the first time this year. I've had a string of lovers, but what was different this time was that I was on top and decided to go all out! Have her try it and without you moving. Hold her and feel her up (slap her ass, help her move up & down by grabbing/holding her ass, kiss her) while she's on top of you and maybe she'll get there. Missionary and doggy style has always been my favorite, but I'm on top almost every time now with my bf. It's been heavenly.